The world of shidduchim looks very different today than it did even a decade ago. How simple it was when Tevya’s daughter Tzeitel was mentioned for Motel the tailor. A suggestion from the shadchan was practically a Mazal Tov, save a few formalities. A boy from a good family, a girl who can make a decent cholent, what more do we need to know? But all that has evolved into a complicated agenda where resumes and profile pictures become the battleground for heavenly work. Does it seem unfair? Perhaps it does. There are definitely those who are trying to fight it, but the stark reality is, for better or worse, that this is 2022; take it or leave it.
To that end, the Shidduch House is trying to facilitate the sometimes frustrating and challenging task of putting together a well presented profile. From the picture to the well articulated words that will represent our singles effectively, we’ve brought in professionals who will assist in the process.
On Sunday, April 3rd we will be having our very first photoshoot for singles with a renowned photographer. We will have dedicated volunteers on hand to do touch ups on make-up and hair if needed. Chani Goodman, Breina Zirkind, Fraidy Spielman, and Dina Stern will be among those joining us to make sure the singles look their absolute best. To book an appointment please visit our scheduling page here. Limited appointments are available. Additionally, you can also have your resume revised for a more cohesive profile.
True, a profile is only a one-dimensional aspect of a person, but if this is the initial representation of our singles, let’s help them by putting their best foot forward and making a great first impression.
If we can’t go back to Yente the matchmaker in the shtetl, then the least we can do is put in our due diligence to ensure that the profile stands out and speaks our language.
Boruch Hashem since the opening one week ago, the Shidduch House has seen a lot of activity and positive interest. The shadchanim are hard at work reviewing profiles, interviewing singles and suggesting matches. In this short time, there are already singles that have been set up and hopefully will result in marriages.
Parents and singles alike, we encourage you to tap into this invaluable resource and reach out so that the Shidduch House can make a difference in your lives.
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