By Yochonon Donn – Hamodia
Mrs. Evelyn Kozak, who attributed her longevity to her healthy lifestyle, sunny attitude and a 1929 brachah from the Frierdiker Rebbe, passed away Tuesday morning, surrounded by family and basking in a community who frequently came to her for brachos and to hear a rare firsthand account of growing up frum in the early 1900s. She was 114.
Mrs. Chava Rivka Kozak, her Jewish name, spent years breaking records — she was the seventh oldest person in the world, the oldest Jew, and one of only six Americans left who were born in the 19th century.
Mrs. Kozak recalled with perfect clarity where she was when hearing about the sinking of the Titanic in 1912, and she had a photograph of her father with President William Howard Taft at the opening of the first Hebrew Orphan Asylum.
But to her family, Mrs. Kozak was a loving grandmother, solicitous over their wellbeing and an ever-giving woman of fortitude.
“She was an extremely kind person; she always wanted to give and give and give,” Bracha Weisberger, a granddaughter in whose house Mrs. Kozak stayed during her final years, told Hamodia on Tuesday. “If someone brought her a birthday present she would ask if she could give it away to someone else.”
“She was very well-read, extremely witty,” she added. “People would constantly come to her for brachos.”
Mrs. Kozak attributed the brachah for her extreme longevity to a variety of factors. She told a janitor at a nursing home that it was since she had “a good conscience.” Other times she would say that it was because she liked to help people and that she never harmed anyone.
She told some people that she lived so long since she believed in being straight and truthful. She told a secular historian that the reason was that she walked five miles a day and kept away from fatty foods.
But the family said that they credit a brachah she received from Harav Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn, zt”l, the Lubavitcher Rebbe, during a visit to New York in 1929.
As one of the few people who owned a car that came to the seaport to be mekabel panim the Rebbe, Evelyn’s father, Reb Yair Yitzchak Jacobson, drove the Rebbe to his lodgings. He frequented the Rebbe’s house over the next few weeks.
When Mrs. Kozak, then 30-years-old, became sick, Reb Yair Yitzchak ran to the Lubavitcher Rebbe for a brachah.
“She should have arichas yamim,” the Rebbe responded.
“That was one of the things that we attributed her long life to,” Mrs. Weisberger said. She added that her grandmother did not consider herself a Lubavitcher, but “it was significant that she was niftar on the last Lubavitcher Rebbe’s yahrtzeit.”
The 19th yahrtzeit of Harav Menachem Mendel Schneerson, zt”l, was marked on Tuesday.
Evelyn was born on Aug. 14 (8 Elul) of 1899 in the Lower East Side to Reb Yair Yitzchok and Sarah Kailya Jacobson, immigrants from the town of Nezhin, Russia. They were Lubavitcher Chassidim who came to the United States in 1886 determined to buck the trend of melting into the secular pot.
“Her father remained shomer Shabbos even though that was unusual in those days,” Mrs. Weisberger noted.
The Jacobsons later moved to Flatbush where he helped set up Congregation Tzemach Tzedek Nusach Ari. Mrs. Kozak used to say that the only two sifrei Torah in Flatbush — and possibly in all of Brooklyn — at the time before the Great War, were located in her father’s house.
Finishing eighth grade, Evelyn left school and went to work for her father at his hat box factory. She married Samual [Meshulam] Margereten, to whom she bore five children. She later remarried but upon the passing of her second husband in the 1950s, declined further marriage prospects.
Following her first marriage, Mrs. Kozak moved to Perth Amboy, N.J., later relocating to Miami Beach, Fla., where she managed a boarding house for the elderly. She took care of people younger than herself well into her 90s.
She then stayed in Pittsburg to be near her daughter. In a memorable ceremony for her 110th birthday, Pittsburg City Council President Doug Shields declared her the oldest Pittsburger, and her birthday was declared “Evelyn Kozak Day.”
But following the first of two strokes, she moved in with her granddaughter Bracha Weisberger and spent the past three years in Flatbush as the second to the oldest New Yorker.
“She was much happier here, all the people of Kensington were always coming to her for brachos,” Mrs. Weisberger said.
“She was able to do everything and walk and remember everything until she was 110. And even when she had a stroke, she was alert and knew what was going on. … She was a very happy person; she had a big simchas hachaim.”
Mrs. Kozak spent the past three years in and out of hospitals, escaping medical emergencies several times.
“We just thought that she would live forever because she always pulled through no matter what,” her granddaughter said.
