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Shidduch Leaders Get Together

40 leaders of "Shidduch Group Network" chapters spent Shabbos in Crown Heights discussing challenges and exchanging names. Full Story, Photos

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Toby Lieder is highly recommended from my experiences
November 2, 2015 11:21 pm

I have gone to many Shadchanim who just take my profile and never hear from them again
Then when I contact them they tell me don’t call me I’ll call you
I found that Toby was there with a smile every time I needed her
She takes each Shidduch very seriously and always gets back to me within 24 hrs!
Just saying…

SUGGESTION of SHADCHAN
November 2, 2015 11:06 pm

Our ‘new age’ very successful, dedicated shadchan, Mrs Toby Lieder is available for skype interviews from anywhere around the world! she puts her heart n soul into helping you find your shidduch.

I found her to be very insightful,dedicated, patient, and deeply interested.
You may contact her at [email protected]

Rivkah!!
November 2, 2015 10:28 pm

A great choice for a meaningful and productive evening! She is fabulous performer!

Thanks to Chavi Katzman's Group!
November 2, 2015 8:42 pm

CORRECTION: The Sunday brunch was sponsored by Chavi Katzman’s Shidduch Group. May the group be showered with brachos and celebrate many engagements!

WOW #4
November 2, 2015 7:48 pm

Muma Leiba is very special shadchenta but not everybody gets her help. May you have many wonderful years together

List of Shadchanim and their telephone numbers
November 2, 2015 3:56 pm

Could you include a list of experienced shadchanim and their telephone numbers?

What about a professional dating website with
November 2, 2015 3:48 pm

advisors/moderators/etc, or just a subsection on existing sites.
And/or Shadchanim should have reviews/feedback/likes, just like Amazon/eBay/Facebook, like any other vendor of products or services. We need ACCOUNTABILITY in our modern-shtetl, like yesterday!

NOT A SHADCHEN
November 2, 2015 1:55 pm

I am not a shadchen but have made four shiduchim, for the sake of helping these people, not for the dollar sign attached, and all are Boruch Hashem blissfully happy marriages. when shadchonus becomes a business it’s bad news. To add to # 5, I was once told by a so called shadchen, when she heard the girl interested was a divorced woman with more than six children, I was told flat out ”OH, FORGET ABOUT IT”.

Shidduchim
November 2, 2015 12:23 pm

I find much better luck with the frum online dating sites.

chaya
November 2, 2015 12:08 pm

please go to meetings and if from out of town send in your child’s profile or friend’s child.
יגעת ומצאת

HaShem looks to the heart of us all especially in these matters
November 2, 2015 12:37 am

I have to sadly admit that #1, #4 and #5 are apsolutely correct. This reality we find ourselves in today does not come with easy answers and much needed chessed should be applied first for the sake of all single frum people who would like to find their besheret. More real compassion also for the women who are having to humble themselves while asking for help which is difficult on it’s own. No needed attitude, judgement or look how important one is with what seems is some power or leverage. Shatchanim must come with a pure heart and humble before… Read more »

Yashar koach!
November 1, 2015 10:09 pm

What a fabulous organization! They should have continued hatzlacha in all that they do for the klal!

Much Success
November 1, 2015 10:04 pm

Wishing them all much success.

There are so many singles that cannot even get passed the first stage of receiving a single suggestion…would it be possible that the shadchanim that attended these events
a. list their names and contact info
b. be very generous in giving suggestions and resumes.

If you have a database of singles it shouldn’t be that hard to match names even if you simply put them in 3 basic categories. The flow of information will only hasten the process.

Its a practical suggestion that will make a world of a difference.

Thank you.
November 1, 2015 9:50 pm

Its so nice to see people trying to make a difference.

I have two children, one has not received even one suggestion in over six month and my other has not received a suggestion in over two years. (I am not referring to a date, just suggestions.) This has been going on for years. And I know of other singles that are in the same situation. It begs to wonder.

I hope the work of special people will bear fruit.

Shadchanim- Point System
November 1, 2015 9:49 pm

I found my wife without a shadchan.
They make you chase after them, you get set up with the most far out matches, oh yeah, if your baall teshuva, points off, black or latino, another point off, adopted, another point off, not connected to some “big mashpia”, can’t even get in the front door.
Pathetic System
Thank Hashemi I found the love of my life with Hashemi help only!!!!!!!

Advice
November 1, 2015 9:41 pm

Can you plz post the questions/answers?

Amazing weekend
November 1, 2015 9:31 pm

The networking and advice from shadchanim and parents of those in the dating scene were very helpful and well spoken ! Yasher koach!

Wishing only much success
November 1, 2015 9:23 pm

I have no idea what they do together because when it comes to making a match nobody seems to be able to get things done

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