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Rabbi Tzvi Nightingale of Aish South Florida responds to Pew's study on Jewish assimilation by stating he's Chabad. Full Story

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February 23, 2015 10:57 am

Great points! Fantastic!!

February 21, 2015 2:32 am

First and foremost growing up I learned to be a PROUD JEW. I was born into a family where my Great Grandparents had proudly passed on the Reform Tradition from South Africa. I too despite the great inconvenience caused by the 20 mile distance raised my daughter as a Reform Jew. For the last year and half I have been on my own exploratory path including learning at Aish keeping Shabbos. I have not experienced anything like what #10 alluded to from the Aish or Chabad people I have spoken with. While I am still exploring I have come to… Read more »

Sarah Jones
October 24, 2013 7:07 am

You can sense that this Rabbi is coming from a very pure place, he is clearly at peace with himself and his Jewishness and wants other people to experience the happiness he has found within in his faith. I became religious at 19 when a trip abroad randomly introduced me to Chabad and I was so inspired to see other people who seemed committed to truth. But most of the people who I encountered were Ba’alei Teshuva, and their passion and genuineness was what really got me in. They wanted, like this Rabbi, to find an inclusive, beautiful Judaism, and… Read more »

To # 10 and 53
October 14, 2013 10:24 pm

I’m a Shliach close to 30 years. Yes, you’re right in your general description of Aish. I know more stories than most. However, this Rabbi, didn’t write his letter on behalf of Aish he wrote it on his behalf. And he is to be commended for writing the truth. And I’m sure it wasn’t easy, especially from his peers Aish has changed, religiously. And they aren’t the “Torah” crowd they tried to be. And I’m not sure Chabad and Aish even compete in the same sphere anymore in the big cities. But in the little ones they are more annoying… Read more »

so encouraging
October 13, 2013 3:43 pm

Hope this gets to one of the creators of the Pew Poll. It was clear that their section was not representative. May all the hafotzoniks and keiruvniks continue working TOGETHER to change these statistics .

October 13, 2013 5:30 am



Italian Traditionalist Jew
October 11, 2013 12:40 pm

Very nice articles!
Joe Victor Behar
Jewish, Italian, Living in Miami, i consider myself a traditionalist , even not highly observant, still considering myself Jewish, Traditionalist, Modern Orthodox and Italian Sephardic Jew! I go to Chabad Synagogues .. As they are the main ones that welcome Jewish, that consider them Jewish and nothing else!

Tikun Olam
October 10, 2013 6:23 am

I am not Chabad, but you have to respect what Chabad and the Rebbe were able to accomplish in bringing Jews that would have been lost to Judaism. And, although I do not know the origination of Aish as an organization, it is clear it was in response to Chabad’s success in bringing marginal Jews in. As to some of the negative postings, we continue to make the same mistakes. We lost the Second Temple because jealousy and hate among the Jews. It is time that we concentrate on love of fellow Jews and not to belabor differences.

yasher Koach
October 10, 2013 12:07 am

My son is Chabad and went to an aish program this summer and loved it. We all want the same thing.The most important thing is love and respect for one another regardless of the different approach .

October 8, 2013 7:55 pm

Thank you so much for this article. The fact that you are an AISH rabbi and yet talk so beautifully about chabad makes me very happy! Its really inspiring to see the ahavas yisroel you posses. I hope I can instill the same in my children.

Thank you

The Real Jew
October 8, 2013 3:16 pm

a jew is a jew is a jew. these labels are silly. just people working to get closer to HAshem in defferent ways.

to #43
October 8, 2013 10:44 am

even at OU.org they are teaching Tanya…. http://www.ou.org/torah/article/tanya_1
Chabad’s influence has spread to all four corners – ufaratzta

Eitan Kagan
October 8, 2013 3:51 am

Excellent hypothesis!

Alternative Title
October 7, 2013 10:47 pm

I am Chabad & Aish & Kollel & Young Israel & Exploring & Baal Teshuva & Somewhat Observant & Hillel & Birthright & …

October 7, 2013 3:34 pm

I never thought of it like that.

76 is correct
October 7, 2013 2:43 pm

The Rabbi and his wife are allot more chabad than many “card holding farmers”
Chabad is a way of life, not a genealogical membership that ur born into,
Outreach, Adherence to Halacha, Simcha shel mitzvah, that is chasidus!! That is chabad!!

