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Face to Face With 19 Shadchanim

These 19 shadchanim will meet in a single room for a first of its kind event in Crown Heights: Interacting with singles and parents. Full Story

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Don't understand
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Don't understand

Why not just invite boys and girls at the same time? Wouldn’t that be a convenient way for individuals to meet?

Anon
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Anon

Sounds scary.

Separate times???
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Separate times???

Why put bochurim and girls times separate when the goal is for them to meet?????? Delaying the process in the name of tznius!!!

Real Deal
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Real Deal

Mrs,Esther Wilhelm. She’s Amazing.

Great idea!
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Great idea!

What if the girls and boys can have a room where they can do some spead dating?

Wow!
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Wow!

So many Shadchanim

any way
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any way

of getting my resume in front of these people if i live in canada
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2 nefashos
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2 nefashos

First of all, we have two nefashos…. the tachlus of our generation is to exercise both. Lav dafka this program is truly pertaining to our nefesh ha Bahamas and nefesh elokus. We must be aware of our struggles of our time and not close our eyes to where we are lacking.

To # 6
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To # 6

There is not enough shadchanim there are many more any anybody can be a shadchan.. if you see someone whom might be good for someone else you know say something . You never know you might be the shliach from the aibershter to make this happen!! May we hear if many simchas!!

#1 #3 #5  nail on the head!!
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#1 #3 #5 nail on the head!!

Been saying that forever, give our community time, honestly takes a long time for our community to adapt to change.

Breaking the Shadchan Barrier
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Breaking the Shadchan Barrier

Great opportunity to meet in person the shadchan you are or will be using, and meet new ones that you may never have known.

To #2
I believe the fear is when you are the only one, but if you are in a room with others, the fear will melt away.

To #9
It is so true, what you say, but a shadchan that dedicates hours (daily or weekly) can make things move a lot quicker.

From someone that is trying to help others find their bashert (in spare time)!

Cut the middle man!!!
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Cut the middle man!!!

There should be a yearly if not monthly sponsored event, where singles can just do their thing, I promise it would prove far more effective. for those of you who believe that isn’t tznius… you’re entitled to your opinion but at the end of the day it is the young people’s choice as to how they will go about finding their bashert. For arguments sake I do ask, years down the line does it really make a difference if the couple met in an “unconventional” setting? And if there is a way to solve a shidduch crisis (where because of… Read more »

From the secret files of a undercover shadchan........
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From the secret files of a undercover shadchan........

Out of personal experience, we have to make sure to treat the potential spouses as actual people not just names on a paper. I hope that’ll be the focal point of the discussion that every date matters. Especially since I feel a bit insulted for not being invited…………

question on process
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question on process

question:
some of these shadchanim charge an upfront fee. Do these fees apply for someone who meets them at this event?

So Nice To See!
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So Nice To See!

It’s always so good to see the great work all these sites are doing! I personally had my son get engaged through FindYourBashert.com but both these sites seem to be amazing!

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