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Shidduch Leaders Get Together

40 leaders of "Shidduch Group Network" chapters spent Shabbos in Crown Heights discussing challenges and exchanging names. Full Story, Photos

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Wishing only much success
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Wishing only much success

I have no idea what they do together because when it comes to making a match nobody seems to be able to get things done

Amazing weekend
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Amazing weekend

The networking and advice from shadchanim and parents of those in the dating scene were very helpful and well spoken ! Yasher koach!

Advice
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Advice

Can you plz post the questions/answers?

Shadchanim- Point System
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Shadchanim- Point System

I found my wife without a shadchan.
They make you chase after them, you get set up with the most far out matches, oh yeah, if your baall teshuva, points off, black or latino, another point off, adopted, another point off, not connected to some “big mashpia”, can’t even get in the front door.
Pathetic System
Thank Hashemi I found the love of my life with Hashemi help only!!!!!!!

Thank you.
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Thank you.

Its so nice to see people trying to make a difference.

I have two children, one has not received even one suggestion in over six month and my other has not received a suggestion in over two years. (I am not referring to a date, just suggestions.) This has been going on for years. And I know of other singles that are in the same situation. It begs to wonder.

I hope the work of special people will bear fruit.

Much Success
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Much Success

Wishing them all much success.

There are so many singles that cannot even get passed the first stage of receiving a single suggestion…would it be possible that the shadchanim that attended these events
a. list their names and contact info
b. be very generous in giving suggestions and resumes.

If you have a database of singles it shouldn’t be that hard to match names even if you simply put them in 3 basic categories. The flow of information will only hasten the process.

Its a practical suggestion that will make a world of a difference.

Yashar koach!
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Yashar koach!

What a fabulous organization! They should have continued hatzlacha in all that they do for the klal!

HaShem looks to the heart of us all especially in these matters
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HaShem looks to the heart of us all especially in these matters

I have to sadly admit that #1, #4 and #5 are apsolutely correct. This reality we find ourselves in today does not come with easy answers and much needed chessed should be applied first for the sake of all single frum people who would like to find their besheret. More real compassion also for the women who are having to humble themselves while asking for help which is difficult on it’s own. No needed attitude, judgement or look how important one is with what seems is some power or leverage. Shatchanim must come with a pure heart and humble before… Read more »

chaya
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chaya

please go to meetings and if from out of town send in your child’s profile or friend’s child.
יגעת ומצאת

Shidduchim
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Shidduchim

I find much better luck with the frum online dating sites.

NOT A SHADCHEN
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NOT A SHADCHEN

I am not a shadchen but have made four shiduchim, for the sake of helping these people, not for the dollar sign attached, and all are Boruch Hashem blissfully happy marriages. when shadchonus becomes a business it’s bad news. To add to # 5, I was once told by a so called shadchen, when she heard the girl interested was a divorced woman with more than six children, I was told flat out ”OH, FORGET ABOUT IT”.

What about a professional dating website with
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What about a professional dating website with

advisors/moderators/etc, or just a subsection on existing sites.
And/or Shadchanim should have reviews/feedback/likes, just like Amazon/eBay/Facebook, like any other vendor of products or services. We need ACCOUNTABILITY in our modern-shtetl, like yesterday!

List of Shadchanim and their telephone numbers
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List of Shadchanim and their telephone numbers

Could you include a list of experienced shadchanim and their telephone numbers?

WOW #4
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WOW #4

Muma Leiba is very special shadchenta but not everybody gets her help. May you have many wonderful years together

Thanks to Chavi Katzman's Group!
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Thanks to Chavi Katzman's Group!

CORRECTION: The Sunday brunch was sponsored by Chavi Katzman’s Shidduch Group. May the group be showered with brachos and celebrate many engagements!

Rivkah!!
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Rivkah!!

A great choice for a meaningful and productive evening! She is fabulous performer!

SUGGESTION  of SHADCHAN
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SUGGESTION of SHADCHAN

Our ‘new age’ very successful, dedicated shadchan, Mrs Toby Lieder is available for skype interviews from anywhere around the world! she puts her heart n soul into helping you find your shidduch.

I found her to be very insightful,dedicated, patient, and deeply interested.
You may contact her at [email protected]

Toby Lieder is highly recommended from my experiences
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Toby Lieder is highly recommended from my experiences

I have gone to many Shadchanim who just take my profile and never hear from them again
Then when I contact them they tell me don’t call me I’ll call you
I found that Toby was there with a smile every time I needed her
She takes each Shidduch very seriously and always gets back to me within 24 hrs!
Just saying…

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