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Marriage Tips For Men – Part 4

Rabbi Yitzi Hurwitz, who is battling ALS disease, shares the things he wishes he did for his marriage and hopes others will do them. Full Story

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KOL HAKAVOD!
August 17, 2017 6:40 am

Yitzi, may you continue to guide us humbly to be great husbands. If we each treat our wife like the Queen that she is, we will certainly be the King. Sometimes we think we have the automatic right to be King, but it only works when we work at being a better husband. Thank you, Yitzi, for all that you promote for long, loving relationships. May Hashem bless you with a Refuah Shleima!

to number 4
August 14, 2017 5:27 pm

Marriage is not tit for tat. The wife’s responsibility to treat you well doesn’t negate the fact that you need to treat her with respect and help her out. If you’re waiting to see what you can get rather than what you can give you’re headed in the wrong direction. Be loving and kind and she will feed of that and reciprocate.

You are such a mentch Yitzi
August 14, 2017 4:26 pm

Thank you very much, may you continue to have abundant nachas from your wonderful family, and may you have a speedy and full recovery!

We are all waiting for Moshiach. Please come already!
August 14, 2017 12:03 pm

Thank you all for the beautiful comments. Let’s all continue to daven for Yosef Yitzchok Ben Brocho for a full Refuah Shlaimo Kapital Mem Vov(46).

Just heard Dina speak in Australia
August 14, 2017 9:33 am

and it was obvious from her speech that the thoughtfulness and respect which they had (and still have) for one another created an indestructible bond between them that is not shaken by any of the destructive forces of this physical world.

שפיגל ירושלים
August 14, 2017 6:22 am

Enough Golus.The Rebbe MHM should grab Yitzy by the hand and announce that Geulah is HERE.MAMASH! !!!! 👍👀👀👀

Thankyou
August 14, 2017 3:52 am

Beautiful article yitzy yaasher koach

Chani
August 14, 2017 3:21 am

Wow!! Beautiful!!!!

מעולה!!!!!
August 14, 2017 3:02 am

ממש. אין מילים. אין עליך.

Awesome Yitzi
August 14, 2017 2:23 am

I absorbed every word. Keep writing and keep inspiring us! Thank you! Refua shlaima now

Refuah Sheleimah
August 14, 2017 12:33 am

Hashem should send Rabbi Hurwitz a complete and speedy refuah sheleimah right now!

To number 4
August 13, 2017 10:10 pm

Dina Hurwitz is the Chabad Rebbetzin to Rabbi Yitzi, an inspirational writer and spiritual guide who was diagnosed with ALS in 2013. Dina is a motivational speaker and a world renowned personality who continually writes on the subject of harnessing strength and spirit in the face of coping with challenge. Monday, August 7, 2017 A Few Thoughts on Love Today is a fabulous day. It is the day we began writing our special Torah, 4 years ago in a beautiful Vinyard in Temecula. It is also the day Yitzi comes out with his fabulous marriage advice for men. He works… Read more »

Dear # 4
August 13, 2017 10:00 pm

Of course a wife has to be nice to her husband, and it is more then important , what would make you think not?
Why so many?????
He is a man writing, how a man should act. If you are a woman feel free to write an article.
As a side note, his wife Dina, just wrote recently a very nice piece about how woman should act…

Amazing
August 13, 2017 9:24 pm

& practical & it goes without saying if hubby does that for his eishes chayil she will respond in kind! This is for any aged couple just modify it to your circumstances!
Thank you R Yitzi & massive RS

Loving Husband
August 13, 2017 8:56 pm

Thank you so so much…so inspiring, I hope my future husband will read your inspiring “tips” ie yesodos and take them to heart. I am looking forward to attend your shalom bayis classes in person! Refuah Shleima miyad mamash!!!

When you give you get!
August 13, 2017 8:52 pm

To #4
You ask why Rabbi Yitzi does not say what a wife needs to do to honor and respect her husband. When a husband treats his wife like the advice in the article…you will have nothing to worry about!

Yitzi you are the best
August 13, 2017 8:52 pm

Rabbi Yitzi, you are very inspiring. you don’t know me personally, but you have made a significant impact on my life.

Thanks for being the awesome person you are!

A sincere request
August 13, 2017 8:46 pm

Any divorced person who dreams of remarrying should be brave enough & honest enough ( IF they are emotionally capable of honest self-assessment ) to compare their previous behavior to the level of mentchlekite, empathy & selflessness described here. Before considering re-marriage please seek top professional help to learn how to heal so as not to cause more destruction. May Rabbi Yitzy have a refua shlema NOW !

Amazing
August 13, 2017 7:48 pm

I hope my future husband will do that

Just saying...
August 13, 2017 7:41 pm

Yitzi you have always done a pretty good job of getting 100% and beyond always!

This. Is. Amazing.
August 13, 2017 7:37 pm

This is nothing short of profoundly beautiful and so filled with pnimius and chassidishe warmth. This post shows more then anything that truly chassidishe man is a sensitive and intuitive man. Sensitivity and intuition is something worth developing and valuing. I hope I marry someone with the same depth and outlook. You should have a complete refuah sheleima bekarov and you should dance at the front lines having always beenthe Rebbe’s devoted shliach and chassid, and a pillar of light and hope and strength for so so many. PS: someone that I know recently visited you and remarked that it… Read more »

Wow!
August 13, 2017 7:05 pm

Amazing points! Thanks for continuing to inspire!

Reb Yitzy
August 13, 2017 6:55 pm

There is so much to learn from him. Hashem should bentch him
with a Refuah Sheleima. NOW!

Great tips
August 13, 2017 6:50 pm

This can save marriages

On Point!
August 13, 2017 6:36 pm

Wow!! This is trully incredible. Every husband should read this…it will make a huge difference in your marriage.

Dear Rabbi Yitzy
August 13, 2017 6:29 pm

I always read your advice to the Husband how to be nice to his wife, do you also believe the wife should be nice to the husband,?? or that’s not important??

Rabbi Yitzy - You are the Man!
August 13, 2017 6:21 pm

Wishing you a speedy and complete recovery.

Aaron
August 13, 2017 6:16 pm

BS”D seeing how devoted she is it is hard to believe you treated her anything but perfectly,the only words I would like to hear from you are I Am CURED

Loving Husband
August 13, 2017 6:10 pm

Please post links for parts 1,2 and 3.

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