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Groundbreaking Initiative to Transform Crown Heights Wedding Costs

Keren Hachomesh assumed exclusive operational responsibility for the Oholei Torah Ballroom in Crown Heights to offer an All-Expenses-Included Wedding Package, COLlive has learned. Full Story

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Mom
January 19, 2026 1:04 pm

This is so much appreciated. IYH!!! I can sleep at night without wondering how I am going to pay for weddings

takanos
Reply to  Mom
January 19, 2026 2:05 pm

why are you stressing not takonos? these communities make wedding not for half, but for a third or a quarter the price!!!

No takanah halls pls
Reply to  takanos
January 19, 2026 7:21 pm

Have you been to any of those weddings? Many are very shvach. The point here is to lower the cost yet still keep the beauty and simcha of a wedding theere

a shliach
Reply to  Mom
January 19, 2026 10:05 pm

I agree this is beautiful, but let’s be honest, your saving around 5k off regular prices, not half. Its a bit misleading. Everyone please do your own research! Also I would love if we have the option of cohen catering as well.

Plz elaborate
Reply to  a shliach
January 19, 2026 11:50 pm

Curious how you make a wedding today for 34,500? Can you break it down? All the people I know who have made comparable weddings in OT have paid between 45-60k.

a shliach
Reply to  Plz elaborate
January 20, 2026 10:32 am

This “basic” package has around 5k of savings off regular prices.
The hall was 5k including kitchen rental.
The musician is $2500-$2700.
The flowers they are offering are 2k.
The pictures package is 5k right now anyways.
And the caterer is regular 20k.
So now your stuck with his caterer. His photographer etc and yes bh it’s a 5k savings (definitely is a help) but let’s not fool ourselves that it’s half off. Or CV turn others away from a “regular” wedding thinking it’s 60k for a basic! It’s no where near that…

Amazing!
January 19, 2026 1:09 pm

Thank you for making it happen! It’s about time!! I would just suggest another choice for photography so there’s options

More photography choices
January 19, 2026 1:10 pm

Pls try to include one more option!

Thank you Keren Hachomesh!
January 19, 2026 1:10 pm

This is so needed. It sounds like so much thought went into it. I can’t wait to all the details of the package.

Yack
January 19, 2026 1:13 pm

No mashka for anyone under 21 with legal identity

What
Reply to  Yack
January 19, 2026 3:01 pm

Where did you see this

Is that all?
Reply to  Yack
January 19, 2026 3:28 pm

Hatzlacha

Finally!
January 19, 2026 1:13 pm

Heard about it from the grapevine . . . Kol HaKavod to everyone who made this happen. Special shout-out to Shneur Brook for his commitment and hard work seeing this through!

Yes !!
Reply to  Finally!
January 19, 2026 5:01 pm

Shneur is actually the best!!

UNBELIEVABLE! But
January 19, 2026 1:15 pm

This is so long in coming , one of the best things that happened here in years! Kudos to all involved. But, I know they don’t want it to urge takana vibes etc but I’m sure many ppl will be ready to go for smaller options as well and save tons of heartache and debt. Not everyone needs 275 ppl at their weddings and the best flower decor etc. I am a regular guy in Crown Heights who would be happy to seat 150 ppl and significantly down scale any major expenses. Can we get another option for less than… Read more »

Take BarMitvah Package and small hall
Reply to  UNBELIEVABLE! But
January 19, 2026 1:45 pm

I think JCM can accommodate smaller Chasunos!
They have nice BarMitvah package maybe they can a little bit upgrade it for a boutique Chasunah package!
Very close to 770 and nice hall

On that note...
Reply to  UNBELIEVABLE! But
January 19, 2026 1:46 pm

There’s nothing shameful about a takana wedding. There’s nothing wrong with scaling down and making a simple wedding within your means.

Let’s stop letting fear of being thought a “rachmanus” keep us from making sound responsible financial decisions for our family.

Need to get creative
Reply to  UNBELIEVABLE! But
January 19, 2026 3:08 pm

It can be done for less, but you need to be willing to cut a few corners. One way to make it cheaper is to rent a smaller hall and get younger and less experienced vendors who charge less. You can likely make a wedding for 200 people for about 18-20 grand total, but you’ll have to get creative.

One way to do it
Reply to  UNBELIEVABLE! But
January 19, 2026 9:44 pm

For smaller weddings, you can pay for a Bar Mitzvah package and include a few add-ons. If done properly, you might be able to make a wedding for a total of around 12-15 grand.

