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Will This Create More Shidduchim?

ChabadMatch founder Moshe Raichman says a new test feature on his website has already resulted in 5 engagements this month. Full Story

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Shidduch
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Shidduch

This system seems much better than just waiting for a shadchan to get back to you. Thank you Chabadmatch!

Bravo
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Bravo

Glad ten year old technology has finally been discovered. “Wait…computers DO THAT?”

Dovid 27 yrs old
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Dovid 27 yrs old

Its time for Speed dating in CH – Too many quality singles out there. Lets do it!

The other problem
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The other problem

Now everybody gets a streamlined way to explain how nobody is good enough for them

Online dating
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Online dating

Apparently the online dating fad has reached chabad.

i think..
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i think..

the more resources, the merrier!

love it
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love it

i was prob one 1st ones using it 10yrs ago i emailed the shudchan list they had on there he 1st shudchan responded with soneone they had now married to the girl the sudchan set me up with 9 yrs ago

Speed Dating
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Speed Dating

I agree. Enough with this old rusty system. Any one who has dated 10+ people time to move on to speed dating. The system works for the first handful of dates, and after that it becomes draining and a waste of time.

Chabadmatch-Thank you!
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Chabadmatch-Thank you!

Wonderful service you provide, Moshe, an unsung hero of Chabad shidduchim!

I agree
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I agree

We really need speed dating.

And while this new matching thing sounds good, I really can’t see it working. There is so much more to people than check boxes.

So proud of my erstwhile 3rd grader!
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So proud of my erstwhile 3rd grader!

Yasher Koach, Moshe, and תלך מחיל אל חיל!

Mrs. Saxon

Don't fully agree with system
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Don't fully agree with system

Whilst its impossible to knock the computer system I stil think it has its faults.after all we all know people got together from totally different backgrounds and also totally different characters eg. Artistic vs professional. I recommend not putting all your eggs in one basket open up to offers and try different methods. You open the door and you never know where hashem will bring the brocha.beshaa tova to all those truly looking for their soulmate.

Speed Dating
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Speed Dating

Shadchamin please read this!!!!

Especially for over 25 year olds. Have a dozen men and a dozen women in the room. Nobody needs to know anyones names. Everyone gets a number and at the end, the men and women give in the numbers (to the shadchanim who will be present) they were interested in dating. Over 25 year olds HATE blind dates. This would be so much better.

Dating costs are a problem
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Dating costs are a problem

People would probably reject less offers and have a better chance of finding their shidduch if they knew that it didn’t require so much investment of time and money. If dates would meet up in Manhattan coffee shops or even in Crown Heights homes or some other less committing venues, instead of meeting in fancy hotels, where car rental and parking, or car service expenses, as well as drinks cost so much for the bochur, and takes such a big time and emotional committment from both the bochur and the girl, then more people would be willing to “just give… Read more »

Thank you Chabadmatch!
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Thank you Chabadmatch!

We appreciate the hard work, keep it up!

27 year old dude/bochur/single and ready to mingle
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27 year old dude/bochur/single and ready to mingle

The “system” does not seem to work past age 25 for guys and not sure which age for girls. We get drained and lose the required energy after dating a number of girls in the “Official” method.
Speed dating or casual Shabbos meals arranged by young couples inviting his and her friends just MAY be a better option.
Just sayin 🙂
If you agree, speak up and perhaps something will “hAppn”

To # 10
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To # 10

You are correct, but check boxes are a good place to begin. Gotta start somewhere!

Very exciting news by ChabadMatch!
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Very exciting news by ChabadMatch!

Thank you for using high tech tools for speeding the process of finding one’s bashert! As always with tznyut and eydelkayt.

Other dating costs
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Other dating costs

Your words are so true for those who are in Crown Heights. I have flown to other cities, paid for housing meals car rentals plus the cost of the evening out. Sometimes spending $1,000

Dating costs
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Dating costs

Totally agree that dating costs are way too high and not fair to the boy. This has got to change.

Congratulations!!
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Congratulations!!

May you, Moishe and your beautiful family receive lots of brochos from your amazing job!!
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