By Rabbi Avrohom Brashevitzky, Co-Director of Chabad Jewish Center of Doral, Florida
First it gets cold and then it snows. For a short while, everything seems calm and serene, it almost feels wrong to venture out and destroy the beautiful landscape. Then it starts, the black slush, the filth – suddenly everything seems so ugly. However, very soon the beautiful sun comes out, temperatures thaw and all the ugliness melts away. So nice! So beautiful!
This is the time to be cautious.
A little chill can create that dreaded black ice which is virtually undetectable but can lead Chas V’shalom to catastrophic results. Especially on bridges and exposed surfaces, the chill can create a deadly freeze which can lead to unfortunate results.
This true depiction of life in the colder climates is also a metaphor, in my opinion, for the amazing milestone we are currently experiencing in Am Yisroel.
In my lifetime, I cannot recall such an amazing event. All of Klal Yisroel has come together to genuinely help and assist a fellow Jew, Sholom Mordechai Rubashkin. The spontaneous eruption of Simcha could not have been fabricated nor rehearsed. Many are correct in their assessment that this is indeed a taste of what it will feel like when Moshiach finally comes!
Unprecedented Achdus expressed and proliferated by “Simcha Poretz Gedder” brought all kinds of communities and factions together to celebrate a Chabad Chosid. Gone were all the differences, all the past hurts, ideologies and mantra. We all felt like family! It came from deep within, from a place where there are no differences between one Jew and another; not even spiritual or ideological rudiments.
For too long, it was cold. Very cold! It snowed and snowed. Things almost seemed to settle in very well – some even thought of it as pretty. The landscape was clean and crisp in a sense: you stay on your side of the fence I’ll stay on mine… You don’t bother me – we won’t bother you. Yes, there were the occasional footsteps in the snow but not enough to change the entire scenery.
Sadly, for several decades we experienced heavy, dirty slush. Filth flew in faces of the bystanders. Many got dirty and engrossed in the snowball fights. Everybody’s garments were soiled and wet. It wasn’t a comfortable situation for anyone. Regardless of who was at fault, who threw the first snowball; everybody ended up hurt as the filthy snow avalanched even on to the innocent.
Boruch Hashem! The sun came out! All the snow, ice and filth just melted away! Yachad Shivtei Yisroel!
The sad reality is that until Moshiach’s arrival, the Satan is not dead. He’s still very ambitious and determined. Certainly, like everyone else, he wishes to be comfortable. The events of the past week make him very unhappy, distraught. It’s very likely of him to do whatever possible; to pull every trick available to him in order to bring down the temperature. Of course, being the great tactician he is, he will make it inconspicuous; thus the black ice.
Beware of the black ice! We must do everything possible to keep the terrain clear of any such possibility. Salt the surfaces very well i.e. “take everything with a grain of salt.” Don’t allow any misspoken words or assumptions to get in the way of this tremendous Achdus.
Amazing “bridges” have been formed; great passageways. Let’s keep them clear of Sinas Chinam, of any discord. Sure, these events don’t mean that we all suddenly agree on everything and see eye to eye on all issues. That’s okay. In fact, when we crossed the Yam Suf – we did so in 12 separate paths. We saw and appreciated each other through the transparent walls. As a result, we reached Har Sinai K’ish Echad B’leiv Echad! Hashem did not intend for us to all think exactly the same way. He does, however, want us to get along well – like one man with one heart!
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May HASHEM send continuous brochos for klall Yisroel
I come to visit my father in crown heights almost every week. We usually visit Kingston avenue and chap a lunch in one of the wonderful restaurants ( usually Empire Grill) . The crown heights community is so wonderful. Everyone is so helpful and patient. Yidden come over to my father to say hello. They help me hold the door open for my father. The Yid at Empire Grill is so accommodating and treats my father with utmost respect.
I always come home with vey pleasant thoughts about this community. May you all be gebentched.
Thanks to the author for writing it and to collive for publishing it.
May we all take the message to heart and act accordingly.
The hisorreres is gevaldig , this rubashkin nes is a message from Hashem to have bitachun and Amunna that anything could change for the better in a minute , let’s start calling this a Ruabshkin Miniute . All a yid has to do is, have Amunna and bitachun , never never be miyayush , never never give up . Shulem mordechai is a wake up for Klal Yisroel to never give up, never never never.
We should do the same.
1. Add in personal limud hatoirah
2. Make additional kviusen with other yidden. And if you can, with a yid from a different kreiz.
gevaldick very well written & to the point.
Totally agree with #3. Enough with the hate speech at farbrengens. We want others to be close to us as well but we only push them away by bashing them. If the tables were reversed we’d be yelling”anti chabad” or “everyone hates us”. But hate speech from our end is tolerated and even encouraged. I wonder how much achdus would actually be displayed from our end if this wasn’t about a lubavitcher. Probably very little and this mindset proves it. Let’s face it this is a serious issue when it comes to freely lowering down other Yidden and being mezalzel.… Read more »
So so true!! So many people came to visit the Rebbe because the Rebbe loved and respected every Jew!! We need to speak the same way!!!
