By Rabbi Hanoch Hecht
While having a friendly conversation with a colleague of mine, the subject of internet and internet security came up. Being that he has four children under the age of twelve, I thought “Surely this guy has internet security on his computers at home.” He did not.
Here are some of the issues regarding the web:
A computer with internet access is a window into the world, exposing both the good and the bad. It is our job to protect ourselves and our families from the negative aspects of the World Wide Web.
There are countless dangers the internet brings; some more harmful than others, some more lethal than others, but they are all dangers we can protect ourselves from. Studies show that one in five children are solicited on the web.
Another danger is addiction; school, work, parenting and other responsibilities suffer because people can’t pull themselves away from the computer. In Japan they have recently built a new hospital solely dedicated to curing people who are addicted to the Web.
Independence poses another threat: in this day and age many kids and teens have their own laptops and IPods with internet access. Give it a few minutes of thought and research, and you will find thousands of things on the internet that you do not approve of, but that can easily be obtained by you or your family members.
I’m sure everyone reading this has at one point or another used the internet to procrastinate, to escape reality instead of getting their work done and facing life head-on.
Some solutions:
The web has many positive and educative features. However, we cannot rely solely on education, trust and willpower. While I encourage every parent to educate their child on the dangers of the internet, I can’t help but feel that is just not enough anymore. We must protect ourselves, our families and the future of our communities.
Many people don’t even know such a thing as internet security exists, let alone the fact that it is literally at our fingertips; Internet security can be downloaded for FREE and many of them have customizable options to suit every person’s needs.
Personally I have a program called “K9” on all my computers. It is a free program that can be installed in mere minutes. You can personalize the settings for time spent online, blockage and limitations of certain sites etc. It is simple to use, and can make a vast difference in your home.
I recommend and encourage that every home take this important step toward protecting our families and our future leaders.
May G-D bless us with strength to make the right decisions.
-Rabbi Hanoch Hecht is the Spiritual leader of the Rhinebeck Jewish Center and director of Chabad dutchess.
i had internet for 3 years and i cant do it out of no were my kids wil be very angry give me advice thanks
K9 sucks it blocks good sites when you dont even block them yourself.
as mentioned in comment 6 there is an amazing website out there for internet addiction and addictions connected with internet content. The url given was inccorect. It is http://www.guardyoureyes.org/
Even for non addicts, its an amazing resource to check out,
especially the forum
i used google chrome portable and got around it
If you are using K9, this is the MOST IMPORTANT SETTING: You must block all unrated sites. Under “web categories to block” choose UNRATED (along with many/most of the other options). Remember that you can selectively UNBLOCK websites that you know to be safe, but once someone visited an inappropriate site, it’s already too late. The reason why blocking “unrated” sites is so important is that new sites are made every second. K9 cannot possibly manually categorize them all. So until they get to a particular site (you can request a rating), BLOCK it. Better safe than sorry. Of course… Read more »
Portable browsers CANNOT get around K9.
It is installed as a proxy right below the tcp/ip stack. any application calling the ip stack is first routed through the proxy before and is filtered upon entering the network interface, through the proxy. this proxy is hooked in such a way that if you delete it, the ip stack will close, and no data will be able to flow through it anymore.
Kosher net does not block flash video, this means videos in a flash player and banners will still be seen.
it slows down your internet and it does not block usb with a portable browser.
and for spying on your kids… YOU CANT SPY ON YOUR KIDS
they are your you have a responsibility to see everything they do. its not called spying.
GET KOSHERNET!! ITS THE BEST!!!
GET IT TODAY!!!!!
k-9 is practically useless anyone can replace it
but the idea is somewhat usefull
i use safe eyes not the best program and it cost i think i will try k9 if its free
K9 is the way to go!!!
K9 is *much* better then nothing. Those with young kids should go and install it right now, no reason in the world not to! This is absolute minimum and author of the article makes a great point here.
As far as spying goes, once kid gets a hint he is being spied on, he will find other means to get to internet (any handheld will do) So while argument can be maid it still worth it, think about possible backlash of spying as well..
You mentioned a hospital in Japan for people addicted to the internet. Unfortantely, the dangers of the internet can also affect adults as well as children. A wonderful website for Frum people with intrenet addiction is http://www.guardyoureyes.com
“school, work, parenting and other responsibilities suffer because people can’t pull themselves away from the computer” you are so right! Thank you for raising awareness to this problem.
having k9 or any other type of software will never replace the real parental control needed when allowing your kids online. make sure to keep a healthy balance of both. what k9 wont block – independent portable web browsers that you can load up via a CD DVD or mostly used Memory chips. as you get smarter… so do your kids. i recommend not using k9 but using 2 other softwares. 1. windows steady state – free down load from Microsoft: go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?LinkID=117104 use this software to create proper users for PC giving each user a customized usage of time and… Read more »
Good article Shea!
Wow! an op-ed with a name! Thank you Rabbi Hecht for sharing. Points well taken.
OK!