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Rebbe’s Message to Single Woman

A profound answer the Rebbe wrote to a young single woman waiting for a shidduch and feeling hopeless has been circulating. Full Story

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dear number 9
August 18, 2018 5:34 pm

the rebbe replied to that SPECIFIC women. in that SPECIFIC situation. that’s all.

To Number 9
August 17, 2018 12:18 pm

You missed the Rebbe’s point. You are focusing on the words the Rebbe chose for this lady, instead of how to solve that one big issue. Yes it is not little but BIG issue. The Rebbe”s answer is:
“And the true cause for that is – that when you are offered a shidduch you look for excuses to get out of it.”
Wishing to all הצלחה רבה!

to 9
August 16, 2018 6:11 pm

If G-d forbid you were lacking in other places you wouldn’t say this is the only issue and your many worries wouldn’t allow you to focus on being single. Thank G-d you have the ability to focus on this ONE hope and wish.

To number 9
August 16, 2018 2:13 pm

Your question is one that jumps out at me also.
However it is important to keep in mind that if the Rebbe would write this way to this lady it is most likely because the Rebbe knew that this lady needed this sort of “tough love” push in the right direction away from self pity.
I would be very curios to know what happened to this lady.

Im actually surprised
August 16, 2018 1:31 pm

To someone who is an older single and not married – “the only left to fix is that your not married yet” makes it sound so trivial. As if its an insignificant issue. I am grateful for my health, my parents, my family and my livelihood but the one thing I long for is a home of my own and children. Nothing can erase that pain not even all of the other amazing things I have in my life.
Its not just one little issue that is left to fix- it is THE only thing I wish for.

Amazing message
August 16, 2018 8:17 am

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August 15, 2018 5:37 pm

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August 15, 2018 1:56 pm

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