Coach to Give Tips for Successful Dating

Upcoming & Recent from Shidduch University from Adai Ad.

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Next Zoom event:

TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL DATING
with C. Rochel Duchman, dating coach

Rochel Duchman will share some important tips and mindsets for navigating the Shidduch dating journey.

Tuesday, February 21, 2023      8:30 PM eastern

Zoom Link

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Episodes recently uploaded on the website www.adaiad.org, youtube and Spotify:

1.  Noticing Red Flags during Dating with Dr. Shana Frydman, Executive Director, Shalom Task Force. Devora Krasnianski speaks with Dr. Shana Frydman, executive director of Shalom Task Force about noticing red flags during dating. We spoke about negative markers and positive markers to look out for, the importance of curiosity and having conversations even if uncomfortable.

2. Getting ready for marriage – for men! with Eliezer Schwadron, LCSW. Devora Krasnianski speaks with Eliezer Schwadron, LCSW about some fundamental mindsets and tools for marriage. (This talk is addressing men.) We spoke about communication, curiosity, acceptance, self-awareness and much more.

3. Preparing for your successful marriage – for men! with Rabbi Avrohom H. Levin. Devora Krasnianski speaks with Rabbi Avrohom H. Levin about important mindsets and tools for marriage. We cover the importance of self-awareness, truth, honesty, addictions, and guidance. We also address communication and how to have difficult conversations.

4. Attachment in the marriage relationship with Frayda Kaplan. Devora Krasnianski speaks with Frayda Kaplan, Marriage and Family Therapist,  about Attachment Styles, about recognizing the influence of our attachment experience as children on adult relationships.

5. The most important qualities to look for with Dr. David Mark. Devora Krasnianski speaks with Dr. David Mark about important qualities to look for when dating, and how to spot those. This conversation also addresses co-dependency, attachment theory, trust and much more.

6. 10 Commandments of Dating with Rabbi Dr. Yossi Ives. Devora Krasnianski speaks with Rabbi Dr. Yossi Ives about some very important points about shidduch dating. Ten Commandments of Dating 1. Don’t assume that everyone will have the same dating experience.  2. If you feel stuck, act sooner to gain self-awareness. 3. Remember that you are not dating yourself 4. Seek support, don’t go it alone 5. Remember the most important quality in dating 6. Treat success as more important than comfort 7. Get your priorities straight 8. Don’t let fear drive your decisions 9. Understand what feelings you are likely to have 10. Date with purpose, stay focused on what you are there to do.

7. Most important key points about dating with Yeshaya Kraus, LCSW. Devora Krasnianski speaks with Yeshaya Kraus, LCSW (Director of Education at Shalom Task Force) about healthy dating. Addressing: The role of the self in dating. How healthy relationships are created. Key factors to look for. Boundaries during dating. Communication. and more.

8. Talking about Money on a Date with Yael Trusch, MBA. Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad speaks with Yael Trusch, MBA about the importance of talking about money while dating. She shares what to talk about and how to ask and share.
9. The Power of Journalling for Successful Shidduchim with Shlomo Berezin. Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad speaks with Shlomo Berezin about how journalling can really help through the shidduch process – to really help you get clarity. He shares lots of practical tips and journal prompts.

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You can find more recordings of Adai Ad’s previous workshops and conversations about Shidduchim and Preparing for Marriage on Adai Ad’s Youtube Channel or the Podcast Your Strong Relationship.

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Please send your ideas of topics to address and presenters you’d like to hear from to [email protected]

Brought to the community by Adai Ad and CHJCC. This series is funded by a grant from the New York City DOVE initiative recommended by Council Member Rita Joseph.