Untznius, Unshlichus, UnAhavas yisroel, is Un-chabad
Growing and increasing in yidishkeit and Torah That is chabad!

to #64 and #73
October 7, 2013 2:09 pm

If you are a Shliach and represent the Rebbe, then that’s no way to speak to/about people. If you are not a Shliach, then I guess you are a self proclaimed farmer:-).

#77 Is chabad orthodox
October 7, 2013 12:20 pm

Apparently the writer (and all the commenters) don’t consider themselves orthodox. Which means they are another stream of Judaism C”V.

Claiming to chabad fame
October 7, 2013 9:21 am

If the rabbi wanted he could have joined Chabad in their efforts. No he has his own way and it works for those that it works for. Proofs and professors have no place in a chabafd house. They have a home in aish. Aish and Chabad are like shamayim v aretz. Why use their name? Chabad gets a lot of credit for what they do from secular Jews, assimilated Jews, and non Jews. How many non Jews know what or where aish is? What aish does? Why it is good for their community? Ask any congressman or pubic activist and… Read more »

isn't chabad orthodox?
October 7, 2013 9:13 am

or am I missing something…

He IS chabad!
October 7, 2013 1:49 am

Those who know him and his wife…
His day to day life style and focus of all his activities and 99% of his hashkafah is pure chabad!! I’ve heard him speak and read is articles
His view and life focus is virtually indistinguishable from the Rebbe’s teachings!!

I love it!
October 6, 2013 11:26 pm

Wonderful article! I AM AISH TORONTO

This is amazzzing
October 6, 2013 10:50 pm


To 35
October 6, 2013 10:15 pm

And what exactly did YOU ever do in all your life for miyhu yehudi? What exactly did you ever do, for that matter, for any the rebbes inyonim (besides bash shluchim like a typacyl self hating farmer)?

I care!!
October 6, 2013 8:43 pm

I care and am over joyed to see achdus and words of unity replace decades of the opposite

This is beautiful

The Rebbe was very encouraging of ALL Kiruv efforts by all who cared to get involved even under non chabad names long as Kiruv took place the rebbe was very very encouraging and pleased

This achdus tone is beutoful and refreshing!! May many learn and follow suite

to # 31
October 6, 2013 8:17 pm

“Rabbi Tzvi Nightingale of Aish South Florida responds to Pew’s study on Jewish assimilation by stating he’s Chabad.”

Please show me where in the article is says that.

to # 31
October 6, 2013 8:16 pm

Just be cause the title on Aish’s website is I am Chabad, naming the article “Aish Director: I am Chabad” is still misleading because the title on Aish is just suggesting that there should be a new category, however not that HE is saying I Am chabad…

October 6, 2013 7:53 pm

Is rabbi nightingale moshiach?????

October 6, 2013 7:00 pm

kol hakovode
the REBBA says every yid is connected to the REBBA

Who in the world cares?
October 6, 2013 5:57 pm

Does the Abeshter care what group a person claims to identify with?

The main thing is to do mitzvos and study Torah with deep simchah and to make Hashem the main factor in your life.

It is irrelevant if someone is Chabad, Aish, Sefaradi, Charedi or Dati Leumi. Every Jewish neshamah has infinite potential and and the end of the day you are judged as a JEW.

Enough of the sectarian garbage, you are preventing Moshiach’s arrival.

Aish has got the right ruach!
October 6, 2013 5:36 pm

Mayim and afar!

Aish, the more similar aish drifts to chabad the more achdus and the more synergy is visible
Rly nice to see all Kiruv movements drifting together in harmony towards the geulah!!

Chabad = Using all your intellectual faculties in the service of Hashem
October 6, 2013 5:32 pm

His definition
Of growing, and Seeking to grow more and become more and better informed and educated, That, IS what chabad theology teaches and emphasizes!

to 53
October 6, 2013 5:14 pm

you sound like a farmer who has a grudge that you did not go on shlichus.

October 6, 2013 4:38 pm

When he writes that he isn’t writing as ‘I am Chabad’ the way we think of Chabad but as HE is trying to redefine it- as he clearly explained at the end of the article- he wants “Chabad” to become the generic term to
refer to any Jew affiliated with the baal teshuvah movement. Whether that is a good thing or not I don’t know but that’s his point.

