Lone soldiers, young men who give up comfortable lives abroad to join the Israeli army, have found a home away from home with a young couple in Jerusalem who dedicate their lives to helping them.
Mordy and Malkah Esther Botnick, 22 and 20 years old, founders of Chayal el Chayal (Soldier to Soldier) rent a three story house in the Nachalot section of Jerusalem. Their Shabbos meals are a tour de force of home cooking, from challah to homemade ice cream, with all the traditional Shabbos fare in between, dips, chicken soup, chicken and different kugels.
The passion that goes into the cooking is felt by every guest and attracts 40 -100 soldiers per Shabbos. On Yom Tov the couple served over 700.
Both Botnicks come from Lubavitcher families and the atmosphere is filled not only with camaraderie but also the stirring singing of niggunim.
Some young men from observant families who thought they were running away from Yiddishkeit have blossomed once again in their feeling for Torah and mitzvahs.
“Our organization, Chayal el Chayal, Soldier to Soldier, is exactly that,” says Mordy Botnick. “Soldiers helping each other.”
On any given weekday, you may see a young man helping another to put on tefillin.
Experiencing the warmth of a Shabbos at Chayal el Chayal has also inspired some soldiers with no background in Yiddishkeit. “One of my best moments was when a soldier who had never kept Shabbos came to me and said, ‘Mordy, I’m keeping Shabbos for the first time,’” says Botnick.
There are beds for six soldiers to sleep on the premises, but often the couches and floors are host to more. The Botnicks have installed three washer/dryers . Since lone soldiers have no families to go to, and with laundromats expensive, the machines are in constant use. There is no charge for any of this, neither the machines or the Shabbos meals, or the use of the lounge where soldiers can play video games or just talk.
As a former lone soldier, Mordy guides the newcomers through the ins and outs of the IDF bureaucracy, including helping them obtain stipends for their own apartments. He has also mounted a campaign to get fleece sweaters for the soldiers in the cold weather.
Until now, the Botnicks have fundraised from families and friends. Recently they hired another couple and are renting another house. The expansion has increased the need for funds. Hence they are now in the United States and will pitch their cause here in New York City, in Stamford, CT, in Los Angeles, Miami and Baltimore.
On Thursday, October 31, the Betzalel Gallery at 567 Empire Blvd. in Crown Heights, will host a fundraiser for Chayal el Chayal that will feature a new video of their work.
Ultimately, the Botnicks want Chayal el Chayal to have a building that would house a shul, a pool, a gym, a laundry room, and studio apartments.
Chayal el Chayal (Soldier to Soldier) alludes to Psalm 84, verse 8, which which says, “Yalehu may chayil el chayil,” “They go from strength to strength” which incorporates the blessing of growth and prosperity in their name.
Donations can be made on the web at ChayalelChayal.org.
Would love to help you fundraise here innla
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I see 2 awesome NMB chayalim (well, one is already home, but still awesome…) and the third one? Never mind, I”m in touch with him….keep up your amazing and holy work!!!
Malka from Ft Myers….
For those of you Chayalim Bodedim that happen to find yourselves around the Gush Etzion area, you are always welcome to come to the Pina Chama (at Tzomet HaGush) for some homemade treats, warmth, comfort, and a listening ear.
The IDF is not for everyone and may not be the ideal choice for every bochur, but for those that chose it, why not help them keep their spiritual connections to their roots intact? No need for negative comments – certainly not from strangers!
Amazing work! Keep it up 😉
אלוהים יברך את צה”ל של ישראל והשלוחים של הרבי
Incredible work
Wow!! Keep up the AMAZING job. Love from the Sebbags in Montreal
MERRRR AND MORDY!!!
U guys make me so so proud!!!!
Continue the beautiful work;);) love u guys!
Donations can be made at: http://www.chayalelchayal.org/lone-soldier-organization
wow! continue this amazing work ! what a kidush chabad!!
http://www.chayalelchayal.org/lone-soldier-organization/
No words on how much they help the soldiers!!!
place is just not the same without you guys here
cw
The hardest working couple I’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting! Please! Please! I implore you to try to give now! When you visit them in Israel and personally see where and how this money is being used and how it changes these soldiers lives it will bring tears to your eyes!
Amen to reaching ur ultimate goal I’m very proud of you Malkah Esther and Mordy , amazing work! Can’t wait to see u
Mordy and Malkah Esther, you’re doing great work! Keep it up!
Wooow
We are so proud that a fellow Ottawan (Mordy Botnick) and his beautiful wife are doing such amazing work and helping to bring Moshiach Now!
Go Mordy and malka Esther! What you are doing is incredible! Keep up the great work! We miss you!
this is so beautiful!
Really great work
whoever posted the previous comment – thank you! and you from yours! and everyone reading these comments should shep nachas from their children too! moshiach now!
if we wanto donate where do we go?
Mordy was like a dad away from home to me
love you very much keep up the good work
Mordy made sheva brochas for my son, a fellow lone soldier. It was so very special. May you go from strength to strength.
Judy Rosenberg Charney
Chasha and Chonon shep nachas.
BEAUTIFUL:)
his mother shel myleh must be so proud. bless them!!
keep up the great work and help them with this great cause.
That’s beautiful!