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Sunday: Event to Empower Singles in Crown Heights

Shalom Bayis teacher and Shidduch mentor Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen will lead an event in Crown Heights on Sunday, May 28, to empower singles, "I only want to get Married Once - Acquire the skills you need to spot your soulmate." Full Story

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can you help fix this problem
May 22, 2025 9:54 am

i suspect that many female matchmakers are a big part of the shidduch crisis. certain matchmakers who discriminate people based on money, looks, age, being ffb, and other things that the Torah would not approve of them discriminating based on. they then block the proper shidduchim from happening. the solution to this is those female matchmakers quitting their job, or changing their ways.

Ding ding ding
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May 22, 2025 1:35 pm

We have a winning comment

agree
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May 22, 2025 4:20 pm

I met a guy on my own who no shadchan would ever suggest to me bc his family is more lubavitch than mine

I suspect you are a bitter guy.
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May 22, 2025 4:57 pm

It isn’t the women shadchanim who are the problem. Unfortunately you don’t meet the standards of their clientele. So Man up/Boss up or become such a nice guy that your friends keep on mentioning you as their #1 single friend (meaning that they are willing to take achrayut to their immediate family & machatunim that you are a quality guy).

Not just female
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May 23, 2025 12:21 am

Male shadchanim are equally as guilty.
At the end of the day, it’s in Hashems hands

Re comment - about shadchanim possibly holding up
May 22, 2025 1:39 pm

That is indeed important

Talk is cheap
May 22, 2025 2:45 pm

All this talk helps nothing. The problem is the artificial devaluation of girls. Face it, most girls in our educational system are more responsible, hardworking, gracious, intelligent and more capable than the bochurim that come out the boys system. Yet, despite the fact that every girl is catch, the crisis hits as soon as she enters the Shidduch age. Why? Because every minute over age 21, her value goes down, but it is completely artificial. This fake devaluation IS the source of all the problems. The fact of the matter is that a girl in her mid-twenties is more beautiful,… Read more »

But why
May 22, 2025 3:27 pm

Why separate seating though?

Is this mixed?
May 22, 2025 3:40 pm

Is this for boys or girls?

Where
May 22, 2025 4:29 pm

Where is it?
Someone’s house? What’s 630 east NY

Regarding female shadchanim
May 22, 2025 4:31 pm

I think female matchmakers work really hard many times for no pay
Maybe gratitude should go first before making your request or critique

Is there a possibility for the event to be on zoom
May 22, 2025 7:19 pm

Asking for ALL those who are not in Crown Heights, who would immensely benefit from listening in to this event. Is there any possibility in the world for the event to be live streamed or have a zoom option? Thank you!!

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