By Leibel Rodman
I would like to express hakaros hatov to Rabbi Gershon Avtzon for spending the time writing his op-ed, “Let’s Talk About Shluchim Working Under Shluchim,” and for surfacing this extremely important yet overlooked topic.
It is a topic that is near and dear to us as our organization, The Kavod Vesifores Foundation, was established to promote the Rebbe‘s directives in this area and improve the work and life conditions of “employee shluchim.”
Although I agree with many of Rabbi Avtzon’s suggestions, I would like to add a few points and address certain omissions and misconceptions in his op-ed. Additionally, while his op-ed proposes solutions for future employee shluchim to avoid these experiences, we must also acknowledge and address the many employee shluchim families currently facing these challenges and propose solutions to address their existing needs as well.
First, we must look to the Rebbe’s own words when addressing this (and any) important shlichus topic. On several occasions, the Rebbe spoke publicly about employee shluchim and their compensation. Here are a few examples:
- Speaking of the gifts donated by Bnei Yisroel to the Beis Hamikdash that were used to create “honorable & glorified” (“L’Kavod V’Lsifores”) garments for the kohanim, the Rebbe compares this directive to modern-day “kohanim,” i.e. shluchim, teachers, shochtim, etc. The Rebbe derives from here that these holy employees must also be compensated in a manner of “honor & glory” to the extent they will never have to ask for a raise or a supplement and certainly not be paid based on a calculation of their “needs.” Additionally, the Rebbe pointed out, that even to a young child it is obvious that if these employees are concerned over their finances, they will become distracted from their holy shlichus work. (Toras Menachem, Vayakel-Pekudai, Parshas Para, 5748)
- Once, at a farbrengen, the Rebbe beseeched (“מיט אַלע לשונות של בקשה”) all Chabad institutions to increase salaries by 10% across the board, without questions or calculations. The Rebbe insisted that the directors of these institutions should recognize that they are not paying from their own money, and therefore, should avoid making “cheshbonos” when it comes to their employees’ compensation. Furthermore, the Rebbe explained that any funds directed to the employees would not impact the moised’s coffers and would surely be repaid by Hashem. (Sichos Kodesh, 5738, v. 3, p. 317)
- Anywhere this topic is discussed, the Rebbe was consistently adamant about one thing: finances and compensation are solely the responsibility of the employer, and the employee shliach should direct all of their energy towards their holy mission and not on financial concerns.
With the Rebbe’s words in mind, I would like to propose some additional recommendations and address some omissions and misconceptions for employee and employer shluchim to consider:
1. Mesiras Nefesh
By its definition, shlichus is a profession that requires mesiras nefesh and attracts individuals who will be moser nefesh for the Rebbe. All involved parties should acknowledge this and prepare for it. To ignore this fact will only increase the likelihood of future machlokes. Furthermore, any mesiras nefesh employer shluchim experience is also felt by their employees and then some.
2. Livable Wage
Far too often, employee shluchim are forced to live on insufficient income, far below the needs of a frum family and usually at a fraction of the “industry standard” for their profession, be it in education, clergy, kashrus, or otherwise. In order to attract more yungeleit to employee shlichus, moisdos need to ensure that they will not only be able to support their families, but also send their kids to camp and yeshiva, make a simcha with dignity, marry off their children, and most importantly, live with the peace of mind to fully focus on their holy mission.
3. Shluchim are families, not individuals
When hiring a shliach, you are not hiring an individual, you are hiring them and their family, and IY” H a growing family. Particularly in “out of town” settings, a shliach is hiring an entire family when they bring down an employee shliach, and they should accept full responsibility for the entire family. When hiring a new shliach, the employer should ensure that there is a sufficient role for both spouses and that they are each compensated and treated in a manner of “kavod vesifores.”
4. The moised is not a “family business”
Many employer shluchim view their moised as a “family business,” and have lost sight of the true baal habayis and source of their brocha. A shliach that disproportionately prioritizes their family’s gashmius or is adamant about hiring all of his children or close relatives is the most likely to replace their employees when their child comes of age, and they are more likely to withhold compensation and other opportunities. Shlichus is NOT a “family business” and employees should avoid those who view it as such.
5. Tenure, dismissal & post-working years:
Lastly, the matters of tenure, dismissal, and preparing employee shluchim for their post-working years after a lifetime on shlichus must be discussed and not glossed over when addressing this topic. In our opinion, this is the number one reason employee shlichus is avoided.
One cannot separate the dedication to the Rebbe, the moised, and their kehilla employee shluchim demonstrate from their “careers.” Just as the concept of “tenure” is commonplace in l’havdil, academia, or nonprofits, how much more so should it exist in shlichus that demands one invest their entire heart and soul to the most worthy cause? The fact that an employee shliach can be (and regularly are), rachmana litzlan, fired after a lifetime of dedication for any reason whatsoever and without recourse or repercussion must change. Without addressing this aspect, we are not addressing the issue at all.