Ahavas Yisrael, Please
October 6, 2013 3:55 pm

An aish rabbi had the courage and conviction to come out, praise Chabad, and sign his name in a public forum. Kol Hakavod. And the response of some of of “unzere” – in a public forum, and unsigned of course – is a shande. Is this what the Rebbe taught? This is ahavas Yisrael? To slap someone in the face when he compliments you?

October 6, 2013 3:51 pm

He actually seems sincere. Good for you Rabbi. I am honored to be apart of your world view.

aish rabbi.l am chabad..
October 6, 2013 2:39 pm

Greatest article I have read in a long time.well written.i appreciate it.

October 6, 2013 1:11 pm


Make Rabbi Nightingale an Honorary Shaliach!
October 6, 2013 12:11 pm

I would like Rabbi Nightingale to have the title of Honorary Shaliach and be welcome to all programs available to shluchim! The Rebbe would be proud to have him enlisted in the Rebbe’s Army.

Great message
October 6, 2013 11:47 am

Right idea, but wrong way of addressing it. At present, I could check off “Orthodox.” But a few years ago, I would not have been able to select anything, even with a “Chabad” option.

Talk to your kids!!!
October 6, 2013 11:13 am

I grew up in both reform and conservative movements. I ONLY ever dated Jewish men!! Period. I was told if you only date Jews, you will only marry a Jew. I didn’t find my beshert until I was 32 years old. We met at a Shabbat service for singles and love him dearly. I tell our two children all the time that they will marry nice Jewish people. Why? So we keep our family Jewish. They are 7 and 10 and I tell them how lucky they are to be Jewish! My son was maybe 3 when he came home… Read more »

Aish ?
October 6, 2013 10:18 am

Why didn’t Aish put this article on their central website – Aish.com ?
He is probably getting flack from Aish headquarters.

not aish or chabad
October 6, 2013 9:51 am

chabad IS mentioned. in the assimilated category.

In response to number 10
October 6, 2013 9:06 am

I understand there are many shluchim that don’t get along with aish in their community. But that is the shluchim’s fault. They should not rely on aish to be kind to them. they should go out of their way to be kind to aish and want with all their effort to work with them. otherwise it shows on their own ego and insecrities. A true secure person can respect someone else even if the other person was not nice to them. That will breed a peaceful community where all jews are united.

Aish garner their publicity by faking connections to chabad
October 6, 2013 7:45 am

Remember the facebook scandal?

I work in an organisation where they kiss the feet of the Aish Rabbi and Chabad is not allowed in the building (unless they need something for free!)

Even f aish praised chabad
October 6, 2013 5:09 am

They are out to destroy them. They only praise if they would benefit. They don’t want people to go t the shluchim… They do everything they can to prevent it

Very nice!! Achdus!!
October 6, 2013 4:57 am

We’re all in the same business with the same mission!!

Kol hakavod yyasher koachacha!!!

to # 10
October 6, 2013 2:55 am

I agree with much of what you say. More troubling is the lack of standards that the organization might have. Remember during the 2000 election when Lieberman was selected? Aish posted a picture of him, without a yarmulke, and titled it “the new face of Judaism.” They’ve also been more supportive of YU’s promotion of destroying marriages without counseling just because one party wants to – which not only runs counter to halacha and to the advice of any therapist worth his/her salt, but also attacks Judaism and the next generation at its core. There are many good people in… Read more »

Director of Aish openly praised Chabad
October 6, 2013 1:00 am

I heard a shiur where the director of Aish who has passed on by now openly praised Chabad and the wonderful work that they do.

No. 35
October 6, 2013 12:49 am

The problem is “light Chabad”? No, the problem is you’re an am haaretz. See the Sicha of 24 Teves 5749.

To 44
October 6, 2013 12:44 am

The Rebbe never said “labels are for shirts”.
While your point might be valid, please do not misquote the Rebbe.

October 6, 2013 12:29 am

the Aish website declares “I am Chabad” so why not just affiliate with the Chabad Shluchim as a Branch. Aish is very calculated in their system. Chabad is the Rebbe’s system. Rabbi Nightingale is a Tzadik for saying the truth Aish organization placed it on their website and that make you wonder is the entire organization turning Chabad? is Chabad a Noun (generic term)? The Aish organization are very clever individuals and this is not a slip up or oversight to insert this article on their website. If I was part of Aish I would copy Chabad – when someone… Read more »

the Rebbe
October 6, 2013 12:02 am

The Rebbe said “labels are for shirts”. all of the labeling of this survey is divisive, wrong and meaningless and not because they left out Chabad. 9% of Orthodox have xmas trees and 15% of Orthodox regularly attend Church services are 2 of the factoids reported that are extremely not believable.