Mrs. Kozak had a heart attack Monday night and was hospitalized in Maimonides Medical Center. She passed away early Tuesday morning.
The levayah took place at Shomrei Hachomos chapels in Boro Park. Maspidim included three of her grandchildren, Meshulam Margereten, Yishai Polon and Avraham Weisberger. Harav Yechezkel Weinfeld, a Flatbush Rav the family was affiliated with, was also maspid.
Kevurah was in Washington cemetery near her father and grandparents.
Mrs. Kozak is survived by, ybl”c, her children, Mrs. Paula Lebow of California, Mrs. Ruth Terner of Pittsburg and Reb Yoel Yitzchok Margereten of Tucson, Ariz., grandchildren and great-grandchildren, all of whom are frum.
Her son is sitting shivah at his son Yehudah’s house in Lakewood at 770 Marlin Ave. until Monday morning.
Yehi zichrah baruch.
What a lovely story, what a wonderful life and attitude she had!
I agree with you completely! I never knew she existed!
I just want to thank everyone for the beautiful comments. They are truly heartwarming and comforting. It makes a difference to hear something nice! Thank you and may we all merit yeshuos and the ultimate geulah.
wow! what a special woman she was to live till 113! May she rest in peace on the highest level of gan eden. Baruch Dayan Haemes
and be a gute beter for every Yid and her family
may she go up and demand MOshiach
i know, right
It was a privilege and zechus to be the home visiting physician for Mrs. Evelyn Kozak who was more than just ‘the oldest jewish person in the world,’ she was also a very special person. I would just like to correct something that was said here, that ‘ I helped to reconnect her to Judaism.’ This is most certainly not true! When I met her she was wearing a sheitel and living with her frum and loving grandchildren and great grandchildren. Her father helped found the first Nusach Ari Shul in the Western Hemisphere, and she was raised in a… Read more »
I am so grateful my 5 and 8 year old granddaughters had the opportunity to attend their grandfather’s great aunt’s 113th birthday celebration last August. She was much beloved and her amazing history and embodiment of a life well-lived will stay with them forever. Blessings to her wonderful family who took such good care of her.
Jeannie Dobbin
To the family and friends of Mrs. Kozak: May her holy neshama be enveloped in the highest rungs of Gan Eden where we know she will be a meilitza yoshera for your family and Klal Yisroel. Hamakom yenachem eschem b’soch sha’ar aveilei Tzion v’Yerushalayim.
While I never had the privilege of meeting this amazing woman herself, I had the distinct benefit of being a close friend of one of her sons and several of his children when I lived in Arizona for seven years. The quality of character of all of these individuals (whom I had the privelege of interacting with on a relatively frequent basis) serves as a profound testimonial to the extremely admirable content of this woman’s character and her ability to maintain a Jewish identity even in the midst of adverse influences to the contrary. And even more so, that she… Read more »
bde she sounds like an amazing woman! What a life!
Her 114th birthday would have been this Elul
and she passed away on gimmel tamuz????
that is special!!
Just yesterday, I was walking with two friends in the Charles Morris nursing home where Mrs. Kozak resided before going to her granddaughter’s. One of the women mused, “I wonder if (she) is still alive.” I said that we would have heard about her death, but we could ask the Schulmans, who were close to her son and granddaughter. Mrs. Kozak had a tremendous impact on all who knew her. Her children and grandchildren adored her. She had a great sense of humor. With regard to her waning eyesight and hearing, she would say, “I was fine until I turned… Read more »
He’s in the last picture!
how come we never hear abt these ppl until they’re dead?
Beautiful
Yes, please post the link to the pictures. I need to see them.
Mrs. Kozak will forever hold a special place in my heart!
She was an incredibly special woman whom I learned a lot from!!
May we merit to meet again soon with the coming of Moshiach taikef umiyad mamash!
According to my agreement with her family, I wasn’t allowed to post any photos of her while she was alive. I was really hoping to take photos of what could have been her upcoming birthday in August, but hashem has his own plans. It was such a schus/honor and privledge to take photos of the oldest Jewish person in the world. Yasher koach to Dr. Kasriel Brum for not only taking care of her health but also took care of her reconnecting to yiddishkeit. The doctor’s son in law Rabbi Sholom Mendelson would come every purim to read the megillah for… Read more »
770 marlin ave
WOW…
may hashem repay you with only revealed good for you and your family. i watched it first hand. esther b.
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What an amazing story. Note the address where they are sitting shiva!
the world lost a diamond may she have aliyas neshoma and bring moshiach now