Granted, there are some accepted practices intended to mitigate this problem (chodesh lshona, for example) but they are too outdated and insufficient to be effective. Not to mention, this only scratches the surface from a financial perspective but does nothing to address the emotional and spiritual damage employee shluchim experience when they are dismissed. Nor does it address the trauma the family experiences of packing up and leaving the city and community after many years of service and dedication. We must put an end to firing employee shluchim without cause and without sufficient recourse or compensation if we are to truly address this issue.
Employer shluchim must recognize the tremendous responsibility they bear, not just to their employees, but to the families and children as well. They must be willing to truly examine their priorities and budget to ensure they can comfortably provide their employees with a lifestyle of kavod vesifores, and certainly not cut corners or make sacrifices on their employee’s behalf.
My goal is not, chas v’shalom, to diminish Rabbi Avtzon’s timely op-ed, and certainly not to diminish the tremendous work and sacrifice employer shluchim across the globe demonstrate. Nor am I trying to imply this is a universal experience. However, if we are truly serious about the treatment of employee shluchim, we must be willing to openly and honestly address the many challenges they face.
For more information, please visit: https://thekvsfoundation.org
Someone finally doing something about an issue that’s been going on for too many years.
Thank you for this important article! The needs of employee shluchim and their families cannot be overlooked anymore!
It is a great privilege to be on shlichus. It demands mesiras nefesh, but it also brings great satisfaction to know that you make a difference in people’s lives and they respect you for it. It is so sad to read of shluchim who are not treated by their employers with decency and respect. I hope that these are the exceptions. I always wonder about people who teach the Rebbe’s sichas, telling others how to act in a refined manner, but don’t follow those teachings themselves. Again, I hope these are the exceptions, and that most shluchim treat their employers… Read more »
Tenure is a horrible concept that proves faulty in the secular world. It keeps bad people in high level positions and makes it hard to see positive change in institutions. For the secular example of academia: many professors known for treating students and colleagues terribly, still get to remain in their position because of the out-dated tenure. More and more institutions are opting out of it for a reason. It’s awful. One should not remain in such a high level position if it is hurting those underneath. It will hurt young shluchim and make them jaded. This will be a… Read more »
Hi there, and thank you for your feedback. You raise a number of interesting points. Please understand, our recommendation for “tenure” in shlichus is not ch”vsh to keep people in positions beyond their effective years. However: 1) shluchim should obtain some form of tenure after years of service. This tenure can be in the form of additional earned hanakah (severance/retirement pay) at the end of their working years (eg chodesh v’chetzi lshona after 20 years in service and chodshayim lshona after 30 years, etc.). 2) we absolutely do NOT believe shluchim should be kept in the SAME position beyond their… Read more »
Very good point. That’s why written contracts that both parties agree to with very clear expectations of what each party’s responsibilities, compensation, and jurisdiction are , are so critical.
Some could/should
Others need to go out on their own to get a better understanding of the full picture and necessary sacrifices in order to really fulfill The Rebbe’s Shlichus
Some have tried and at one point realized the challenges and decided to work/join another Shaliach and some end up going into the business world, education, career…
Its not for everyone
Beautiful article but the one’s who need to read this won’t care.
Shluchis as I said in the last post is dead. If you are an aspiring shliach with no family connections the best you can get is somewhere in the middle of Africa and even then, you’d be in luck.
Shlichus is now a family business not an institution of moser nefesh.
And do you know how many random places in America or Europe or anywhere have yidden and no shluchim go there
This is absolute nonsense.
Myself and many others I know have no family connections at all, and are on Shlichus in what the public will consider “very good” locations.
Ah complete bubbeh meise. Fortunately I know first hand. Plenty of places with 0 connections and a happening shlichus.
Hi there, thank you for your feedback. We believe the koach of shlichus comes from Hashem with the Rebbe’s brochos. Change is very possible and shlichus is B”H far from dead.
Your statement is completely false. Speaking from experience, I’m on Shlichus for 3 years now with no family connection and so are at least 10 of my close friends
This has been adressed many times, that’s why the Rebbe talked about it; but until Merkos or whoever should correct this, there won’t be any changes. There has to be an official policy when it comes to hire somebody, each one according to his position, family, etc. And if some problem should arise, the rabbonim have to act.
These are issues that are being addressed and worked on by shluchim on a regular basis.
It’s obviously a very complex relationship, there are no simple fixes.
There has been a lot of progress over the years, and the situation is widely improving.
All progress is great, but there are many shluchim and their families dealing with the ramifications of these issues actively. Structural and institutional changes are needed. Kuddos to KVS for making a public effort.
Why do you say “it’s obviously a very complex relationship”? What is complex about two individuals working towards the exact same cause? And I’d love to hear your examples of how it is improving. Do you mean that fewer and fewer yungeleit are choosing this type of shlichus so fewer people are struggling?
Same goal is an abigous term. Not necessarily does every shoiach working together have the same vision for what they’re trying to accomplish or do they agree on where to prioritize their efforts and resources. And even if they do have the same vision, many times they’ll have different operating styles. There’s a lot that can get complicated, and without clear boundaries the likelihood of machlokes is unfortunately quite high
Hi there, and thank you for your feedback. We strongly agree with you that there are no simple fixes to this issue, but that does not mean we should not try to make a difference. We are thrilled that there is a greater awareness around this issue amongst today’s potential shluchim. However, our overflowing inbox indicates that the situation is not improving as you think it is. In fact, we would argue that we are just approaching the first wave of employee shluchim (who went out in the 70s and 80s) reaching “retirement” age which will R”L exacerbate immensely. We… Read more »
While I understand the sensationalism of these articles, especially in the Kinus season, these issues aren’t exclusive to Shluchim or Shlichus.