October 5, 2013 11:52 pm

Aish is teaching Tanya (Denver and many other locations – 26 centers)
Aish is proclaiming they are Chabad (I am Chabad – http://www.aishfl.com/purplesheet/)

so it makes you wonder!
Come to Chabad the Aish way?
Come to Aish the Chabad way?
In any case competition is healthy.

October 5, 2013 11:43 pm

that which he did, to bring Aish and Chabad closer, and to publicly make that statement, was a big mitzva, a big, public kiddush HaShem. Kol Hakavod.
#35, you are thinking narrow. I agree with #40. You have to think in a broader spectrum of thought.

Send him thank you - Email
October 5, 2013 11:01 pm

take a minute to thank him for this article etc – [email protected]
if anyone knows a better email address – please post

to number 35
October 5, 2013 9:29 pm

How can you say it is a failure? Are you that close minded? Ate you that shallow? Even the smallest things help as what the rebbe taught. Might lose the marriage front but even if they came to shul once or davened once or whatever then it was worth it. …. cause them doing that meant more cause was harder for them and they put Themself out more than someone who is religious. … open your eyes boet…. see the bigger picture.

to everyone who says he isn't Chabad
October 5, 2013 9:25 pm

Let’s get this clear. He very clearly Says “WE are far from a blimp”. As in we, chabad…. clearly showing he is Chabad. Come on people,read. … But seriously why all the hatred etc? Tge rebbe stood and taught ahavat yisrael no matter what. …. so why the arguments? Stop looking for problems and see the point of this message that this rabbi is portraying. … grow up people

#10, let's take our cues from the Rebbe...
October 5, 2013 9:23 pm

Even if he was personally attacked, the Rebbe would never say a negative word about a Jew. Anyway, there are always “good and bad” amongst all people, INCLUDING OUR OWN Chabad (do not ask to start that dialogue here, we have plenty of dirty laundry to air). Let us all applaud this Rabbi’sahavas yisroel.

My Brochas to Rabbi Nightingale and his Family
October 5, 2013 9:14 pm

Wishing you hatzlocha as you do the work of the Rebbe – you are doing a shlichus and that zchus should give you great hatzlocha and brochah and most of all much nachas from all of your beautiful family. Chazak v’emotz!

Chaim a Chabadnik
October 5, 2013 8:24 pm

Rabbi Nightingale, your words will ring in our ears far after the report is long buried in the place of irrelevancy from which it sprang.
May you continue to inspire Jews

chabad failure
October 5, 2013 5:41 pm

71% mixed marriage rate of non orthodox. It is statistically hard to get much higher than that. all that kirov money, all those man hours.and the result? AS IF NOTHING WAS DONE. The reason is “light Chabad” where everything is ok. The Rebbe’s Mi hu Yehudi demand long long taken off the agenda. US Chabad rabbis didn’t want to offend people. such a shame.

Aish exists because of Chabad. Period.
October 5, 2013 2:22 pm
I am Chabad
October 5, 2013 12:51 pm

Kol ha’kavod!

a jew
October 4, 2013 8:16 pm

You are an asset to our community. You are one of our pillars. You are why it is so wonderful being jewish. B”H”

To #16 and #29
October 4, 2013 7:51 pm

The title of his article, as written in the introduction, is “I Am Chabad.”

See his website: http://www.aishfl.com/purplesheet/

October 4, 2013 6:53 pm

#10 I have to agree with you, and there other reasons I can add to yours, but I won’t.
#25, Exactly.

October 4, 2013 6:32 pm

The Rabbi writes nowhere that he is Chabad. The title is erroneous and misleading.

Next year kinus keynote
October 4, 2013 6:27 pm
proud family in c.h
October 4, 2013 6:09 pm

Thank you for recognizing the efforts of our children in Waterloo. We are so proud. Continued hatzlocha

response to #10
October 4, 2013 5:30 pm

please tell your children not to worry about the other Rabbi trying to compromise them. I fully went all the way Chabad when the Aish Rabbi i was connected to lost his temper when he realized i was exploring and getting involved in Chabad. He totally lost my respect, especially since Chabad was welcoming me and not trying to “keep me on their side”. People can see through the Emes and if your chidlren are doing that then they will be just fine! i am very tempted to fwd this article to the Aish Rabbi i knew!!!

