Today I watched a man die.
The call came in at about 2:00 pm.
“Can you be with Mr. Martin Grossman during his execution?” How can you say no? How can you say yes? What can you say? After speaking to my wife, I decided to go. I made a few phone calls and found a companion for the road and off we went. Along the way, another friend offered to join and the three of us departed down the I95 to the I10 to be with Mr. Grossman.
A little background.
A few months ago Rabbi Mendy Katz from Aleph sent out an email to the local Chabad Rabbis. In it was a very simple request. Due to the financial downturn Aleph could no longer afford to send Yeshiva students to all the prisons in Florida – would any community be willing to go visit a few prisons in their area? We volunteered. Rather, I volunteered and subsequently invited members of our community to come along.
On our first visit, during Chanukah, our group was divided into pairs of two for maximum efficiency. David Sall, a local psychiatrist and Rabbi Menachem Mendel Lieberman, my lifetime friend and a local law student teamed up and I partnered with Dovid Moyer, a local financial repair specialist and businessman. Our group went to a number of prisons that day including Union Correctional. Mendy and David went to death row. As you know by now, death row housed the now world-famous Martin Grossman A”H.
Several days after our visit to death row, the Governor signed Martin’s death warrant and set the date of execution for February 16th at 6:00 PM. Saddened by the news, but not really sure what to do, I went about my daily business and even went back to visit the prison one more time with a group.
Sometime during January, Rabbi Katz called me, “Martin is going to die,” he said. “What we can do to help him?” At first, I have to admit, I was hesitant. What could I do? I’m a local Chabad Rabbi. This is for the national organizations. After reading the proclamation by Rabbi Shochat of Los Angeles that one could even violate Shabbos to save Mr. Grossman, I was convinced.
First, I called Rabbi Mendy Katz back and told him I was on board but only to assist him, not to take charge of this. Then, I called Rabbi Oirechman, the Chabad Rabbi in Tallahassee and asked if he was on board. After giving it some thought, he said that he was fully on board. Now was time to get the plan in motion. (Let me also add that tremendous work was being done by many organizations at the time. This is just my account and the events that led me to watch Martin Die.) Rabbi Katz put together a letter that most of the 150 Chabad Rabbis in Florida signed. Another letter was written by Rabbi Zvi Biarsky which many Rabbis from every Jewish group signed as well, and they were both later hand delivered to the Governor by Rabbi Oirechman.
In addition, I started an online petition. On the first day we had 23 signatures, day two we had 200 on day three 1,000. At about that time, many in the broader Jewish community got involved in the cause to encourage the Governor to grant a clemency hearing to Mr. Grossman. Leaders from Agudath Israel, the OU, the RCC, many in the Yeshiva world in Monsey and Lakewood, and Satmar Chassidim were getting involved. It was simply amazing! The cause was taking on a life of its own. Every day emails were being sent out to thousands upon thousands of people from all walks of life encouraging them to sign the petition. At its close, the petition had in excess of 33,000 signatures; many people wrote personal and some heart-rending notes. The Achdus/togetherness of Klal Yisroel/the Jewish people was heart-warming.
Just to give further insight into this, we put together a website called www.savemartingrossman.com. While putting the site together, I realized in amazement, that the man with the idea for the site was a Litvisher/yeshivish Jew, the man who paid for the site was a Satmar Chosid and here I was, a card-carrying Lubavitcher shliach working on the site through Chabad.org’s unbelievable server system. Incidentally, nearly 20,000 people logged onto the site during the last week alone.
That’s the background for today’s events. I’m now on the way to the prison with my two friends, Dr. David Sall and Rabbi Mendy Lieberman, who by Divine providence are the same two people who visited Martin during Chanukah. I did not specifically call them. I asked some others first. As they say, a Jew plans and G-d laughs. I planned on spending my afternoon and evening with some teenagers at the local high school doing a Jewish teen group and helping my wife who just had a baby give the kids dinner and do bedtime. David was busy with some needed recreation and Mendy was at school. None of us ever expected our day to turn out the way it did.
We got to the prison and were told, as expected, that only I could go in. Mendy and David were to wait with the media across the street. I was escorted in and given the rundown. There was to be only respectful behavior. There would be no contact with Martin. No books or metal were allowed in. I had the opportunity to meet with and thank a few of the chaplains and department heads who had been very helpful in our past prison visits. I also met Martin’s attorney. It was touching to be able to meet the man who put up such a fight for Martin over the years.
