It’s that time of the year when many singles are reminded, “I told my parents I would be ready for shidduchim after camp, then postponed it to after Tishrei, and now that we have entered Kislev, I ran out of excuses.”
Where do I begin? How do I know if he or she is the right one for me? How long should the dates go on for? What am I looking out for and what are potential red flags? The stress level rises.
Stress no more.
In honor of Yud Daled Kislev, Shidduch influencers have carefully compiled exclusive content for those entering the stage of shidduchim. We have selected podcasts from noted mashpim and rabbis on the topic of shidduchim. From the initial stages of dating to the excitement of engagement, and preparations for the much-anticipated wedding day.
No longer do you need to feel lost and uncertain. Empower yourself with clarity and knowledge, delving into the hashkafas of shidduchim through the lens of a chossid.
I invite you to explore these resources by clicking on www.chassidiclife.com.
May you gain wisdom and uplift yourself as you start this precious journey of laying the foundation for a Binyan Adai Ad.
Wishing and showering you with all the Berochos as you transition from your single years to married life.
Feel free to share with your single friends and family members.
Yehudis Bluming
Shidduch Influencer Coordinator
Thank you I really need it
Must be a lot of work to compile.
Sometimes these brochrim/kallah maidels need an extra push. One time my daughter told me that her friends kept pushing it off because they were scared of the big commitment. So I want to put a message out to all those b/k”m “It is a big commitment but it’s the best thing you can do for yourself”
Moshiach now!!
Your the best!keep up the great work!
Thank for doing this
This is really wonderful but I think the biggest problem singles are facing is not receiving suggestions/resumes. I ask everyone to sit with their spouse/parent/sibling every so often and think of ideas for our singles
I’m so impressed yehudis you’ve done it again without fail love u keep up the the great work
Fantastic
If someone is ACTUALLY saying this, they mind need an actual therapist to help them figure out why they’re feeling so defensive before they start dating someone and it only becomes messier…
Yes you’re right. There might be a deeper issue and a therapist might be needed. BUT. But- There is a healthy level of resistance that may present itself for totally normal reasons (which I will list examples for below) and telling a person who is okay that they might have issues so deep that they themselves don’t realize it can be very harmful. — fear of the unknown, fear of change — feeling busy and overwhelmed with life — nerves — excited to look into shidduchim but not excited by the sound of the particular shidduchim being offered — dreading… Read more »
Wow thank you so much I can’t wait to listen exactly what I need. As Bochrim we don’t get many classes on it and it’s very taunting going into the Parsha without these classes/ discussions.
But it’s ok to not be ready. Period. It shouldn’t require excuses.
Can we normalize that not necessarily is everyone ready to get married at the same time.
Does a girl have a problem if she is not ready to get married at 20-21 or a boy 22-23 for whatever reason? Someone could be a really healthy person and just not be ready
Is a great sefer to read. Also in English Eternal Joy https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/2301500/jewish/Eternal-Joy-Volume-1.htm
My Comcast internet filter seems to be working well!
It says “Whoa! This content may be inappropriate for children.”
Thanks for putting this very important information together, and other way for people to help with the situation is correcting the huge problem of the tremendous shadchan shortage, more people must get involved, the people that are currently involved are completely overwhelmed, and cannot return messages and phone calls because they simply don’t have time to respond to the overwhelming amount of request that they get, much more people have to get involved in putting singles together.
Thank you for the great recourses on the website