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Hundreds at Event Against Abuse

A standing-room only crowd packed Lubavitch Yeshiva in Crown Heights for a powerful event Monday to combat child abuse in the Orthodox Jewish community. Full Story, Photos, Video

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wish I had known about it
September 19, 2014 1:47 am

Thank you so much for dedicated efforts to protect our children. Please do inform us where we can access this pamphlet that was mentioned and please let us know if there is a way to view a video of the event.

still crying
September 18, 2014 2:39 pm

Meir u and ur team should b on the wall of fame!!.Kol hakovod and may u all b blessed with a healing year full of happiness and success in the wonderful things u do. May Hashem show his Compassion and heal all those who have been hurt in any form of abuse Refua Shleima to klal Yisroel!Kesiva Vchasima Tova!Shona Tova UMASUKA

really effective event
September 18, 2014 2:16 am

I was in C.H. from out of town and came just because i wanted to support this very worthy cause. The speakers were all outstanding and in my opinion this org. is already helping save many lives. Thank you meir and your team!!

Video of event
September 17, 2014 11:01 pm

Was the event video taped? Many of us were unable to attend but would really appreciate being able to see videos of the speeches

To Number 58
September 17, 2014 5:26 pm

Again, perpetuating a myth. Did you not see that Benny Forer, Reb Chaim Drizin, Rabbi Dr. Twersky, etc are involved??? Did you not see that? Why do you keep repeating that its kids with emotional problems?

#51
September 17, 2014 4:29 pm

THE ONLY PROBLEM WITH SOME THAT ARE RUNNING IT, IS THAT THEY ARE TOO EMOTIONALLY INVESTED. SOMETIMES THEY CANT DO THE RIGHT THING,YOU HAVE TO FEEL BAD FOR THEM BUT IT DOESNT ALWAYS MEAN THE RIGHT DECISIONS

#52
September 17, 2014 4:26 pm

AND MOMS?

Meir, you are wonderful, a brave brave man
September 17, 2014 11:59 am

Let me tell you, all those who turn away from the truth, this is a. serious situation and destroys a person from the core of their very essence. This has been sadly going on for all time, but…there are many people speaking up and strong enough to go after their attackers, and i say attackers because that what it is. An attack. Meir and the team, Gd bless you, Gd bless you, you are saving so many people by speaking out and not taking a back seat, to be a bystander to abuse of children is like….the worst. And stop… Read more »

Interesting discussion
September 17, 2014 10:06 am

I did not attend the talk but am impressed with the supportive comments, as well as a number of people addressing the fact that community leaders are not supporting victims enough. Unfortunately, it is only a rare religious leader (whether we are talking about the Catholic Church or another faith community) who speaks up for victims and survivors. I know this because my organization teaches faith communities about child abuse. Discord is hard and people may feel pressured to conform, but in the end, it takes congregants to band together in support of victims perhaps in search of new leaders… Read more »

... האירגונים האלה צריכים לפעול גם בישראל
September 17, 2014 8:41 am
Was Australia discussed
September 17, 2014 6:34 am

Why didn’t the event talk about the specific cases in Australia and address the Rabbinic leadership directly, and by name. Without making the difficult confrontations, THERE WILL BE NO CHANGE!

“Speak up, we will not blame you….Speak up – you will be embraced. And you will be loved…”

Did the Rabbi provide examples to back up his empty rhetoric.

great job
September 17, 2014 1:57 am

someone should follow the example and make a Wall of Shame for all deadbeat dads in our community

Please!
September 16, 2014 11:36 pm

Unless you yourself are someone who was put on the Wall of Shame without committing any wrongdoing, please stop promulgating the notion that JCW randomly put up names. I think that a community’s critical self-examination is extremely important, and we must always ask ourselves if we are doing/supporting the right cause. In the case of JCW, we have every reason to believe that those running it are people of honesty and self-sacrifice. I am proud to be part of the community that is of the first to take a real stand in protecting our children. It is a shame that… Read more »