At about 5:30 we were escorted together with all the other people who were to witness the execution H”LS. Amongst the group were about 7 or 8 members of Ms. Parks’ family. There were a number of state witnesses, and about 6 or 7 members of the press. We were taken through the metal detectors and searched. We then passed through a number of security doors which I was all too familiar with from previous visits. The mood was a mix. People were chatting nervously and were very cordial with each other. I was so thoroughly impressed with the Parks family and the other people present. They handled themselves so courteously despite the obviously intense tension.
We were taken into a van and driven to another section of the prison. We were then escorted into a room at about 5:45. The room was about 30 feet by 15 feet; it was lined with 3 rows of chairs each about 10 chairs deep. On the last row, furthest from the front, sat the members of the media. In front of them, the state witnesses, and in the first row was the Parks family and myself. For fifteen minutes you could hear a pin drop in that room. Nobody looked at each other. People sat in silence, just reflecting. I put on my ‘gartel’ [special belt for prayer] and started to daven/pray. First I said a number of prayers by heart and then I started to say Psalms. I became oblivious to my surroundings, just simply lost in thought and prayer. Suddenly, I began thinking, what am I doing here? Why would Hashem want me to be here? What purpose does this serve? After all, there is so much pain and hurt in this room, the Parks family suffered terribly. They are obviously still dealing with much of it. Tens of thousands of Jewish people throughout the world are sitting in prayer, hoping and praying that Hashem will have mercy and grant Mr. Grossman reprieve. And much of that burden falls on my shoulders as the one Jew, the one rabbi, the one ‘shliach’ of the Lubavitcher Rebbe sitting in this room.
Suddenly, a thought crossed my mind about all of those people, those individuals that the Rebbe had reached out to through the years – one Jew at a time, mostly through his shluchim. The Rebbe loved EVERY Jew. Here again there is one Jew sitting in a faraway place in the middle of nowhere, no family with him, no love from the audience. He would have died alone. The only person that cared about him was the Rebbe, who sent Rabbi Katz to spend 4 hours with him on his dying day and me to be here while he breathes his last breath.
I started to daven that whatever I think, whatever I feel should be what the Rebbe would want me to think and/or feel. What does Hashem want me to do now? I started to sing a niggun to myself based on the words “Kiayil taarog al afikei mayim kein nafshi taarog eilecho elokim.” My soul wants to be with you Hashem …..
Almost immediately the curtain opened and there was Martin in the next room. He was only four or five feet from us, but he was strapped down and covered up until his neck. The only visible part of him was his arm, in which was an IV that would deliver the sam hamoves, the poison, and his face. In the room with him were a police officer and someone who stood with a paper and notebook presumably recording every detail of what transpired. The room also had a large clock behind Martin as well as video cameras and microphones hanging from the ceiling. Otherwise there were freshly painted walls, a sparkling clean floor, and a one way glass leading to a third room behind Martin.
Martin did not look at the crowd nor at the police officer next to him, he just stared up at the ceiling. There was silence in the room, the tension was so thick you could cut it with a knife. I for one was almost convulsing. The clock read 6:02.
The officer asked “Mr. Grossman do you have any final words?” to which Martin replied “Yes.”
Martin began “I completely regret everything that I did on that night, both that which I remember and that which I do not.” He then said, “I would like to say a prayer,” the officer said okay.
At that point Martin says “Shema Yisroel adon- elokenu adon- echod” in a loud voice and then said something that I will never forget so long as I live.
“Ahavat Yisroel”.
At that point I began to weep so loud that the guy behind me asked me if I would like to leave. There are no words to describe the way Martin died. Martin committed a terrible crime, one that will haunt a family as long as they live. But with those two words he showed that, “ein dovor bo bifnei harotzon,” nothing stands in the way of a man’s will. Martin died proclaiming his affection for Yisroel, his brothers and sisters throughout the world, more for G-d and his Torah as well. Martin died a repentant man, but more than that. Martin died a man that accomplished something that we as Jews have been trying to do for nearly 2,000 years. He brought us together with true Jewish unity -Ahavas Yisroel.
