by Rabbi Bentzion Elisha
The Holocaust shattered both their spirit and any sense of spirituality. Even though their bodies made it alive out of the German murderous ashes of death, any visible connection to Judaism or the Creator did not survive the war. Instead, their hearts turned cold and they were left with an anti-religious sentiment of ice. When they married they wanted nothing to do with Judaism, Jews, or G-d. Needless to say, they didn’t keep any holidays and keeping in line with their angst, didn’t circumcise any of their sons including ‘Alex’.
When Alex married, he surprisingly married a Jewess. She wasn’t observant, but she was Jewish nevertheless. His in-laws, unlike his own parents, who were anti-Jewish and anti-religious to the extreme, didn’t harbor any such ill feelings, and although not observant, they insisted a Bris, a circumcision, should be given to their grandsons when they were born.
Years later, one of their sons became a Baal Teshuvah. At his son’s engagement, Alex, who happens to be well to do, asked his son what would he like as a wedding present. Without hesitation, his son asked of him something that pulled the rug from underneath him.
“For my wedding, I would like for you to have a Bris,” his son simply asked. ‘Unbecoming’ of a person of such a fierce anti religious upbringing, he agreed and actually complied a couple of days before the wedding.
At the wedding celebration a stranger walked up to him. “I heard you had a Bris before the wedding,” the wedding guest said.
Alex nodded his head with a reserved smile.
“I have something for you, actually a gift” the stranger said as he dug through his inner jacket pocket retrieving a dollar bill.
“This is a dollar from the Lubavitcher Rebbe. I received this dollar bill from the Rebbe himself, and I would like for you to take it as a gift in celebration of your Bris.”
Alex looked at the dollar and tears started pouring down his cheeks.
The tears made the guest uncomfortable.
“Why are you crying?” he asked.
Alex lifted his eyes, locking with the eyes of the perplexed guest, and told him “Let me explain.”
“In my youth, my adolescence, I lived with my family in Brooklyn. One time my friends and I wanted to go to the movies but we had no money. One of my friends suggested we go to the Lubavitcher Rebbe who gave out dollars on Sundays for people to give and distribute Tzedaka, charity, and use the money to purchase our tickets instead. We all agreed with the ‘brilliant’ plan and decided to go.
After standing in the long line my friends, who were standing in front of me, got dollars from the Rebbe. However when it came to be my turn, the Rebbe stopped and asked me if I was Jewish. I told him that ‘yes, I am’, but then he asked me if I had a Bris, I told him that no, I didn’t. The Rebbe then told me ‘I won’t give you a dollar now, however I will give you a dollar when you get a Bris Milah…'”
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This story was shared by R’ Benyamin Silberstein on the occasion of the Bar Mitzvah celebration of Yitzi Silberstein, on the sixth of Nissan.
Rabbi Bentzion Elisha is an award-winning photographer (ElishaArt.Com) and writer based in Crown Heights, Brooklyn. His book ‘Mental Museum’, a collection of contemporary stories, is scheduled for publication by this summer.
i heard this story from a very realliable source and the gist of it is basically the same but the details are verry off. (‘I won’t give you a dollar now, however I will give you a dollar when you get a Bris Milah…'”- that isnt true. the Rebbe told him, that WHEN he gets a bris he WILL get a dollar)
B”H
Instead of all the back and forth surmising what not ask Rabbi Groner if the story is true
The message being that years could have gone by, yet the Rebbe fulfilled what he promised as soon as the individual did what they were supposed to do…I other words, that the Rebbe keeps his word to the T. Have more faith…
knowing and understanding the Rebbe (as much as we can) the Rebbe would never tell anyone “i wont give you a dollar……” the Rebbe is not that type to turn anyone away…. Im sorry I cant believe this story,,, if you ask my in my humble opinion,,, the Rebbe would of gave the dollar and ask “alex” to give it to charity after his bris….. chag sameach
With much respect but this story was printed in the Kfar-Chabad this past summer 13 Tamuz issue #1426 pg 24-25.
what message? that someone made up a story and forgot to make sure all the details work!
Since telling it over, I heard some other people have heard of this story too, so perhaps it’s true after all.
However, I don’t know for sure that this story is true but it’s message, for me, holds true.
Perhaps ‘Alex’ was a little older perhaps not.
I wrote it as I heard it.
I hope you are inspired by the story as I was when I heard it.
Bentzion Elisha
The rebbe started giving dollars on yud aleph nissan tof shin mem vav!
why do ppl dig so deeply into everything searching for ways to disbelieve?? k- maybe details get a little distorted over time but the main part is there and powerful.
the Rebbe probably had it in mind for the future
The man may have had a Bris Milah. In the above story the boy admitted to not having a Bris. For you to say how the Rebbe would react in such a situation would mean that you yourself could be a Rebbe and since your not, you do not know for sure.
A: A child of Holocaust survivors would have been at least 20-30 years old when the Rebbe started to give out dollars the Rebbe only started to give out dollars about 1985
B: the Rebbe never said no to anybody as can be seen in this video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AaJj1jgRXtg
to think that a story like this is true is an insult to the our Rebbe, a man who never put conditions on anything, all that the Rebbe ever asked was for us to do more
Amazing story!
but i heard it a few years ago already
BS”D
THis is amazing đŸ™‚
Hashem is the Melech al Kol Ha’aretz
may the Rebbe ZT”L have his zchus on us!
This really sounds very contrived. The last part of it does not sound like our Rebbe at all.