Thank you JCW
September 16, 2014 8:43 pm

#5 Sometimes it needs younger people to deal with
Matters that Rabbonim have not and can not accept
The fact that abuse is a problem, as we have
Here in London
All of u at JCW thank you, thank you very much
JCW has worked as far as London in relation to
Chizuck

JCW should get Rabbis to comment on individual cases
September 16, 2014 8:42 pm

JCW is an amazing organization and I commend all the Rabbis who spoke out against abuse and abuse coverups. They now need to go to the next level and raise the profile of individual cases in need of support. Instead of talking generally and not confronting actual people, we need to see them make the difficult decisions and stand by victims against perpetrators who may be Rabbinical colleagues. Will this ever happen? I am not hopeful.

To where are u
September 16, 2014 8:19 pm

Lets stop with always bashing and pointing fingers. Its not our job to decide who should or shouldnt b where. Our principals do an outstanding job and work day and night- using their absence or presence at this event is a poor judgement in deciding how much they care.

Thank you
September 16, 2014 7:32 pm

AMAZING video! Thank you to all those involved in JCW for protecting my children.
Sincerely,
A thankful mother

If you didn't go, you missed a powerful, educational experience
September 16, 2014 6:52 pm

People who are asking questions here, most of your questions would’ve been answered if you’d attended. There’s a data base of 350 people whose names are not publicly posted on the Wall of Shame but who are suspects being investigated. Research appears to be done very, very carefully and properly. One person’s story even showed how a perpetrator was hopefully helped because of the organization! I thought I knew a lot about this subject but I learned quite a bit last night that I never could have imagined. BTW, Bais Rivka principals/staff were there, as well. Yes, the people involved… Read more »

I attended
September 16, 2014 5:26 pm

I wished more people showed up. But I intend to speak up and get the word out. I was so inspired and humbled by what I heard. Even more, I wish to become more sensitive to this subject as an educator and turn crown heights over! Meir Yoshar Koach! Like you said, the Rebbe’s brachos are with you!!! You are a true example of a soldier whose mission is to get the job done right!!

Anonymous
September 16, 2014 5:24 pm

Does JCW have a website?

ch mom
September 16, 2014 5:15 pm

how do i get a copy of keeping kids safe that was distributed last niight?

#38
September 16, 2014 5:14 pm

That’s what they need to hear. I was recently at a house of someone (a Rabbi) high up in our community, someone who is central to our shul and school, and he was speaking very disrespectly about a survivor of abuse (which happened in the school before this rabbi’s time but only came out in the last 5 years). The abuse survivor is a thorn in the community’s side because he wants accountability for something everyone knew happened but noone did anything about. I couldnt believe what I was hearing to be honest. they keep on talking about all their… Read more »

To #3
September 16, 2014 4:48 pm

A lot of principals were not there because they would have a lot of people to answer to!

Thank you
September 16, 2014 3:58 pm

Thank you Meir! And everyone else who supports JCW. This really means so much to me and so many people!

To #31
September 16, 2014 3:48 pm

THERE WAS NO ONE MISTAKENLY PUT ON THE WALL OF SHAME…..Stop perpetuating that myth.

where are you?
September 16, 2014 3:44 pm

Where are you, our community’s rabbonim and mashpiim and mechanchim??? Where are you? Where are you, our principals? Where are you, our hanholos? It’s not enough that hundreds came out to listen and learn; if you are the heads of our mosdei chinuch and our community, you need to make your voice heard!!! Where are you?? So busy with bashing internet and girls clothes that you can’t be bothered with this? You’re too busy making sure the kids in your schools follow the rules no matter what, that you have no time to show that you CARE about these kids?… Read more »

wow
September 16, 2014 3:30 pm

in answer to #2
it is painful to be the spouse and children, but at this time they are trying to help tho victims and prevent more victims!! They probably feel done with with sensitivity!!!

attended
September 16, 2014 3:27 pm

It is sad to know there are perpurtrator
s getting on in years still roaming the streets freely. They have ruined lives my molestic kids 40 ago and these grown up victims still suffer

Thank you!!
September 16, 2014 3:21 pm

Where can we get the “raising safe kids” and get help out of town?
TX!!