Who knew a child born to an abusive father and sick mother, a boy who could not make it through school, a young man who shopped for drugs in his mother’s closet, a man who killed someone- and not just a person, but a beautiful Park Ranger, who was just doing her job, while he was high on a cocktail of drugs, could have such an incredible impact.
Martin died as a true bal Teshuvah Al Kidush Hashem, sanctifying G-d’s name in public, the highest level a Jew can reach on this earth.
The entire story is a painful tragedy for all involved. Every moment is a gift and every life is irreplaceable….. death is ugly and horrible. But you showed that even in such horror, even in the last moment of life…… meaning can be found.
It’s time for an AHAVAS YISROEL CAMPAIGN… no need to wait for the sefirah to designate a time to think about the importance of the words we say to another, or the way we voice our opinions, and accept another’s. The Jewish world has faced (yet another) subject on which we have diverse opinions. My feeling is, if we all focused so much of our energy on “Aseh Tov”, and “Ahavas Yisrael”, two things would happen: a) the way in which we view people, situations, and the world around us would be so greatly enriched, that our heightened tolerance for… Read more »
u are so right !
rabbi kurinsky said that mr. grossman brought together ahavas yisroel. now. whatever your opinions are, should we be ruining the ahavas yisroel already? who cares what your opinions on martin grossman or peggy park are, just stop fighting! everyone is saying that we will have moshiach if we have ahavas yisroel for mr. grossman, but in the meantime everyone is fighting about the very SUBJECT of ahavas yisroel!!!!!!!!!
ok so grossman died a good man!!
but it doesent mean his past was forgotten!
I feel it is enough of comments. We can’t be of help neither to Peggy nor Martin anymore. Let them both rest in peace. I don’t want to judge anyone too. Not even the person who has signed the death sentence if it is observed as an act of satisfaction for the victim’s family. BUT… If the facts and IQ are not to be taken under consideration, what has left? As presented earlier, a doubt about the guilt and the level of participating in a murder and a doubt about the level of IQ of the convinced. Trying to think… Read more »
Nachum, can’t tolerate thinking about this. But I will say this: I’m proud to have a hand in your education.
Z.K.
loi tzrichim ligroim lehoisif soinei yisroel bo’oilom.
ze posuach LECHOL HO’OILOM.
m’darf shreiben mit a bisul achrayus/seichel.
There is on such a thing as a Good Jew or Bad Jew. Even Poshei Yisrael Milaim mitzvos Krimon. I think we would all agree that the Rebbe would be against this as the Rebbe did say how imprisoment doesnt really accord with Halacha. Every Jew is part of one big body, so if one vein of the body is defective it can cause great pain to the entire body. Who says you wouldn’t have done any different were you in Martin’s shoes. I confirm that #69 is correct and anyone who believes otherwise can go argue with the rambam… Read more »
one of the doctors in Dr. Rosens office told me that his mother called the office of Marty Markowitz (the saviour of —–) and asked to speak to him to see if he could use his position to help Martin Grossman. but what she got from this “noble” person was “what do you think just because I’m Jewish I’m going to save a bad Jew?! after all that’s what he was! there are good Jews and bad Jews and he was the latter, so don’t expect me to do anything for him” and he slammed down the phone on her.… Read more »
thats so sad he is true jew
Who is disgusting?Try the mirror- we have a right to be disgusted when suddenly a murderer is elevated as if he were some sort of tzadik- l’havdil. And people are not judging what is inside his heart-that is for Gd…However, people have a right to protest the sudden wailing over someone who MURDERED.Are you a Jewish frum person?Do you accept that it was H’s will that he died this way? But do not criticize those of us who do not hold a murderer of an innocent girl as some sort of righteous person who made a little mistake!That is the… Read more »
this is the WORLD WIDE WEB!!
i didn’t hack into your site.
i have the right to view this site or any other, no matter what my religion or nationality.
you’re way outta of line.
For all of you who pass judgment..OYE VAYN How disgusting
to make judgments that onlt H-shem can make!!!!!No WONDER MOSHIACH ISN’T HERE!!
After reviewing the Rambam in Hilchos Sanhedrin 14:11, I correct what I said before – misas bes din is only allowed when there is a Sanhedrin in the Lishkas Hagozis in the BHM”K.
I stand corrected on that matter.
