By Dovid Zaklikowski for COLlive and Hasidic Archives
When he first arrived in the city of Kharkov, Rabbi Yitzchok Horowitz, known as Itche der Masmid (Itche the Diligent), lived in the home of R’ Mendel and Hinda Deitsch.
The Deitsches provided the respected chossid with a comfortable bed, but Reb Itche seldom used it.
The sages teach that sleep is one-sixtieth of death, he used to say. “If one falls asleep against one’s will, so be it—one’s life is in G-d’s hands anyway. But who would prepare to go to sleep in a bed to die, even if only by a sixtieth?”
The Deitsches’ large apartment served as a shul during the day, and Reb Itche would spend many hours there in prayer. One day, in the midst of his prayers, he realized that everyone else had gone out, and he was alone in the apartment with Hinda’s mother, Rochel Leah Shagalovitch.
To adhere to the laws of Yichud, Reb Itche immediately ran to the porch and continued davening outside in the frigid cold. That was where the Deitsches found him when they returned home, hours later. Only when he saw them did Reb Itche return to the warm apartment.
He explained, “I cannot be in the house alone with a woman.”
But Rochel Leah was an old lady, the Deitsches objected, and Reb Itche himself was not feeling well. Surely there had been no risk of impropriety.
“The yetzer hara (evil inclination) is talented in his work,” Reb Itche said. “He knows how to make an elderly woman young again, and a sick person healthy.”
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It’s a very big question which of the two was frummer or more chassidish. And both were renowned in Lubavitch for their extreme frumkeit. We are told that if one has an urgent question and can’t ask the Rebbe one should ask an eltere chossid, and if one is not available one should ask a misnaged and do the opposite. Rochel Leah was the “eltere chossid” whom chassidim in Kharkov would consult if they couldn’t get in touch with the Rebbe. If she didn’t go out on the porch first, I assume she had decided that that wasn’t what Hashem… Read more »
there is no issur of yichud here.. there is no issue they should be together… this was his hakpadah. but the point is that even he understood that he has a yetzer hara and he needs to be extremely careful.. we should be ever more careful