By Yehudis Bluming
The sun bathes over a small bungalow door, children running about. Barbecues are made as the swings seem to move endlessly, carrying along with them little bundles of smiles and laughter. It’s summer. The breath of vacation and connection call forth happy moments. Families sit under the picnic table as a wife awaits her husband’s shabbos arrival.
From the sideline, she sees her classmate, an old time friend. Her heart aches for what she has and what her friend does not yet. She sighs, the kind of sigh that surrenders to the inability to make a change.
After all, circumstances are not in our power to change. Or are they?
A pop up dings on her phone, she glances, looks away, looks at her friend and then back at the message. “Family time at the bungalow? Think of a match today!”
She pauses and then takes the plunge. She sends a request to be a part.
https://www.shidduchinfluencer.com
Joining the chat she is opened to a whole network of influencers and shadchanim working non stop together to help older singles. For the first time, instead of sighing, she’s doing.
We all know of a cousin, neighbor, friend or co worker who has been in shidduchim for a while. We know but often we forget to sit and process. We forget the everyday struggles- the stress of passing time, the silence of a quiet phone, the loneliness as many others move on. We think, then forget and move on. Yes, we feel their pain, but it remains just that, feelings.
Now, there’s a chance to make a change.
To take that feeling and create the passion. To take the emotions, and create a drive.
For the next 3 days, we will not just move on, we will move forward. Join 1000 others as we unite to show our care and make a difference!
Until now, we have sat and surrendered. Now we can learn to take action. The power is in your hands.
You can be the one to make a friend’s world complete. This summer, as you sit at the pool or picnic with family, remember another- be a friend.
https://www.shidduchinfluencer.com
The Rebbe would often stress that the avodah of our generation is ahavas yisroel, pure sincere love. When two Jews sit together, they should be thinking of a third. When we sit to enjoy, lets send a Shidduch idea their way. Let’s be there for them!
Join the chat and become a shidduch influencer. Gain access to hundreds of names and resumes, receive support in your role, share and discuss your ideas with sensitive friends , and most importantly, help make a huge difference in the life of a friend or family member !
Join as 1000 people with 1 goal and unlimited potential. Start with one step so they can reach to a giant leap!
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You are doing an amazing job!your mother Mrs rochel heber is definitely shipping loads of nachas
From a single girl
What a beautiful way of showing Ahavas Yisroel. Thank you for bringing this to our attention so important !!!
I’m an older single and this is so touching seeing the community come together to be of help and remind us we are not alone in this painful journey! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for making this happen!
Brilliant idea
Just signed up
It’s okay to treat us like normal people. We’re really not that nebachdig.
We’ve(my husband and I) been working with singles 30 to 50 years. Most never married. When we started over 9 years ago, these young women came over every Tuesday evening. Some dropped in on Shabbos. They let us into their dating and into their thinking. What we found small situations that prevented them from getting to the chuppa. It wasn’t a lack of dates or suggestions. Here is a list of possible issues. Some didn’t give their dates any feedback, fearing leading the date on. Some stayed in their head during the date ,not letting him know her. Some would… Read more »
Wow, so true and such a poignant article
Beautiful initiative.
How is this different from all the other WhatsApp groups?
Lubavitch needs something new.