The following was related to COLlive by Dovid Katz and JJ Hecht who spent this past Pesach on Merkos Shlichus in the city of Dimitrovgrad, located on the Bolshoy Cheremshan River in the southeastern part of Russia:
Early morning on the second day of Pesach, we heard a knock on the door of the small apartment the local Jewish community had rented for us on the 5th floor in a crammed building.
When we first entered the apartment, there were no beds or windows. The caretaker calmed us and said, “Don’t worry. We’ll build you beds and windows.” The bedroom turned out to be our operation base for organizing the Pesach activities.
Standing at the door was the landlord herself, notifying us about something that seemed important. Only, that she was saying it in heavy Russian and we didn’t understood a word.
The night before, when we held a public seder for 50 people and our translator didn’t show up, we got away with it by using the little communicated words in Russian and Yiddish that we knew. And it turned out well – with the help of singing popular Jewish songs which everyone knew.
In fact, the seder turned out to be so inspiring that one man came over and said he decided to “keep a 100% kosher Pesach.” He asked if he can stay with us, and we agreed. We spoke about the hagaddah, Jewish customs and sang some more (which didn’t sit well with all the neighbors…)
So we woke him and asked him to translate what the landlord wants from us.
What she was saying was that the 2 day rental has ended and that we need to clear out right away. Oh, and the “marshutka” is waiting for us downstairs to take us back to Ulyanovsk. (Marshutka is a often dilapidated minivan used as public or private transportation).
With help of our friend that stayed with us, we explained that we couldn’t leave because it was still a holiday. The earliest we can leave would be at around 8 PM. After a back a forth with the translator, she left. He told us she compromised on 6 PM and not a minute later and that the driver of the marshutka will be back then as well.
We went about our day davening, eating, learning and doing mivtzoim. As we finished our yomtov meal we got another knock on the door.
This time there were 2 elderly women standing there. They were sent by the landlord to clean up the apartment, help us out and take our keys. They didn’t really wait for us to invite them in and just barged in and started moving things. They wouldn’t hear of the 8 PM idea.
To calm the atmosphere, and with no other options available, we just sat down and started singing some Yiddish and Russian Jewish songs.
And then, out of the blue, we hear one of the ladies singing along with us! Totally surprised, we asked if she was Jewish.
She explained that she doesn’t have documents so she doesn’t know if she is a Jew, but she remembered some of these songs from her youth. She sat down with us and we spoke and sang some more until yomtov was over.
Only then did they evict us, but that didn’t occupy our concern anymore. We merited to light the spark in another Jewish soul and what can be greater than that…
nice to see you. From aryeh leib in pittsburgh!
I work in the rental industry and while of course I cannot account for EVERY hotel or rental, I am quite confident in saying that it is for MOST places. Also, when relegious and renting over the holidays, you take a REAL risk when you don’t pay for 3 nights to be asked to leave BEFORE the holiday is over. If you think that the standard policy in MOST rentals is not a worthy risk and simply paying for 2 nights is fine then not much more then I can say.
When you rent it should always be for three days?! Why? How do you know whether there is a set check-out time, and if so when it is? If there isn’t one, why pay for an extra day that you’re not going to use? You think you know every situation in the world?!
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One thing to add; I don’t know in the end if it is the bochurims fault and fine if it is not. My main point is that WHOMEVER or WHATEVER is arranging this on BEHALF of the Bochurim needs to pay for 3 nights. This is standard for most rentals. To just pay for 2 nights is letting the Bochurim get I situations which is wrong and again can lead to a Chillol Hashem.
It is very simple. When you rent, it should be for a THREE day rental and NOT two as the story mentioned. FROM the story, it appears that the Bochurim KNEW that this was a TWO day rental. This is wrong!! Now IF from the start the Bochurim or whomever were making these arrangement said and paid for 3 nights thought the rental only thought it was two then yes that is not on the Bochurim though if the Bochurim did not make it clear to that person/s who were arranging the rental that 3 nights were to be paid… Read more »
You say it makes no difference who is arranging things?! Who but those people is supposed to arrange to have the rooms available till after yomtov? What have the bochurim got to do with it? How should they know how many days have been booked, or how much has been paid, or whether there’s a set check-out time at all, let alone when it is?
Haven been on Merkos Shlichus as a bochur and being a Shliach I identify with the importance of making sure the prior arrangements take into concern Yomim Toivim. I don’t know if it is Merkos responsibility or not but this sounds like a typical example of תחילתו בפשיעה וסופו בנס (starts with negligence and ends up with miracles)! To number 7 Ohlei Torah Chai!
To #11 – No I have not been on Merkos though with respect o don’t think it makes a difference as no matter who arranges things, it should be incumbent on the Bochurim to explain clearly when they need to leave and seeing that it is in far flung places where language and cultural can be a barrier to understanding then clearly 3 days rent should be paid for. From the story, only 2 days rent were paid for and that is insufficient in MOST rentals to ensure a checkout that will be when the Chag finnishes. Also, I am… Read more »
In kup arayn!!!
-shooolim green
good to see ya mr katz
To #7 if you’ve ever been on Merkos shlichus then you would know that often in these far flung places the arrangements for where and when to stay are made by clueless contact people in the city where they are going and have absolutely nothing to do with the bochurim (which I happen to know for a fact happened in this case as well). But it’s nice to see that you’re Dan lechaf zchus and go straight to yelling about chilul Hashem.
jj thats an incredible story!
I knew that you are gr8
Summer 2012
Zvi Hershcovich of Stavropol has an amazing story similar to this one.
To the story and #3 – It is quite standard in hotels or rentals that check in is say 3pm and check out is 12PM. Just because you paid for 2 days rent does not mean that you can stay till 8pm. Hotels and rentals need time between to clean for the next guest that is staying that day Etc… For the first days, all of you should have paid for 3 days. I am appalled that this basic knowledge is not known to you or for that matter Merkaz doesn’t teach this basic concept. Especially when you are doing… Read more »
Love your perseverance when it comes to Torah and Mitzvos! Rock on!
MK
dovid u did it again!! ho ho ho!
so there was a reason your yom ov had to be disturbed – to reach another Jewish soul! thanks for sharing!
Same happened with me at the hotel we stayed at
They said we have to leave NOW and that someone is waiting to take us—after much arguing and explaining that it’s still the holiday and that we won’t be able to leave till that night it all worked out b”h
go JJ
Dave u da boss
Better than getting an apartment 10 mins before yom tov……???
Lol
Good times…
Ys