Kol Hakavod
January 19, 2026 1:17 pm

Thanks to all involved, its a good start. it would be nice if we can look at Williamsburg and Lakewood models, where the entire wedding can be had for 13-15,000 with diginity, even though its called “Takana wedding”.

This is a huge accomplishment in all aspects
January 19, 2026 1:18 pm

This is definitely a blessing in all aspect of life

Kol hakovod!
January 19, 2026 1:20 pm

Great work!

Competition to keep accountability?
January 19, 2026 1:23 pm

Taking away competition and a fair chance for all vendors takes away any level of accountability for these vendors to provide quality services and competitive prices. I’m certain that the initiative is being done with the correct reasons, and that the vendors involved have the best interests at heart, but this is the way of the world.

Takanah - same menu for all Chasunah - save $
Reply to  Competition to keep accountability?
January 19, 2026 1:47 pm

Should be same menue and same decor ( different colors) will save the bill.
Make it like a build in hall like in queens /boropark and you don’t need anything but guests and photographers

Still
Reply to  Takanah - same menu for all Chasunah - save $
January 19, 2026 3:01 pm

No problem there, but should have the option of multiple vendors.

wow!
January 19, 2026 1:28 pm

BH

I am so impressed! This is an amazing initiative! Kol Hakovod!

Wow
January 19, 2026 1:28 pm

This sounds amazing. One suggestion would be more photography options, including supporting photographers from within our community

Yes
Reply to  Wow
January 19, 2026 3:13 pm

Can you please add another photography option?
Thank you for this great initiative!!

Caterer
January 19, 2026 1:37 pm

The Cohen brothers have been catering in OT forever. Not sure if u r doing the right thing by excluding them.

Caterers
Reply to  Caterer
January 19, 2026 1:47 pm

Probably they were given the choice to join for the discounted rate

G-D bless the Kohens
Reply to  Caterer
January 19, 2026 1:51 pm

I am sure they can be part of it if it’s financially worth it for them.

Please Think about them
Reply to  Caterer
January 19, 2026 2:01 pm

Agreed

Joey's Dream Burger
Reply to  Caterer
January 19, 2026 2:03 pm

Maybe they didn’t want to be included in this working for bottom rates?

Regardless, their food is amazing.

Caterer
Reply to  Caterer
January 19, 2026 7:18 pm

B”h We made 4 weddings with Kohen catering and we hope they will be one of the choices as caterer,

Amazing!
January 19, 2026 1:49 pm

Need something for L’Chaims as well – we need to support the young couples and I wish they can rent some nice small cheap 1st year apartments as well.

There are options
Reply to  Amazing!
January 19, 2026 2:53 pm

CAY hall is only $650

There is such a package
Reply to  Amazing!
January 19, 2026 9:39 pm

Anshei Lubavitch has a lechaim package for around $3,500.

L’chaims should be outlawed
Reply to  Amazing!
January 19, 2026 10:17 pm

They have become mini weddings. I doubt the Rebbe would approve.

On top of wedding expenses...
January 19, 2026 1:49 pm

There’s also gifts for the chasan kalla, clothing, sheitels, transportation costs if the family is OOT, rental in ch for week of wedding, setting up apartment… I made the most frugal wedding possible and total expenses were $25,000

That's pretty good
Reply to  On top of wedding expenses...
January 19, 2026 3:03 pm

Care to share a breakdown of the expenses?

Kol HaKavod
January 19, 2026 1:50 pm

This is so helpful! Thank you to all those involved!

30K is a discount?
January 19, 2026 1:55 pm

Oysh.

Incredible!
January 19, 2026 2:06 pm

This is a beautiful initiative!!

Thank you! Thank you!

Agree.
January 19, 2026 2:10 pm

Nice to see this initiative
But I too would like to see cheaper options of vendors.
I don’t need high end florists and caterer.
Please include a lower package as well.
Thank you.

Yes beautiful!
Reply to  Agree.
January 19, 2026 2:15 pm

But it’s still crazy expensive no?

Yossi
Reply to  Agree.
January 19, 2026 2:17 pm

In other neighborhoods the cost of a takanah wedding hall is less than $20,000.
There have been respectable people from CH that went to Lakewood for a better priced wedding. Even with the travel time, and shlep, it was still cheaper to to get married in Lakewood.