Kol hakavod
September 16, 2014 3:16 pm

Kal hakavod to all the brave individuals . As a young parent I feel very blessed and secure knowing this organization exists to make our community safer.

thank you
September 16, 2014 2:56 pm

To all those who are speaking up. I am sure it must be very difficult to tell your stories, remember and feel the pain. As a mother I can’t tell you what your courage means to me. You are helping to prevent further victims and you may also be helping the perpetrators. Stopping them ultimately helps them. To the family members of the perpetrators it is also very painful but ultimately it is better for people to be aware if someone is dangerous. Family members are very often victims of the abusers and it is difficult for them to speak… Read more »

is this really the right thing?? I don't know
September 16, 2014 2:31 pm

did they apologize to those they may have mistakenly put on their wall of shame??

to #3
September 16, 2014 2:30 pm

Rabbi Minsky – menahel mesivta in chovevei Torah was there.

Eli Nash
September 16, 2014 2:28 pm

I would have attended the event if not for Eli Nash’s involvement

Important work that needs get get done
September 16, 2014 2:21 pm

Just needs to incorporate more people who learn chassisdus and have yiras shamayim

To #24 you said it perfectly.
September 16, 2014 2:03 pm

This was a great event and just shows how petty gossip and internet comments don’t reflect true public opinion. Based on all the bad mouthing that goes on against JCW you’d expect less then 300 people to attend; instead I believe even the 800 number is low balling it. The speakers each out did each other and bringing in the DA to make it clear that the Hynes administration’s games are over will hopefully help send a strong message to potentially abusers and their supporters. Both of the victims who spoke, I truly hope have a complete healing and they… Read more »

To #5
September 16, 2014 1:06 pm

Halevi our Rabbi’s could be counted upon to “have a much better understanding of things.” It is way past time that our own Chabad Rabbonim recognize that they ALSO need to be educated by recognized specialists about abusers of all kinds (molesters, spouses, financial, etc). Until the day comes that they can take off their blinders and bittel themselves to genuinely seek the knowledge to help those that are suffering, their names will not appear on any boards. I am past angry, I am very sad.

wow
September 16, 2014 12:37 pm

Eli I commend you for your courage.
You have been through a lot and you took the time and effort to get help. I’m sorry you had to endure this tragedy but you have proved to be an amazing gentleman and an inspiration to many.

Sholom
September 16, 2014 11:57 am

The True leaders and mechanchim of the rebbe’s community showed up last night, and to them I say “Ashrecha” You should be blessed, it’s not always popular to do the right thing, but it’s the right thing to do. To those that claim to be community leaders and that are always around for the photo op with whichever politician traipses through the neighborhood and that couldn’t be bothered to show up to last nights event, I say shame on you, you clearly do not represent the interests of the people living in Crown Heights… The organizers of this cause deserve… Read more »

Sruly Clapman.
September 16, 2014 11:46 am

After a long hard day at work. I decided my laying in bed would be Unaccepted. I got to ULY and the place was so jammed that there was barley standing room! Kol Hakovod to all those that attended and showed support for this most important issue facing any community in the world.
Shame on anyone with influence that did not attend.
All that was lacking were boxes of tissues for all the tears that freely flowed.
God bless the organizations that protect the most precious possession we have OUR CHILDREN.

great event to bring awareness but what's with all the...
September 16, 2014 11:22 am

plaid shirts? the men in the audience look like they are attending a rodeo.

i was there.were you???
September 16, 2014 11:15 am

to #3 rabbi dechter was there from begining till the end at 11,30

Heartening
September 16, 2014 9:57 am

While other communities turn a blind eye and pretend this problem doesn’t exist, it’s nice to see that our community is recognizing a problem and addressing it. That’s the first step to a solution.

