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Keeping a Beard

"Many think that the Tzemach Tzedek's ruling against removing one's beard is an individual opinion," the late Crown Heights Rov Zalman Dworkin wrote in 5737. Full Story

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YEchi Hamelech
February 6, 2010 2:36 pm

you should be m’farsom this to the telshe yeshiva
in ohio bec. i live there and they need to see this.

nowadays
February 4, 2010 6:26 am

bochurim who pick trim or touch in whatever form mostly do it for that being “in” pressure with friends whether it be male or a female

in our schools we would be focusing on other things so the bochurim wouldn’t be touching there beards
there would be no reason to

Rabbi Yeheskel Lebovic
February 4, 2010 6:21 am

The very fact that the stress had to be made is a sad comment. The Rebbe Rashab and the Chofetz Chaim once met. The later said to the former: ” I don’t understand how you do it. You don’t even have to speak about the need of not touching the beard, as all your chassidim automatically abide by the requirement. And I …..no matter how much I speak about it, we still have the same problems… (not verbatim)

#8
February 4, 2010 6:14 am

today any time anyone can’t control them-selfs it’s an addiction,illness etc. Yeridas hadoros

go telz!!!
February 4, 2010 5:44 am
Sit together best mashpiim, Rabbonim & down to earth people
February 4, 2010 5:27 am

let them go through the curriculum to be studied by a bochur or a girl in the system, let them identify according to the problems seen, (you may interview some happy and not so happy kids that went through the system) that mostly come from ignorance, what needs to be emphasized, and from experts at what age, and either bring it into the curriculum, or be mashpia those things at a farbrengen, through special peulos of older bochrim, at camp, but make sure kids will learn them. then of course check the quality of the teachers etc. there is no… Read more »

i agree with post 1
February 3, 2010 4:41 pm

if you cant stop yourself… to get professional help!
once you cannot control your behaviour, you are clinically an “ADDICT”
AIN HACHOVUSH MATIR ES ATZMO
you are MECHUYAV to get treatment

(no different than any other behavior which you know is wring but cant stop! such as gambling alcohol or seeking attention for the wrong reasons

to#4 WRONG!
February 3, 2010 4:32 pm

shows either one of two things: lack Yiras Shamayim or lack Knowledge! of the terrible consequences

go ask (same ignorance as with TZNIUS)
February 3, 2010 3:52 pm

i’d bet that if you ask any of those bochurim who pick what exactly is bad about picking, the answer will prove how little the average bocher was taught on the subject!

i’m also sure that for many, knowledge of the financial repercussions (and health nachas etc) would be enough to persuade them NEVER to pluck a single hair again!

its like tznius for girls,

most abusers know little to nothing about the direct link between their (choice of) dress and the resulting tragedies (foretold in kabbala and mussar) that befall a community

knowledge knowledge my friends!

the system?
February 3, 2010 3:41 pm

the problem is that the system prioritizes other subjects above the practically relevant ones!!

touching your beard...
February 3, 2010 3:29 pm

Shows that you lack Yiras Shamayim.

Rabbi Wiener
February 3, 2010 3:13 pm

Rabbi Wiener is the best!!!!!!!!!! May he be blessed with all the good in the world!

very interesting!
February 3, 2010 2:44 pm

if its soo important to ones life success! why dosent the Yeshiva alocate a couple of hrs per year tolearn the Key mekoros, i’m sure it can be squeezed in!

there is no excuse "i pick my beard" out of habit
February 3, 2010 2:42 pm

despite common practice by many Roshei Yeshiva and Magidei shourim (who pick “BEFARHESYEH”) the unstoppable urge to “pluck” is actually a real psychiatric condition known as: “TRICKATILAMANIA” trick-a-til-a-mania if you Google “TRICKATILAMANIA” or check out wikipedia you’ll see that what the Rebbeh said many years ago “that its a MACHALA = illness, and most be persued as such by an appropreate expert! as for the Man by dollars who told the Rebbeh that nothing remedied his urge the Rebbeh suggested Gloves as a better last resort (vs Mustard) these visiable Mashpiim etc send an unspoken message by their picking namely… Read more »

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