Tova Miriam (Gitty) Astolin, a devoted mother, stepmother, grandmother and a remarkable woman whose kindness, honesty, and warmth touched everyone who knew her, passed away on Shabbos, 21 Teves, 5786.
She was 59.
Gitty had a deep love for children and dedicated her life to teaching as a second-grade teacher. She believed every child deserved patience, encouragement, and compassion, and she brought those values into her classroom every day. Her students were not just learners to her, but individuals she genuinely cared about, and many will remember her as the teacher who made them feel seen and capable.
As a mother, stepmother, and grandmother, Gitty was amazing in every sense of the word. She gave selflessly, listened without judgment, and loved unconditionally. Her guidance, strength, and gentle honesty shaped the lives of her family, who were always her greatest pride.
Gitty will be remembered for her generous heart, her integrity, and her ability to make others feel comfortable and valued. She had a quiet strength and a steady presence that brought calm and reassurance to those around her.
She is survived by her husband David Astolin, a member of Crown Heights Hatzalah, and daughter Chaya Ruda Silber (nee Srour), and sister Ruchy Elbogen, and many stepchildren and grandchildren who will carry her love and lessons with them always.
Levaya will be graveside Sunday morning, 10am at New Montefiore cemetery.
Dovid Astolin will be sitting at his son’s house. From Sunday evening until Wednesday night.
100 E 45th St, Brooklyn, NY 11203
Scharis: 8:30
Mincha and Mariv B’Zam.
Visiting hours 8:30am to 8:30pm.
Thursday and Friday in queens.
Baruch Dayan Ha’emes.
Can hardly believe this horrible news…. she was taken from us far too soon. Gitty was always so full of life, it’s hard to imagine we won’t hear her voice and laugh again!
She was so very proud of her beautiful family. She was such a strong and loving friend, with a heart of gold. Gitty was such a wonderful and welcoming host, we will always remember the incredible shabbosim we had together. Gitty, you are already missed sooo much. BDE
BDE 💔 such a loss for Klal yisrael
Ad Mosi, so heartbreaking 💔
David was our children’s school bus driver for many years. We extend our deepest condolences to him and his family
bde a big loss to all that knew her , a wonderful host , i have been invited many times she always made you feel at home .
a big loss to her husband , they were a wonderful couple , with a very loving marriage, Dovid be strong moshiac is on his , and you will together again ….
hamokom yenacaim