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Does Your Child Really Have ADD?

Psychiatrist Dr. Joel Fine writes that attention deficit disorder is grossly over-diagnosed and questions whether so many children these days really suffer from it. Full Story

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ADHDers are able to focus! . Correct #21
April 14, 2013 2:48 am

One of my four children has real ADHD (the others have a touch but nothing that effects them terribly). He does NOT jump off walls. He is not constantly moving his body. It’s his BRAIN that is hyper. It’s not that he can’t focus – it’s that when he is HYPER-focused on something – he cannot re-focus other things – such as what the teacher is saying. Such kids often seem “in their own world” or spacey. They have a hard time transitioning. Adjusting to anything new whether it be meeting a new person or changing the subject. They tend… Read more »

dorm counsellor's mom
April 13, 2013 11:25 pm

my son said it best – before you put a kid on Ritalin, put his parents on prozac! It’s much easier to medicate your child than to be an effective parent. But that does not make it right. Find out why your child is having difficulties. Could be she is too advanced and needs to be given a more challenging education. Or maybe he is just not ready and should be held back a year. Oh but that will affect him socially? Not nearly as much as being thrown out of class constantly. You have to explore all avenues to… Read more »

Add vs anxiety
April 13, 2013 5:44 am

I have 2 children who many psychologist and o.ts wanted to put on Ritalin for add, which made not much of a difference. Recently I have taken them to a behavioral paediatrician who has looked at the child and all reports in depth and has found that they are both very anxious… So now we are seeing a neurological psychologist who is guiding then thru strategies and has tested then again for add just to make sure it’s really not add. We finally feel like we have reached a solution without medication (which others drs etc were very quick to… Read more »

Non-hyperactive add IS under diagnosed
April 12, 2013 6:59 pm

I know because I have it. It’s the child who is dreamy. Who wants to succeed, but can’t get motivated. Often labeled ‘lazy’. Suffers silently for years because he/ she is typically a good child who stays out of people’s way. Is an underachiever. It hits this child when they discover their voice around grade 10 or 11. Please listen. If 5 mg of Ritalin can help then, why not?? By the time I was in university I had throbbing headaches from trying to concentrate. The workload was very dense. But no one believed me because I was always a… Read more »

Please give parents some credit
April 12, 2013 10:28 am

Raising a child with ADHD is a completely exhausting experience. Yes, it’s rewarding and definitly leads to much personal growth in those of us who are intuitive. However, I have seen marriages break up when a child with ADHD is not properly treated. Parents are not typically quick to medicate their child. As a mother, it was very hard to put my son on ritalin at 6. He is 10 now and in a new yeshiva where no one believes me that he has ADHD. The medication has helped him slow down and absorb what is going on around him.… Read more »

Thank you Dr Fine
April 12, 2013 10:01 am

Please continue to share your insights and practical advice with us.

I just want to say one thing:
April 12, 2013 8:34 am

My husband is one of five boys. Four of them (including him) have ADD/ADHD. The youngest has “learned” ADHD. How do we know? Stimulants are exactly what they sound like – stimulating. That means that they *should* make you more active. For some strange chemical reason, stimulants have the opposite effect on people with ADHD. It helps them calm down. The youngest was put on medication – just as a test – and it made him wild. He was then taken to be tested – just to make sure that it wasn’t ADHD – and it turned out that no,… Read more »

Great article
April 12, 2013 7:56 am

The schools have to read it, often they are the ones that recommend (otherwise expel) a child to be put on meds. When a cousin of mine told me the local school said ritalin (and the kid is always fine in my house) I told her to switch schools. Amazingly the kid is just super fine in the new school.
OT has too many OTs and they need jobs somewhere…..

Excellent article
April 12, 2013 5:05 am

Thank you for including specific way to deal with issue in more healthy manner

Samech Vov
April 12, 2013 4:55 am

This idea is spoken about in The Re bbs Rashabs ‘Samech Vov’ and as well as many other places about people remembering things much better when it’s “nogeya koi” when he relates to it as a person. Very nice and true article

So true!
April 12, 2013 4:50 am

Havnt read truer words in quite some time! It’s like someone took my jumbled thoughts and put it to paper in a way that makes sense! Beautiful article, and thank you for writing it!

Wow!
April 12, 2013 12:54 am

I’ve always kind of thought this, but you’ve expressed it so well and put it into the exact right words! Thank you!

This is my point
April 12, 2013 12:10 am

I think my point is – anyway, what matters is, this article says that, oh well, I forget what I was saying, but I don’t have ADHD, ADD, TNT, ABCD, EIEIO.

Abi Gezunt
April 11, 2013 9:54 pm

Children are” taught” to not pay attention by video games, television and most recently, by texting, email, Face Book, Twitter and instant messaging. These activities (and the constant need to check to see if any new messages have come in) require constant stimulation and change, to reduce the anxiety generated by these media. When in the 1950’s the Rebbe said that a TV.is a “Tumah She-ain Ko-mohu,” he was not referring to the content. The Rebbe told us that the etsem experience of staring at constantly shifting, flickering polarized light for long periods of time puts a farshtel on the… Read more »

Too true
April 11, 2013 9:30 pm

My son was diagnosed with pretty ‘severe’ ADHD as a 6 year old. Special classroom for 3 years…. Gradually all the symptoms disappeared (I did NOT medicate him), and now he is a regular kid. I think he was just an immature learner (a very non-verbal and visual kid) who took longer than normal to reach a level of self-control, interest in learning, and ability to sit and concentrate. It came gradually over time. Why do we expect ALL kids to mature at the same age?

As a teacher
April 11, 2013 8:59 pm

loved reading this article, thanks!

Well said
April 11, 2013 8:52 pm

This article is a breath of fresh air!

Love it
April 11, 2013 7:59 pm

Love the article.

One point that i disagree on though.
I have seen a decrease in tolerance over the years from parents and teachers for the inevitable discrepancies in scholastic abilities between kids.

i actually feel that in our schools, we have increased awareness and tolerance for different kinds of learners…

b'emet
April 11, 2013 7:56 pm

this article is so true! any time a child does not listen or has, “too much energy” suddenly a dx is slapped and meds prescribed. kids are supposed to have energy! i’ve found quite often that the home environment plays more of a role in the childs behaviour and if more attention was focused on preventative and parenting services rather than reactive damage control, everyone may benefit. shko’ach.

Very helpful
April 11, 2013 7:51 pm

Thank you, I have to show this to some people who are thinking the worst for their kid who is actually really bright.

wow!!!
April 11, 2013 7:34 pm

this article has so many amazing points i don’t even know which one to focus on and compliment. seriously, so glad to have read this, thanks !

true
April 11, 2013 6:30 pm

really enjoyed this article, hard to know who is and who isn’t ADD

Dr Joel Fine
April 11, 2013 6:28 pm

Great Article. we miss you

Irvine CA

!Thank you Lamplighters
April 11, 2013 6:12 pm

For instituting this concept so very well for my son! Learning is fun!

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