Dear All
Who would have the courage to witness such an awful scene. It takes a very very strong person to agree to watch a death of another jew. I hope the dear Rabbi can recover and use this experience for the good.
Rabbi, you work for the good of mankind and this is what the movement represents, strength to you.
Anyone remember the D.C. sniper?He was executed. And the most disgusting thing I saw was the lawyers who “got to know him”and knew his awful childhood(blah blah)standing there in tears.Meanwhile I look at the families with no mothers and fathers because of that MURDERER.This is chabad’s real chilul Hashem because your tears and energy are for the murderer and how unfair he got the death penalty.HOW UNFAIR that the young innocent woman had to die like that and the family will have a hole in their hearts all the days of their lives!That is what is unjust.DO ANY OF YOU… Read more »
I totally did not get the number 3 of ur comment… if u want ppl to understand- gotta be clear! Thanks!
This is very mixed emotions. After all, doesnt every murderer have regret years later? I cant help but wonder what would be had he not been caught. Would he have murdered other people? would he have been a walking criminal continuing to be a thug? who knows?
kol hakavod to you
i am in tears
what a tragedy
1) He appeared to be a changed man who regretted what he did. 2) We did NOT want him back on the streets, only that he be allowed to live in prison and keep mitzvos. No one lacked sympathy for the victim except a few hooligans, probably kids or nisht fun unzerer if they even existed, who supposedly harassed her family (the mother has zero neemonus and I don’t believe it happened until police or phone reports are produced). 3) That editorial is the biggest chilul Hashem of them all. It is the work of someone who bows down to… Read more »
He is in a better place now….the quality of life he has lead and would of lead (had he been granted life in prison)….would have been a sad and painfully long one. He truly suffered so….wether emotionally or mentally. The only comfort one can take from his death…is that he did Teshuva & is now in the loving warm embrace of his creator.
His tormented soul finally knows comfort & peace. Baruch Dayan Hemet.
Each prisoner sdeserves spiritual support from clergy before death but making him a ‘Cause’ and a ‘Jewish Cause’ is disgraceful. Better the rabbi encourage 33,000 signatories to show condolences to Peggy Parks family on behalf of the ‘united’ Jewish community.
Rabbi Kurinsky G-d shoud bless you and your family for having the courage to do the right thing. Your article was sensitive to the Park family and expressed the strugles of Martin Grossman. The Jewish People have allways been Bailie Rachmonos. The request was not for the punsihment of Martin Grossman to cease but rather for the death sentance to be commuted to life in prison. Martin Grossman was tried and convited in a court of law under the laws of the state of Florida and according to the constituion of this great country. That does not mean that our… Read more »
To the “intelligent”ones who think we are non-Jews because we see nothing great about the article just shows how sick some of your minds are. You spent all this time trying to bemoan the death of a murderer bec “he finally saw the way”…..what fools!!In that case everyone who finds Gd which includes just about everyone on death row needs to have the same sentiments you all write.CV’ may you never know what it is like to be a victim of a cruel death- then I want to see how quickly you’ll cry ad mosai!!Disgusting!A real chilul Hashem.
I have to admit, I was not opposed to the execution of Grossman and I did not sign the petition. But this has gone too far … Rabbi Kurinsky, your presence in the execution chamber was valiant, your efforts on behalf of Grossman are commendable, and your letter is completely appropriate. This is a testament to your commitment as a shliach of the Rebbe and an important statement to the world about compassion and mercy. We must not lose that commitment, even when it is unpopular and even when the recipient has committed heinous crimes. It is despicable that all… Read more »
this is all just another example of a Chabad publicity stunt -this rabbi will get his story in the papers and on tv and hope the donations will flow in…. if these guys don’t want to abide by the laws in the US they always have the option of living in the lawless society that Israel is today…..
#48, kindly bring a halacha source that a non-Jewish court can NOT execute a Jewish criminal.
Martin died speaking baout Ahavas Yisroel on a day that Hayom Yom is about Ahavas Yisroel. Thats what the article is all about, thats what the article was about.
The Alter Rebbe said: The mitzva of ahavat yisrael1 extends to anyone born into the people of Israel, even if you have never met him. How much more so does it extend to every member – man or woman of the Jewish community where you live, who belongs to your own community.