Very informative and BH well-attended!
September 16, 2014 9:49 am

Thank you for being there for us and our children. May you be well-funded and receive emotional and technical support always

It was AMAZING!!!!
September 16, 2014 9:48 am

Amazing event!! This event is needed in each community. Thank you so much for organizing!

PARENTS' GUIDE
September 16, 2014 9:47 am

In a photo, I see someone holding a parents’ guide, RAISING SAFE KIDS. How can I get a copy of it? Thank you.

Why now?
September 16, 2014 9:46 am

Just curious where all these people were at all the other awareness events in Crown Heights over the last 5 or 6 years. I’ve been to at least 3, and there were never more than 100 people there. Glad to see a better turnout this time!

Yankel
September 16, 2014 9:33 am

It is important to take to mind that where a false accusation is made, in all likelihood there is a true perpetrator who got away with it. If an innocent person is sitting in jail, then the true predator is still out there on the loose. It is fundamentally important to root out false allegations, for the sake of catching the true offenders.

Your uncle in Detroit
September 16, 2014 9:26 am

Looking good, Leiki

Amazing!!!
September 16, 2014 9:19 am

So proud to be Chabad!

Powerful and awe inspiring
September 16, 2014 9:12 am

Thanks to everyone who helped put this together, it was raw, heart wrenching and inspiring all at the same time.
To share how amazing it was: My wife in middle of the event sent me a text that we need to talk/educate our 7 year old innocent child so he can stay innocent.

Thanks again.

Brilliant
September 16, 2014 8:54 am

Awesomeness

Thank you for your bravery
September 16, 2014 8:37 am

Chilling
A major event that will change the lives of many
Thank you for the bravery and the strength of those who spoke up .. Through them many will be saved

Yasher koach Eli … May no more kids ever suffer again 🙁

Wow
September 16, 2014 8:27 am

What a powerful unblievable important event !
Thank you !

So Happy...
September 16, 2014 7:59 am

For all the naysayers who thought that CH doesn’t care about the abuse going on, because they objected – rightly so – to the previous vigilante approach of CHW, I think the great turnout from the entire CH spectrum, including many teachers and educators, is proof that WE DO CARE. We just want it to be done properly, with care and sensitivity, with accountability and professionalism. Well done. Let us hope and pray that they avoid the mistakes of the previous round, where they did so much more damage than good and lost credibility. We need it. And we need… Read more »

was there
September 16, 2014 7:37 am

Hopefully they back their words with action and are there to have a educational website rather then using all of this tobhavea website as a way of revenge for people for the last 60years

Thank you...
September 16, 2014 7:32 am

To all the speakers who had the courage to stand up and let their anguish be heard by all! Rabbi Jacobson demanded we hear the real kol of the shofar coming from all people who suffer , especially the silent ones! May this Rosh hashana bring the final geulah from ALL suffering!

hey
September 16, 2014 7:30 am

Hey Moshe banda I knew you would be there nice seeing you

why do they still not have reputable lubavich rabbis on their board?
September 16, 2014 7:29 am

Its hard to trust an organization that is run by kids who have anger issues, even justified anger issues, without respected rabbis who have a much better understanding of things.
The idea is good, but the implementation needs help to really get people on board

Meir Seewald...
September 16, 2014 7:25 am

You are a hero!

Question?
September 16, 2014 7:24 am

Did anyone see the principals from our yeshivas? Especially the boys yeshivas??

great org- got question
September 16, 2014 7:14 am

how do we protect the abusers spouse children and grandchildren ?who are innocent victims too ?
– would love to see this relaunch of this organization a bit more sensitive—–

Glad to see that
September 16, 2014 6:05 am

Thanks for organizing this kind of events! It will help a lot of people.

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