These interpersonal/getting along/respect etc. issues apply to every day life, both in families and business as well.
There are more employers abusing their employees in our communities, and more school boards/Principals who are incompetent and disregard their teachers and students, then there are Shluchim who don’t get along. That’s a fact.
Hi there, and thank you for your comment. We do not believe an issue needs to be exclusive to shluchim to require special attention from our community. After all, there are endless worthy causes in our community to support yet we still make special effort to support shluchim.
Louder for the people in the back! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
As a shliach that was advised by a very prominent and well respected shliach “hold the spot for your daughter”, I would like to weigh in on a very overlooked issue. We moved out on shlichus to a small area. While we had chinuch for our kids 20 miles away, we were otherwise on our own. The loniliness is real and the mesirus nefesh is too. My kids gave up a lot with driving back and forth to school, missing out on friendships, kosher pizza and much more. Fast forward 20 years and we’re bringing out our daughter. Shabbos afternoon… Read more »
And what about an employee shliach and his children who makes those exact same sacrifices? Do you think they “deserve” a spot as well? Who will ensure that?
Sorry but you’re making your shlichus all about you with that logic and not about the rebbe as it should be.
You have a fair point, however:
A) what if there are no kids moving in for another 10 / 15 years? Would it than be right to hold on to the place?
B) there ia a big difference between holding on to a place for your kids vs replacing an established shliach with your kids
It’s not that much of time difference. But, Imagine someone working for longer than that and having HIS own kids, (and going throught your same challenges or similar) AND being kicked out because someone’s son or daughter.
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Also for 2 or 3 years you could hire someone just for that time, so that time is not wasted? I don’t know how the contracts and things exactly work, (just being curious , this is not an aggresive question)
What you are saying has validity in your situation where you are only bringing out 1 or 2 new shluchim. However, there are many shluchim in bigger areas who can bring out more shluchim and are either 1- bringing out many/all of their children, or 2- not bringing out anyone because they are waiting for their children to grow up and marry, or 3- bring out non-relatives and get rid of them when their children grow up or just treat them much worse than their children
It’s so important for the Rebbe’s will to be publicized!!
This new generation of “Shluchim” Come with big expectations and demands which unfortunate are not realistic and actual extremely disrespectful and unappreciative for the possible opportunity at hand Like someone that came from nothing worked extremely hard all his life building a successful empire and able to send his kids to the best universal schools, once they graduate and come back and welcome home with open arms while joining the business, they come with a attitude that everything must be completely changed, this is not a good way to operate the (always successful) business and show completely a lock of… Read more »
Before hiring, at various intervals during the shlichus as the needs of the employee family change, or whenever there’s a problem that arises, there are trained mediators who can help. I know that Rabbi Heshy Epstein, Rabbi Aaron Herman, and others have worked wonders to save shlichus employer/employee relationships.
should be among the values within the system, yet sometimes those who have passed down through the system have remained unchallenged and/or enabled.
Why?
i’ve met some different shluchim who didnt even respond to me. why are those types even shluchim if they are going to ignore even some jews who reach out to them. the community would be better off having a different shluchim who actually responds to jews who reach out to them, than to having shluchim who ignore the jews in their community. why are they in a position of leadership in the community if they don’t live up to the standard a leader should be.
why aren’t community leaders actively seeking out tinok shinoshba jews in their community and beyond, as much as they need to be. really bothers me.
Usually do this type of thing. Ask your shliach to sign up
There are still many places that need Shluchim! Even around the Crown Hts I can think of areas within a 5 mile radius that still need shuls, community centers etc.
It would be a good idea to discuss what the rebbe would want from yungerlight at this junction where many of them arent going on shluchos because of these problems. Would he want a yungerman to go on shluchos not under the banner of merkos if he wont be stepping on any existing shliachs toes (in a somewhat significant way).
I believe that over the years there was instances where the rebbe told people to do Shlichus even though they were not able to be under the system what would the rebbe say today when so many yungeleit can’t go on shlichus
I’ve heard of many “shluchim employers” who don’t let their employees fundraise.
And at the same time not paying a livable wage.
They get away with it because they pay a couple a nice salary but they are getting 2 full time employees for the price of 1
Our children Rabbi Yosef and Shira Muchnik are shluchim under Rabbi Aryeh and Leah Lang, Camarillo CA. Anyone looking for a perfect Shidduch should visit this Chabad house. I don’t have enough words to praise the Langs. Their generosity, kindness and cooperation are far above the norm. These couples work together with total dedication to the Rebbe. They often gift our kids with tokens of appreciation such as a few needed days off, gift certificates and opportunities to add to their income. They take care of each other’s children, who have grown up together They work as one family. The… Read more »