“The Alter Rebbe said: The mitzva of ahavat yisrael1 extends to anyone born into the people of Israel, even if you have never met him. How much more so does it extend to every member – man or woman of the Jewish community where you live, who belongs to your own community.”
http://www.vosizneias.com/49584/2010/02/17/new-york-editorial-a-postmortem-on-the-grossman-execution
it is disgrace
as i was reading all the comments and i saw such negative comments i felt that i must write, I feel that yes it was a horrible thing that he killed the police and i feel horrible for her family but on the other hand we as jews believe in Teshuva and besides for that fact, we as jews when we here another jew is going to be killed our hearts go out to him NO MATTER THE SITUATION, all jews are one family so it is our job to daven and Hashem will do the rest
why all teh anger and hate? dont you see the author Rabbi Kurinsky wasnt taking a position on Martin vs ms parks? he was speaking words from the heart, looking at the upside of a very dark situation. not judging as some of you suggested. please focus on the point here achdus was achieved on unpresidented levels. lets foster that lets use this oportunity to create ahavas yisroel not ch’v the oposite. we b”h have a Torah it uides us, we have a Rebbe he guides us, we know where we stand as Lubavitchers, we stand on the side of… Read more »
When a Beis Din kills someone, there is a whole discussion if he should die with or without clothes because WE STILL CARE that he should go out in the BEST WAY possible. Even a horrible murderer! We also tell him to repent, which evidently this guy did. This however is not a Beis Din and all those bashing this Rabbi for his ‘halachic ignorance’, kindly bring one halachic source that says it is permissable for a non jewish court to kill a Jew. (Obviously it does not matter to the american govn’t, but that doesnt mean an effort cant… Read more »
Dear #46, Your am ha’aratzus is appalling. Please don’t castigate people with the two things you learned in yeshiva, you bring shame on yourself and your educators. 1. The reason we Jews do not give misas bes din today has nothing to do with the lack of a Sanhedrin of 71. It is because we do not have smicha, which was passed from rav to talmid. Misas bes din was not an issue of the Sanhedrin – it was decided by a bes din of 23. 2. The halacha is that even if the bes din was going to wind… Read more »
To the last and ALL the negative non-Jewish comments: as Frum Orthodox Jews there is only ONE thing that decides for us, that is TORAH. YOU GET IT TORAH WHICH WE LIVE AND DIE FOR. Now this Torah tells us CLEARLY that: #1 Today when there is Jewish Tribunal Court of 71 people called ‘Sanhedrin’ WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO GIVE THE DEATH PENALTY UNTIL THE BEIS HAMIKDASH WILL BE REBUILT, P E R I O D. #2 EVEN when THERE WAS a ‘Sanhedrin’ (Jewish court of 71) if the decided to kill someone ONCE IN SEVENTY YEARS they were… Read more »
Wow! Wow! Wow! the article is amazing. If you read the article without concern about yourself but rather concern for the writer and all those present with him you cannot come away with any other reaction other than a teary eyed “WOW!” For those who feel it is necessary to constantly remind us that he was a cold blooded killer please don’t insult us – we all know and we ALL feel incredible pity for the Parks family. There is no question about that!! But please the man is dead – you don’t have to keep talking about his crime… Read more »
To #36Wake up you cant trust the newspeper you you cant trust the witneses you cant trust the judge or the cout system
would you trut them with five thosend dollers ??? how can we trust THEM to take a life (Jew or non jew) did you see the murder maybee thre has a strugel and the gun went off or mabee his friend leid how are you sooo sure we have to kill him i hope your not a crimanal judge or a govenor RL marthin grossman Ah was killed for nothig hashem yenakem domoi
#1. A 77 IQ is low but not too low to be functional, and certainly not too low to know that drugs mess you up and murder is wrong. #2. Not to draw direct parallel, but if someone is sentenced to Meesas Beis Din and they are subsequently repentant (before the Din is carried out) are they spared from their punishment? #3. Whether or not he did Teshuva is for Hashem to decide. Remeber his transgression was bein adam L’chaveiro, not just bein adam L’makon. #4. In my opinion, to wish/daven/intercede that he be spared may be the approach some… Read more »
there r reasons they shouldv killed him and why not but the fact is he’s deadso shutup and get on w/ life
No one said he should go free!! The campaign was that he should not be put to death but instead life in prison. As Jews we don’t believe in the death penalty for ANYONE – Jew or non-Jew.