If you can't beat'em
October 4, 2013 5:11 pm

Copy them

Kol Hakavod!
October 4, 2013 5:10 pm

Write a article about the few people like Rabbi Nightingale who fall into the category of “Mentch”!!

I am #10
October 4, 2013 5:02 pm

I wrote this so people are not lulled into a false sense of security concerning Aish. I am sorry your touchy-feely sensibilities were jarred but sometimes, the truth and reality are unpleasant. I guess burying your heads in the sand is your reality. Thats OK by me. Good Shabbos.

Rabbi Nightingale Kol Hakavod
October 4, 2013 4:38 pm

Rabbi Nightingale is very close to Chabad, he works hand in hand with chabad, if I am not mistaken him and Chabad had a joined minyan during the quite summer weeks

to number 10
October 4, 2013 4:36 pm

this article was written with ahavas yisroel and ahavas chinom inthe spirit of all jews wanting to be better and rise in their torah and mitzvos. What is it it you are trying to accomplish with your comment? this is a question one is to ask himself whenever posting anything in public. I am sure your children are dealing with a real issue, yet this comment is not helping them and totaly does not apply to this article or this rabbi.

October 4, 2013 4:31 pm


to 17
October 4, 2013 4:20 pm

theres no shame in telling the truth

to no. 10
October 4, 2013 4:05 pm

Your statement of individuals vs. organization. I suppose you are aware that an organization is not an entity in a vacuum. rather it is a collection of individuals who join together to form an organization. So eventually when more people of Aish will learn to get along with Chabad then the nature of the organization will itself become more tolerant of Chabad.

From A South Floridian
October 4, 2013 3:58 pm

I don’t know you, but I like your style and your bravery in writing this. To #10 , shame on you.

October 4, 2013 3:42 pm

loved the article but i didn’t see the part that he says he’s chabad

Comment #10
October 4, 2013 3:33 pm

It’s kinda ruining the ahavas yisroel/achdus vibe here!!

Nightingale fan club!!!
October 4, 2013 3:31 pm

Sincerely, Miami girl living in crown heights that misses the south florida community dearly! Achdus makes kllal yisroel strong!

October 4, 2013 3:23 pm

This article makes me extremely proud to be Chabad.
And says a lot about the author who puts aside his different opinion of Chabad to speak the truth!

October 4, 2013 3:18 pm

May this be the begining of much Achdus among frum Yidden – the only way we can win the war against assimilation!

October 4, 2013 3:14 pm

brought tears to my eyes to see the emes ahavas yisroel in this article.

Individuals v the organization
October 4, 2013 3:06 pm

I agree, this is a lovely article, very warm & heartening. However, I personally get what Aish is about. My nephew is an Aish Rabbi, he’s a decent person & very respectful, even admiring of Chabad & he enjoys learning Chassidus with senior Chabad Shluchim. But Aish as an organization despises Chabad. Please don’t be misled by this article (which I’m sure is 100% sincere) with the ethos of the organization. Aish looks to destroy Chabad, which is why they go to successful Shluchim especially on campus. I know because they are trying to do it to my children on… Read more »

October 4, 2013 2:59 pm

Wow great article…

Very nicely written...
October 4, 2013 2:57 pm

Although I don’t want Chabad to become a “generic” term, I appreciate his being able to to speak honestly about our role in the Teshuva movement; I hope his ahavas Yisroel serves as an example to all, including us.

Big fan of the Nightingale's
October 4, 2013 2:37 pm

Love you guys! Sooo awesome

October 4, 2013 2:26 pm

Beautifully written, his point about the archaic criteria used in the Pew report is so right on!!

Kol Hakavod, rabbi!

October 4, 2013 2:26 pm

What a beautiful and encouraging article! This article reflects integrity, honesty and Mentchlichkeit on the part of the author. What a wonderful human being!!!

Hatzlocha in your holy work!!! How nice to see Chabad an AIsh representatives having such a beautiful relationship!

October 4, 2013 2:24 pm

I am highly impressed with this Rabbi

Very nice
October 4, 2013 2:18 pm

I like this article and appreciate the viewpoint of the author and respect him for writing this article. It shows on his true charachter as a openminded respectful individual. Thank you for writitng it.

October 4, 2013 2:18 pm

What an article!
Kudos to this rabbi for being truthful and honest

October 4, 2013 2:16 pm

keep it going aish i am aish