By Karen Schwartz, Chabad.org
Rabbi Shalom and Yael Pelman‘s trip from Guatemala to New York for a family wedding turned into a story that will most likely be retold for quite some time.
It also became a parental teaching moment when the couple wound up walking with their 12-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter for several hours on Shabbat to get to their destination in Brooklyn, N.Y. The Pelmans are co-directors of Chabad Lubavitch Guatemala in Guatemala City.
The parents and six of their eight children had boarded a flight from Guatemala on Thursday, Feb. 20, at 7:45 in the evening, with plans to arrive in New York, via Mexico, early Friday morning. But their connection in Mexico was delayed, then rerouted to Washington, D.C.
The hours ticked closer to the start of Shabbat and the beginning of a 25-hour time period when Jews refrain from traveling by vehicle, carrying items and doing work, among other things.
Pelman said he went to speak with crew members about their situation, but the family was not permitted to deplane from the international flight in Washington.
So they went on to New York, having called ahead to inform their hosts of the new time frame. While still in the plane, they moved everything from their pockets to their hand luggage—including their phones and even the rabbi’s wallet—which the crew helped move to the terminal.
A family friend made arrangements for their younger children and luggage to be driven to the Crown Heights neighborhood of Brooklyn by a non-Jewish resident of Crown Heights who met them upon arrival at John F. Kennedy International Airport.
The rabbi wrote Google map directions on his hand so that he, his wife, and their two oldest children could successfully navigate their way from the airport to Crown Heights by foot.
‘An Experience to Grow From’
Despite the chilly temperature, Pelman decided to walk wearing just his white shirt for safety reasons, so they would be easy to spot by vehicles and people along the way.
They started their walk at 7 p.m., passing through residential areas and walking at some points alongside the highway.
“We spoke all the way,” he said of their approximately 11-mile walk. “I told [the kids] that basically every Shabbat, we come home and eat the festive meal and have company and guests. Most Shabbats we’re doing for us, and today, we have a chance to really do something for Shabbat.”
Pelman, who had spent time walking around New York’s neighborhoods during his time in yeshivah in the 1990s, said he wasn’t worried during their trek because he had been dispatched to many different neighborhoods back then helping synagogues celebrate Jewish holidays.
“I was confident that they could do it,” he said, talking about the impact the walk would have on his children down the road. “And it would be definitely an experience that they can take and grow from.”
The four arrived at their relatives’ home at about 11 p.m., met by the same gentleman who had taken their bags and children to their hosts, and who was waiting for them and their safe arrival.
Though it wasn’t easy for the kids, the next day the rabbi said his son agreed it was the right choice to make the walk. “As soon as we came home,” said the rabbi, “we made Kiddush and were able to keep Shabbat and to respect Shabbat the way it should have been.”
The family attended the wedding on Monday night, Feb. 24, and then flew home three days later, on a very uneventful flight back.
It said they started at 7 and arrived at 11, that’s four hours, not three.
Doesn’t apply inside a city unless you pass through two thousand amos without people living there. This is pretty elementary. I’m sure that you know that many people walk to the ohel every shabbos. Also there was an article a couple years ago of bochurim that walk to the Bronx each Shabbos! That’s allot further than JFK.
they kept shabbos every week and that week shabbos kept them
this hotel hase sensors that tern on the light in the holway the dor is opend with a magnetic card, this hotel is not for shbos, the hole city is in the techum shabos, therfor walking in the city is perfect
UR AWESOME!! OMGGG CRAZY STORY
this is what it means lechatchiler ariber. not letting anything got in your way of serving hashem! with ppl. like these we should be zuche to moshiach today!
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To #16 & 23, they did call the rav and they got a hetter.
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1) I liked that they arranged their younger kids to be driven, the right choice imho and hopefully some of us who may think of putting their children in danger in this kind of situation will learn from it. 2) 4 hr walk is long but not total absurd so makes sense that they’d do it 3) I think they planned enough time as a buffer, perhaps a bit risky but you can’t always anticipate the worst. Maybe you should never leave on a Thursday because your plane may be delayed 24 hours and they won’t let you leave? 4)… Read more »
…and to 13, I think the best lesson we learn is how special and important Shabbos is. What a kiddush Hashem!!!
#16 is right! Someone should definitely ascertain if there is techum shabbos involved from jfk. It,s not the first time this has happened,and probably not the last time.
True, the ohel would have been the rite choice.
🙂
For your next trio from Guatemala
It’s even closer than the Ohel
It was sheva berochos for the chassan and kallah and they walked 30 miles….after getting stuck in traffic and .arrived at 7 am shabbos morning. ..kudos to all the walkers. …this happened 11 1/2 years ago
pelmaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn the mendy one
BS”D to # 15 obviously it was not “more than enough of a buffer zone” or it would have been
This is what brave soldiers do. They march on.
Lovely story, all the family and the non Jew all played a very important part in this, and we must learn from them.
Did they ask a Rov?
That’s more than enough of a buffer zone. But in this case the flight was delayed more than 10 hours, and they landed four minutes before shkiah.
this is incredible- may they be blessed with only good
BS”D this is not the first story like this. A lesson to all-everyone should try to arrange their travels to give time for such eventualities. It could happen to anyone especially if it happened to a devoted Schliach
may u be blessed!!!
what a example of real shluchim of the rebbe!!!
who ever is saying about the ohel, obiously they didnt go for a reason so stop CRITISIZING.
these people are very special neshomos and i am sure
that hashem will pay them back in only good ways for taking
the resposibility to walk 11 miles in the dark and keeping shaabos khalachah. beautiful story
Please take out your calculator. 7 to 11 = 4
A friend from Camp :)!!!
very nice
and what about all there young children who were waiting for the rest of their families safe arrival – leave them wondering all shabbos?
to #1,
you are right about the distance, but it all depends where they wanted to spend the rest of the Shabbos, either with the family or not.
have a great week
amazing! go musia!!!
-friend from camp
how do you walk 11 miles in 3 hrs????
To ohel would have been a shorter walk