How are these non-jewish opinions being posted on a site for jewish people? Who are they? r’ kurinsky recounts an awe-inspiring and amazing story and the anguish he went through etc. and the fact that martin was a jew and died a penitent etc. and brought about a regesh of love.
B”H
Especially on Mrs. Lapines yartzeit (her blood should be avenged) I have mixed feelings about this whole case…
I did call the governors office a few time and sent emails there …. but…. we just need Moshiach.
to #25 Sic and sic you are he did not deserve to be killed even if with all the nagetive evidance but on the other hand his trubled yuth dit not plan the murder his remorce his conduct the last 25 years in jail his chaged caractor …. and you cant trusrt the witneses or the judge even with ten thousend dollers and for shure not with someones life the park family sold have found comfort with him in jail the rest ov his life and learn to forgive thay have nothing ov his killing nothing att all only revenge… Read more »
Thank you Rabbi Kurinsky & Rabbi Katz for doing all you can do.
If you google ‘peggy park’, under the News tab, press 1980-1989, you will all educate yourselves into the facts of the case. This Martin Grossman was on probation already! during that night back in 1984. He put his arm around her neck and shot her point blank in the head. Grossman later tossed a newspaper with the story onto his bed and bragged to a friend, “I did it, man, I shot her.” If people would just educate themselves and not fall prey to sentiment and magical thinking you’ll see that he was a cold-blooded killer. Rabbi Kurinsky’s sympathies are… Read more »
Bottom line:
Martin Grossman passed away a repentant man.
He did Tshuva.
He left this world by reciting the words “Shma Yisroel”
And it is very heartwarming and encouraging to see the amount of Ahavas Yirsoel and Achdus Yisroel from so many different Yidden of so many different backgrounds, all coming together to share their love for a fellow Yid.
The Bottom line: May we see many more times this level of Ahavas Yisroel and Achdus Yisroel among all the Yidden and we will be Zoche immediately to the Geula Ho-amitis Vihashleima!!!!!!!!!!
It’s a shame for what had to happen to bring out the good in people. Everything happens for a reason, even if we don’t understand it fully.
Thank you for writing this. As i sit here reading and tears streaming down my face, I hope we can all just try to get along…….
Rabbi, you are a role model for us all!
Rabbi Kurinsky, maybe you would have felt differently at this excusion if you had sat in the woods, in 1984, and watched 26 year old Margaret Park be tortured and murdered by this man.
I would love to have read your thoughts on THAT.
Our hearts and prayers should be going out to that young woman’s family!!
Rabbi Mendy so proud of you that your down south down work Al Taharas Hakodesh!
noone should ever have to witness something that horrible! and yes he was a killer and yes he deserved to be punished…but what does death help? how about him being put in jail for life with something constructive to do for society… the family of that beautiful park ranger (as nochum put it) should find comfort, and our hearts are all broken for them…but this guy being killed wasnt an answer. and Rabbi Nochum, i only hope that hashem gives u a special bonus this year for having to do something that diffficult!
Chilling.
I feel bad for the Rabbi that he had to see that whole thing,
No one should have to witness stuff like that, that’s way too hectic. Perhaps some therapy would be good. The whole thing is very sad, sad that an innocent girl was murdered. It wouldn’t be as sad if he didn’t do complete repentance. but he still took a life and we go in circles, may Good prevail in the world and no more of this sad stuff……….
Why would he have to die for killing someone when lots of others also kill people but they only go to jail and no death!
Some of you truly need help because it is so pathetic that you think a murderer(who happens to be a Jew-blah blah drugs etc etc)of a non-Jew is some sort of HERO and shouldn’t have been put to death. What a big chilul Hashem.Obviously H’ did not intervene in the his death and maybe for good reason!
thank you nochum for writing this.
he was killed h”yd
Dear Rabbi Nochum,
You should have much Koiach to continue doing our work happily. Kol Hakavod, Yitamu Chataim Vilo Choitim. Thumbs up, and much Hatzalacha in Hafatzas Hamayonos
Very powerful
He killed someone. Actually, in my opinion, Chabad just caused a great chilul Hashem by petitioning the gov to acquit a murderer.