This is different
Reply to  Yossi
January 19, 2026 4:24 pm

In Lakewood there were philanthropists that built the hall with this intention and put money into it. (As well as a double hall which splits many of the costs in half)
This is quite impressive for something that’s coming only from vendors

Hall is built in 1900
Reply to  This is different
January 19, 2026 5:19 pm

Hall was build and part of OT

Kol Hakavod
Reply to  This is different
January 19, 2026 9:51 pm

your making his point stronger, the lakewood building cost a few million to build and they charge 13k. this hall is already here. so besides for nightly maintenance, the only costs should be the vendors.
hey its america, people can charge whatever they would like, but if those other communities figured out a way to bring the costs down to 13-15k, we can probably get close to it. not saying this is a great initiative, because it is, and any discount is appreciated.

Sounds amazing
January 19, 2026 2:37 pm

Thank you

Yesher Koach!!
January 19, 2026 2:40 pm

This is tremendous, what a relief! A huge thank you to all of you for making this possible !

Mazal tov!
January 19, 2026 2:40 pm

Congratulstions to everyone involved in arranging this amazing new initiative. I am sure the Rebbe is having so much nachas! I would like to remind the vaad that I did not read about one MAJOR issue in the article. I feel that both sides (machatanim) must sign a TZNIUS agreement. 1. Two entrances will be used upon entering the hall. One for men and one for ladies.(perhaps there should be a person by the entrance guiding the guests,as to which entrance should be used). The lobby must have a mechitza, to prevent mingling. There should never be any mixed dancing… Read more »

Williamsburg
Reply to  Mazal tov!
January 19, 2026 2:59 pm

So go to Williamsburg. That’s insane.

The Rebbe praised Bais yaakov tznuis
Reply to  Williamsburg
January 19, 2026 3:14 pm

Not everything is Williamsburg. Perhaps follow the Rebbe that you call yourself a chassid to. Or just make up your own rules

Yankel am ho'oretz
Reply to  Williamsburg
January 19, 2026 4:18 pm

Read the Rebbe’s letters.
It is insane to have such things enforced when it should be natural for any chassid

Shulchan Aruch
Reply to  Williamsburg
January 19, 2026 8:20 pm

Yes, Williamsburg weddings comply 100 percent with the laws of the shulchan aruch. We have the same “Code of Jewish Laws”. We may have different minhagim then them, but halachos are the same.

halls should be more open not less
Reply to  Mazal tov!
January 19, 2026 6:34 pm

The halls should be more open not less. Not sure what version of shulchan aruch you have? People complain about “shidduch crisis” but then stop men/women from meeting. Simchos are a great time for Shidduchim and we should be doing more to encourage and facilitate it in a healthy manner. It’s a modern concept where singles sit separately, in early America even at gedolims weddings singles were mixed. May one simcha lead to the next!

Singles
Reply to  halls should be more open not less
January 19, 2026 8:28 pm

There are other ways to arrange meeting of singles. For example “speed dating” our Shidduch house is definetly accomplishing a lot to help facilitate shidduchim. But mingling at a wedding will not be beneficial for anyone. I personally know of couples who were told by the Rebbe during their yechidus,” der chassunah zol zein in a chassidisher oifen”.

post email address for shidduch house
Reply to  Singles
January 22, 2026 1:03 pm

what is it

It is not a modern concept
Reply to  halls should be more open not less
January 20, 2026 4:20 pm

Early America was a time when standards were extremely low, and even most of the so-called “gedolim” were such only by comparison to the rest of America, צדיק היה בדורותיו. Even genuine gedolim had no control, and couldn’t do things the way they would have liked to, because no one would listen to them. Boruch Hashem standards have recovered to what was NORMAL throughout Jewish history.

no mixing
Reply to  Mazal tov!
January 19, 2026 6:59 pm

The Rebbe said that mixed dancing even with family isnt allowed. its written down

Wow.
January 19, 2026 3:04 pm

I’m so moved by this initiative!!

This is really sad....
January 19, 2026 3:04 pm

First of all, I’m so grateful and thankful to all those involved in this revolutionary breakthrough. I’m so saddened that anyone here can find negative things to say about this initiative! It’s actually disgusting and I’m not gonna use expletives here but it’s exasperating that so many ppl are ungrateful! People spent many hours on this. Crunching the numbers, getting the contracts with vendors, finalizing which options will be included and which won’t based on each vendor. For all of you complainers, when you are ready to make a wedding how about you reach out to them to see what… Read more »

Kol Hakavod
Reply to  This is really sad....
January 19, 2026 4:12 pm

No one is trash talking anybody, they are saying thank you and are appreciative for at least doing something about it, nothing personal, they are just asking if there can possibly a more scaled back option even cheaper. As the whole Tekufa of weddings, starting with dating, Lchaim, prep for wedding, actual wedding, Sheva Brachos, prep for housing etc., is quite expensive. so just pointing out, if other communities figured out a way to make cheaper options, we should try as well. and than more people will keep the Chasunas in the community. Thank you for paying attention to this… Read more »

wedding planner
January 19, 2026 3:07 pm

Are you able to hire Ahuva Fogelman as wedding coordinator/planner if you are taking the wedding package?

