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    “Outside” Input on Shidduchim

    Op-Ed: Talking about shidduchim can get very personal and intimate. That's why you need a trusted 'outsider' to speak to. Full Story

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    So true
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    So true

    It is so important to have a mashpia

    Bold?
    Guest
    Bold?

    Why is it bold for parents to suggest that their children speak to a mashpia?

    The Rebbe said everyone should have a mashpia.

    this is an excellent article.

    I’m sure it’s not intended, but it does come across as an ad for Dr. Pinson. Perhaps there should be a list of professionals your organization approves of.

    Important article
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    Important article

    So glad to see this. Another point: make sure the mashpia is mature enough. A 20-something, newlywed mashpia may be easy for a boy or girl to talk to, but may not be qualified to tell them, for example, to ignore their parents’ advice about a shidduch. I’ve seen this cause major trouble, unfortunately. Wishing all singles a quick and happy path to the chuppah with The Right One.

    Great article
    Guest
    Great article

    Thank you for the great piece.

    As a older single (bocher) I always find it hard to find that someone to talk too. Any other of mashpim or people that are good with this field?

    Agree with #2
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    Agree with #2

    Great article.

    Mrs. Yocheved Lipsker is a wonderful dating “coach”. If she isn’t the “official” shadchan involved with the date, she is an excellent person to speak to.

    I don’t know from personal experience, but I’ve read that Mrs. Toby Lieder of Australia is also a dating coach.

    Website
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    Website

    There seems to be a problem with the adeiad.org website…is there a known email address?

    I love my parents
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    I love my parents

    But I Agree 100 percent.
    Many many times, parents have their own interests in mind, or they decide what their child wants( even after their child talking to them) . They don’t do it on purpose, but it’s a fact.

    Mrs Toby lieder Shadchan coach, is now interviewing
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    Mrs Toby lieder Shadchan coach, is now interviewing

    Mrs Toby lieder is now in crown hts for just one more week taking appointments for interviews to help you find your shidduch!
    She is a coach and helps you work out as well what you want
    I highly recommend you contact her for an appointment if you need some shidduch coaching and her assistance in helping find a shidduch!
    [email protected]

    Shadchan
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    Shadchan

    Not all shadchanim are bad coaches. The ones who really care can be objective and not push the shidduch.

    Website
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    Website

    It looks like this is their website:

    https://adaiad.wordpress.com

    Dovid

    MILLION  DOLLAR QUESTION
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    MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION

    Where do you find the right person to talk to.

    I was interviewed last night
    Guest
    I was interviewed last night

    I just went for an interview by Toby lieder and it was phenomenal!
    She spent time helping me sort out what’s impt to look for in a shidduch. We came up with 5 majors as she suggested we cannot get everything…… I highly suggest you get an appointment while she is in crown hts I understand for another week!
    It gave me clarity

    Toby is available for appointments this moitzay shabbos
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    Toby is available for appointments this moitzay shabbos

    Email her on
    [email protected]
    Great advisor and assistance
    In helping find your shidduch!

    Toby is available for appointments this moitzay shabbos
    Guest
    Toby is available for appointments this moitzay shabbos

    Email her on
    [email protected]
    Great advisor and assistance
    In helping find your shidduch!

    Adai Ad responds
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    Adai Ad responds

    our website is http://www.adaiad.org
    you can email us at [email protected]

    Elka Pinson is a great choice!
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    Elka Pinson is a great choice!

    One of our children went to her for shidduch guidance and she was very perceptive about which type of person to focus on when looking for a shidduch for that child. The result was BH a great match and BH a beautiful marriage. I think that it is a good recommendation.

    Rabbi Moishe Raitman - excellent coach/shadchan
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    Rabbi Moishe Raitman - excellent coach/shadchan

    Rabbi Raitman is a Shadchan coach par excellance. From personal experience, he has a unique ability to relate to both the boys and girls, and involve the parents every step of the process. He is not pushy at all. Highly recommend him.
    Contact email: [email protected] or 847-626-6445

    Yasher Koach!
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    Yasher Koach!

    I’m very impressed with this article. Well-said!

    Dr. Sara Grozalsky -- highly recommended!
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    Dr. Sara Grozalsky -- highly recommended!

    She has a lot of experience in this field. She is also an excellent therapist for young people who might still have an issue or two to resolve before marriage. An all-around good therapist with Yiras Shamayim and a practical approach.

    Highly recommended Shadchan
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    Highly recommended Shadchan

    I just had an interview with Toby lieder. She helped assist me to realise what I want and what I don’t want. I feel everybody needing a shidduch out there should call and make an appt with her while she’s in crown hts for this week

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