Shloshim Held for Rebbetzin Rochele Fogelman in Massachusetts

The Central Massachusetts Jewish community gathered this week for the Shloshim—the 30-day commemoration—of Rebbetzin Rochele Fogelman, a pioneering Chabad-Lubavitch Shlucha whose influence, together with her husband, Rabbi Herschel Fogelman obm, shaped Jewish life in the region for nearly eight decades.

Guests were welcomed to an elegant cocktail reception, followed by the opening of the ballroom doors to reveal beautifully arranged, candle-lit tables that created an atmosphere of warmth, dignity, and reflection.

The program opened with remarks from Rabbi Mendel Fogelman, Executive Director of Central Mass Chabad, who explained the significance of a Shloshim and offered heartfelt reflections on his mother’s lifelong devotion, leadership, and service to the Worcester community. He then introduced his sister, Mrs. Bassie Levin, who shared vivid memories from their mother’s life—from her childhood in Brighton Beach to her decades as a beloved educator and communal leader. Mrs. Levin also highlighted the family’s remarkable heritage, noting that their grandmother founded the first Jewish girls’ school in America, a groundbreaking effort that helped spark the worldwide Bais Yaakov movement.

Guests then enjoyed a buffet dinner catered by Chani’s Kosher Catering, followed by a moving video tribute featuring archival interviews from Jewish Educational Media (JEM) and a televised Yud Shevat farbrengen. The presentation offered a rare glimpse into the Rebbetzin’s articulate wisdom and enduring commitment to Jewish life and education. The video concluded with a sneak-peek announcement of a new, state-of-the-art Mikvah soon to be built in Worcester in Rebbetzin’s memory.

The evening’s featured address came from Rabbi Shea Hecht, Head Shliach to New Haven County and Headmaster of the Southern Connecticut Hebrew Day School. In a passionate and deeply personal reflection shaped by his family’s 80-year friendship with the Fogelmans, Rabbi Hecht spoke about Rebbetzin Fogelman’s unwavering mesiras nefesh, her lifelong devotion to Jewish education, and her ability to uplift others with both strength and gentleness. He emphasized the far-reaching impact of her work, which influenced countless families throughout Massachusetts and beyond. He also referenced his father, Rabbi Moshe Hecht, who spent time in Worcester during the 1940s. Several attendees later shared that they personally remembered Rabbi Moshe Hecht from those early years—and remarked that Rabbi Shea’s cadence, passion, and manner of speaking so closely resembled his father’s that it felt as though history had briefly come full circle.

The program continued with remarks from Rabbi Levi Fogelman, Chabad Shliach to Natick/MetroWest, who spoke powerfully and personally about his mother’s profound influence as both a community leader and the spiritual anchor of their family. Rabbi Levi shared memories illustrating her kindness, resolve, and her ability to make every individual feel valued. He emphasized that her legacy lives on in the families she impacted and in the continued work of her children and grandchildren now serving as Chabad emissaries across Massachusetts and beyond.

A Siyum Mishnayos was then dedicated in the Rebbetzin’s memory, followed by Maariv, the evening service, led by Rabbi Mutty Fogelman.

As the evening drew to a close, guests lingered in the warm glow of the tributes and stories shared. A small farbrengen formed, joined by local shluchim and members of Anash, continuing late into the night.

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