Ahuva
Reply to  wedding planner
January 19, 2026 3:50 pm

She should be included. She runs the wedding very well.

Amazing!!!
January 19, 2026 4:05 pm

Kol Hakavod for making this happen. Can we do this now for Bar Mitzvas? Who needs these fancy Bar Mitzvas? Ridiculous money is being wasted.

Anshei Lubavitch
Reply to  Amazing!!!
January 19, 2026 6:10 pm

Has a bar mitzvah package for $3500

Or better yet
Reply to  Amazing!!!
January 19, 2026 8:54 pm

why is any fancy bar mitzva party needed?

chicago did this a few year ago
January 19, 2026 4:27 pm

The Chicago community did this a few years ago, it’s all inclusive for under $30k including chuppah, up to 325 guests and the venue is gorgeous.

Bubby
January 19, 2026 4:32 pm

Amazing !
Thank you , organizers,for all your hard work!!!

So proud of crown hights
January 19, 2026 5:00 pm

Amazing

Wow!
January 19, 2026 5:01 pm

It’s scary to me how people can go and make a wedding for HALF the price of a normal one and PPL WILL STILL COMPLAIN!!!!

50% off ???
Reply to  Wow!
January 19, 2026 7:54 pm

Last wedding we did not too long ago for same amount of guests came out a little over 35,000… Everything included. Not sure how this is HALF off. Not sure the details in this package, but a bit surprised to say 60,000 for a basic wedding.

Someone who loves photos
January 19, 2026 5:18 pm

If you hire a diff photographer – can you still be part of the takana PKG?
Or offer more options…. Why is CJ the only option?

Thanku
January 19, 2026 5:32 pm

Big shout out for Rabbi Shmaya Krinsky who has worked day and night to make this a reality
Kol hakovod

A little behind the scences
January 19, 2026 5:33 pm

Every vendor was contacted with dignity to try and make this work. Let’s not judge and jump to any conclusions. Just be grateful that people put their heart & soul into making this happen.

Curious
Reply to  A little behind the scences
January 19, 2026 6:33 pm

If BH i dont need to use the package and i want to just rent the hall from OT can i bring in any vendors i want or is the hall exclusive to these vendors? Like catering muscian florist and photagrapher

Photographer
January 19, 2026 6:14 pm

This is amazing news and will bring much nachas to the Rebbe
Does this price include the Chupah
May i also suggests , Sadya Liberow is a phenomenal photographer and very good priced

7k to rent a hall is way too much
January 19, 2026 6:18 pm

Williamsburg all Chasunah 15K
Lower the hall rent

The Rebbe asked to keep weddings in crown heights
January 19, 2026 6:20 pm

Many people might not be aware but ask people who made weddings 35/40 years ago. The Rebbe spoke strongly against making weddings out of crown heights

Except
Reply to  The Rebbe asked to keep weddings in crown heights
January 20, 2026 7:27 am

There’s not enough space. We only have two halls. Bh most days there are more than 2 engagements

Amazing!
January 19, 2026 6:20 pm

Thank you so much for this!!

Thank you!!!
January 19, 2026 6:37 pm

We had all been waiting for this!!

Can add options of vendors? Catering, photography? Ty Hatzlacha

What was the average wedding cost before this?
January 19, 2026 6:42 pm

I’m curious, how much have OT weddings been costing recently? I got married 13 years ago at OT and our wedding was 20k total. This seems like a jump up rather than down, though I know time has passed.

Caterers-
January 19, 2026 7:04 pm

While the concept is well needed to make weddings cheaper, why isn’t the option of other caterers on here? The Cohen caterers have been serving the community for decades and to completely take away their main business is not right. Has that been thought about? Other party planners, photographers… just lost their income. People should have the ability to pick between a vendor they want tha will work within the confines govern — Table One or Cohen or any other caterer that will fit in the package.

Devora Leah

You mean
Reply to  Caterers-
January 20, 2026 7:14 am

Maybe they didn’t want to sign up to the program.
Here, how about calling them and asking

Devorah Leah
Reply to  You mean
January 20, 2026 9:39 am

They were not given the option or asked. I did ask the caterers.