Ahavas Yisrael true – but to who? A murdurer or his innocent victim?
It sounds to me that a lot of people’s morals and ethics are skewed.
Today’s Hayom Yom- shows us the derech we should follow:
“The Alter Rebbe said: The mitzva of ahavat yisrael1 extends to anyone born into the people of Israel, even if you have never met him. How much more so does it extend to every member – man or woman of the Jewish community where you live, who belongs to your own community.”
Everyone keeps on repeating this “fact” that his IQ was too low for him to be responsible for his actions, as if they have first hand knowledge or as if they personally analyzed him.
Of course the defense is gonna argue that and they did – 19 times, but obviously the court did not find any merit to that argument.
I think it was a really bad mistake for all these Jewish organizations to get involved and we for sure should not turn him into some sort of Tzadik (Ie. OBM)
i have no pity for a non jewish COP THAT LEFT THE WORLD but who i do have pity for is A JEWISH SOUL THAT AFTER ALL DOING TESHUVA WANT GIVEN A CHANCE OF LIFE if you were jewish and cared you wouldnt have written such a comment you are discusting and DONT HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR A JEWISH PERSON THAT DIED YOU WILL GET YOUR PORTION IN THE NEXT WORLD SHAME ON YOU!!!!!! MOSHIACH IS NOT COMMING CUZ YOU DONT HAVE AHAVAS YISREOL MARTAIN WAS A JEWISH SOUL THAT DIED NOT LIKE PEGGY PARK A NON JEW START HAVING… Read more »
WE ALL KNOW HE KILLED SOMEONE.
But the Rebbe spoke of Teshuvah, and the Freidicher Rebbe, and the Rebbe Rashsab, Maharash, Tzemach Tedek, Mittler Rebbe and Alter Rebbe. Not to mention the Ba’al Shem Tov. If these great men put so much focus on teshuvah, who are we to decide it counts for nothing and is not worth talking about?
The first time the words “hero” and “simcha” appear on this page are in your comments…
Oh you people, what is with you? We ALL FEEL FOR PEGGY PARKS’ family! The writer mentioned that more than once! At the same time, usually people aren’t killed for crimes that weren’t premeditated plus with his low IQ level. No one was saying that he should go free–all we were asking for was life in prison!
P.s. the whole idea of visiting prisoners and spending money on bringing them joy probably sounds wrong to you as well. The rebbe loves EVERY Yid!
a yid can not hold of death pnelty you cant trust the witneses or the judge with ten tousend dollers and for shure not with someones life he did not diserve to be killed even if you consider all the negetive facts againts him and consider on the other hand his trubled yuth and didnt plan the murder and the remorce and the behvier in jail for 25 years a true court wold not kill him his exicution was a premeditader murder in a nice leagel way hasem yenakem dumio
This is awesome and so so powerful. May we never ever know of another yid or G-d’s creation given a death penalty.
are u jewish?????? he is a jew and “af shchata yisroel hu”
You know what Martin A”H said before he joined Gan Eden
Ahavas Israel
Do you get it ?
wow!
Im sorry i think this is going out of hand. dont forget this man killed a young lady for no reason…
Enough is enough he is no hero. It seems that all you sheeps have no feelings for Peggy Park.
I’m sitting here crying… so tragic for all involved
Very touching account, and a true shliach’s perspective, showing us what we can learn from and take from this terribly sad situation….
You deserve a Chassidshe Kush from all of us!
Your work with all the others in this case … shows how we are all brothers… and thank you for including how all walks of Yiddishe life worked together to save ONE YID!
The Rebbe was with you …. and will grant you brocho for being there for R’ Grossman.
Zug L’Chayim …. after what you went through …. we are all here for you!
Thank you Rabbi Kurinsky, i really enjoyed your article!
Soon Lubavitchers are gonna start naming their kids after Martin.
just by reading your article one sees a reason for your having been present. your account and thoughts, your reflections and insight teach us a lesson. the spin you have put on each angle is so positive and in tune with how the Rebbe would want us to look at this event. Each aspect is a horaah to us and may we all be able to internalize your thoughts. you are a true chossid and shliach. may Hashem grant you only pleasent tasks in the future, and may we all see the fruition of your job, with Moshiach now!
This is so painful but at the same time, something about it screams CLEARLY that this is all part of G-ds plan!