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Clarifying 6 Shidduchim Points

Devora Krasnianski of the Adai Ad organization speaks to relationship coach Pearl Mattenson about 6 areas that need clarifying on a shidduch date. Full Story, Video

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Shh!!!!!!!!!!!!
March 23, 2014 3:14 am

I think all this is absolutely necessary and excellent.
What I think should be addressed is the new wave of Disscussing guys or girls with friends after dating someone.
Inevitabely it will be coloured by my own experience with that person and then I create negitivity for them.
What happened to privacy?

i agree with number 2
March 31, 2013 6:06 pm

please help

To 2 and all follow ups
March 31, 2013 2:04 pm

That topic is covered in the AdaiAd course.

Great article and presentation Devorah.

# 2's Suggestion
March 31, 2013 1:47 pm

is a great one!

I agree with 2
March 31, 2013 10:58 am

BS¨D

Thank you very much for dedicating to this cause.

Perhaphs just as a recomendation it could be very usefull to let us knowÑ

*Important things that singles should know before darting

*Whats important to know from the other side at certain point of the dating.

and the like.

at the end of the day there are no set rules, but it allways helps to stay focused and not get lost in the fancyness of the ocassion.

Shkoiach!

to #2
March 31, 2013 6:23 am

agreed 100%

to #2
March 31, 2013 5:06 am

agreed 100%

I agree with #2
March 31, 2013 12:11 am

I would also benefit from ideas to talk about…and know how to bring them up! perhaps someone can post a link to direct us where to get more info on this? to be honest, I feel very nearvous about the whole dating process because of this issue. CAN ANYONE HELP? PLEASE!

So important but not easy to not assume we know what they'r thinking
March 30, 2013 9:39 pm

This great initiative (by my cousin) will help parents and children talk about and make good shiduchim.

It’s really hard to be really open and put aside what we think we already know. I attended a workshop with Yishai Shallif, a frum narrative therapist from Yerushalaim who developed a program called tranformative listening that requires asking questions from “a place of not knowing” without assumptions about the other person. I failed to avoid any assumptions in my questions twice before succeeding the third time. This was with a stranger! How much harder with one’s own child.

Hatzlacha Rabba Devora.

to adai ad
March 30, 2013 9:19 pm

I’d really benefit from a clip to help singles out with topics to discuss during dating.
How do u bring up important topics without sounding like an interview?
what are important topics to discuss to ensure that you are on the same page…

Thank you!
March 30, 2013 8:22 pm

I hope my parents listen to this 🙂

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