Chabad shlucha
Spot on!!
thank you so…. much for verbalazing whats in every body’s mind. you are so right and thank you so… much for having the courage and ability to put it so elequently in words that every one will read and will surely agree wit!… yeshar koach!
I as an individual commit to being a better yid, a better father and a more loving husband. Remember to say good morning to the person that walks by you. Hold the door for the mother with a stroller and offer warmth to a child that is craving it.
Let’s do it together.
May I offer just a couple of messages about this subject as no one else has spoke up. First message: Let’s use this time of Eis Rotzoin to make good resolutions to do acts of goodness and kindness! Why when a tragedy strikes do we all of a sudden say how can we change even a little? Let’s start with the basics of adding in acts of goodness and kindness, a little bit every day. It can be like Yosef when he asked the chief butler and chief baker why there were so upset? Or saying hi to a fellow… Read more »
I almost never comment, but now I am, because all the comments are encouraging positive ones, no arguing, no controversy, no putting anyone down. Am yisroel chai
Great article! Thanks for sharing such an important and urgent message
Who felt like I was basking in the light of the coming of Moshiach the night he was released. B”H I see that this was a shared phenomenon.
We must be careful in how we speak. Let’s remove the nicknames “Yoli” and “Snag” from our dialect. Our children hear everything and learn these attitudes from us. If we truly feel love for EVERY single Jew, no matter if he looks different and acts different than us, our children will adopt this attitude and before we know it we will be living in a truly Moshiachdike world.
Avremal Wow You never stop to amaze me
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The satan does not like this achdus. looking for every way to disrupt it.
Great article!
We all succeeded last week in our Ahavas Yisrael. Let’s ALL of us keep up the great work!
Thank you so much Reb Avraham for saying so beautifully what needed to be said and steering things back on track. Kol Hakavod!
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Thank you so much Rabbi Brashevitzky for this eloquent and on-target piece!
Moshiach now!
Yew,focus on the great miracle that happened HERE! The rest……..
There is no grater nachas for a father (Hashem)
Then seeing his children get along!!
Beautifully written. Let’s keep the positive Chayus flowing straight to the Geulah!
So well written … expressed what many want to say….
Thank you! Thank you!!!
Just the way we all feel
NUMBER 3 , WELL WRITTEN WELL SHCOIACH
Thank you R’ Avraham – yes, the Satan is at play. In general, words heard should be taken with a grain of salt – certainly if they are not spoken by the one who is the topic of conversation.
Yehudis Leiter
Written so well. Touched my heart.
amazing article
Thank you! Agreed!!
Thank you for these beautiful words.
I felt it too
Well written! Yasher koach! Achdus is the only way!
Let’s not get caught up in the shtus and keep the achdus.
I couldn’t agree more. We had a taste of what Moshiach would feel like so let’s get ready for the real thing!
Shkoyach!
Dear a please be careful with your words stop blaming chabad for feeling bad there is no one more responsible for the moment then our rebbe this is his mofes let us all remember that for ever
EXCELLENT!!!!
Wow this is so powerful and so true.
achd us us the way! many yidden helped, we could and should acknowledge the good efforts as is! we dont need to put people down in order to bring someone up
משיח כאו!
Awesome metaphor. Brilliant article
Great analogy, and beautifully stated! Yyasher kochacho!
Nicely said!
These thoughts take the cake ! Thank you for sharing the main course to take in life. RR
What a perfect metaphor! Yasher Koach for saying what needs to be said. Borcheinu Avinu kulanu KiEchad!
Well said, let’s keep up the achdus!!!
I HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT THIS AMAZING ACHDUS AND COMING TOGETHER OF ALL FACTIONS OF KLAL YISROEL IS DUE TO THE TYPE OF PERSON SM RUBASHKIN IS. HE HAS SucH AN OPEN MINDED VIEW TO ALL KINDS OF YIDDEN. NOT EVERY LUBAVITCHER WOULD BE VISITED BY A ROSH YESHIVA FROM LAKEWOOD, REBBES FROM WILLIAMSBURG AND HAVE A CHAVRUSA WITH THE EDITOR OF YATED! ! HE HAD TREMENDOUS RESPECT FOR ALL KINDS OF YIDDEN AND LEARNT MUCH TORAH FROM THEM! His appeal is universal because he was so accepting of everyone to! He is a wonderful ambassador for lubavitch we need more… Read more »
Well said! There are always the forces of evil (dressed in pious garb or not) trying to destroy the immense positivity! You are so right, we must not let it destroy the achdus, whether intentional and with good motive or unintentional. No one can argue that unity is indeed a good thing
Very well written , let’s unite forever