Caterer
January 19, 2026 7:08 pm

BH we made few weddings @ Oholei Torah ballroom using Meir and Ben Zion Kohen Catering,
we would like to see them included in this beautiful wedding package.
Thank You!!

This is amazing! Thank you!
January 19, 2026 7:12 pm

You know you’re doing something good when people complain.

The Cohen Catering
January 19, 2026 7:41 pm

Meir Chen did my son Barmitzva
He is excellent!! The food is delicious!!
Please include Meir Cohen in your idea
He is the Best !! And the food is in believable!!
C

STILL TOO HIGH for many in Anash!
January 19, 2026 7:53 pm

I recently attended a Chasunah at JCM, & it was LOVELY! & Hashem BLESS Devorah Benjamin, who likely had to fund most, if not all of it! & unless it’s for kirov, there’s no dishonor in trimming the guest list, or even dining buffet style! & using a gemach for most things, (even silk flower arrangements) & a “no name” band! (Or even a one-man band, that (these days) has such a full sound! & the Cohen brothers have always worked w/ those on lower budgets, as has Eli Belinsky for photography. “Elegant” does NOT need to be expensive! &… Read more »

There are others who fund under the radar
Reply to  STILL TOO HIGH for many in Anash!
January 20, 2026 7:59 am

Devorah is wonderful. Please note there are others that fund quietly and should be highly regarded instead of being knocked down. Ask around as to whom and give generously to help those in need.

I’m Shedding Tears of Joy
January 19, 2026 8:38 pm

This is such a vital and beautiful initiative that is likely to relieve so many hard-working couples’s financial burdens while allowing people to make Baal Habatishe elegant simchas.

Yasher Koach!

Wow
January 19, 2026 9:39 pm

So grateful thank you Shneur Brook!!!

The new Package and the real facts
January 19, 2026 10:10 pm

It’s great that a package is finally coming to CH. After many years this community was the only one without a package has caused pricing to be out of control. Now some facts… After speaking to caterers and photographers i would like to clarify that as of now no one has been contacted with the option to join the package but rather everything was done quietly which raises quite a few questions: In BP, Williamsburg & Lakewood the packages range from $13500 to $20000 for the same amount of people. why can’t we have the same deal? Theirs include Catering,… Read more »

Sure!
Reply to  The new Package and the real facts
January 20, 2026 8:56 am

You are invited and encouraged to create an even cheaper option
Lakewood has different tiers
Everyone will thank you too
No worries

Baruch Hashem
January 19, 2026 10:23 pm

So so happy to hear!!!

more vendor options
January 19, 2026 11:05 pm

To ensure that vendors do their best there needs to be competition. Also what if the one photography option is booked for that night?
please include another photographer option or 2 as well as an option for less guests.
this is an amazing initiative! lets do everything we can to make it work.

Thank you shnuer brook
January 19, 2026 11:06 pm

Thank you shneur for your many many hours you put into this .

Crown Heights resident
January 20, 2026 12:19 am

I don’t know Shmaya Krinsky but I keep hearing from people on the street how they are being helped , time and time again in a quiet and dignified manner. The shameful critiques being posted here should also be accompanied with thanks for a person who saw an issue and stood up to the plate to create a solution. The lakewood packages are cheaper but so is their product and having already BH made three weddings (two in CH) this is a huge huge huge help. Yasher Koach Reb Shmaya , Shneur Brook and Oholei Torah for facilitating this and… Read more »

Music is everything by wedding
January 20, 2026 2:43 am

Happy to see Mendy kraus on package

Honestly the best musican in town

Yashar koach!

Don't understand
January 20, 2026 9:33 am

I’m hearing that even if you don’t want to use the package and you want to make a wedding in OT you need to use table one as he is getting exclusive rights to OT hall. How is that helping CH vendors if it’s exclusive rights?

Amazing
January 20, 2026 10:12 am

This is literally saving Jewish homes, shalom bayis, sanity… incredible project

What about Razag?
January 20, 2026 11:35 am

Can this be offered in Razag as well? Not everyone likes the style of the hall but many find Razag weddings to be so much more comfortable, clean and pleasant!

Great news all around
Reply to  What about Razag?
January 22, 2026 10:24 pm

I hear that they are working at an even more affordable option.
Kol hakavod!
One good deed immediately brought another one!

Cohen catering
January 20, 2026 8:28 pm

We really appreciate it. But don’t understand how come only one caterer when you have a choice of almost everything. A lot of people did their weddings with the Cohen’s brothers and we’re very happy and want to continue

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